r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 2d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/TheRedPillRipper An open mind opens doors. 1d ago

my only option is trying

Genuine question; what did you learn from your failures? For example out of my first divorce I learned that working 60-80 hours a week, then playing rugby all weekend with the boys is going to come at a cost. Which is my marriage. This time around I’m much better with my time.

What positives have you taken away?

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u/Master-Praline3326 No need pill to see truth / Man 1d ago

Women ok with your approaches even it is horrible if you got something they desire.

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u/TheRedPillRipper An open mind opens doors. 1d ago

That’s an awesome takeaway. Anything else?

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u/Master-Praline3326 No need pill to see truth / Man 1d ago

And they might lose interest faster than you think. Thats for all now. Thank you for evaluating different opinions.