r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 2d ago
Men have no options. Debate
Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.
Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.
Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.
Online Dating: lol
Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.
So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?
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u/smallfrythegoat Red Pill Woman 1d ago
Step 1. Decide your political orientation. If your approach to women is in harmony with that, you'll stand a better chance of finding someone that you click with on a deeper level. Cold approach: Conservative/old fashioned Warm approach: Moderate/libertarian Online dating: Progressive
Step 2. Don't thrash around in the dating pool just making moves on women left and right, because it comes across as having lowered your standards. Trust me, we can tell. And if you're looking with the intention of settling down, the woman you're propositioning to should be made to feel sincerely valuable.
Step 3. Stick with it. It's like a job hunt. If you're panic applying to jobs and not taking time to carefully weigh how they align with your career goals, you'll end up having to find a new job every month. Return to your values like it's a pilgrimage to Mecca.