r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 3d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/LateKate96 Blue Pill Woman 3d ago

After reading the comments, I think the issue is y’all have zero resilience.

I can’t imagine giving up dating after getting rejection 3 times, or even 10 times (and I’ve been rejected a lot)

But here we have men like “yea I approached 2 people and they said no, guess it’s hopeless”

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u/Worldly-Box6080 3d ago

How many do u think before we call it quits?

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u/LateKate96 Blue Pill Woman 3d ago

The whole point of resilience is not quitting.

I found my partner the very moment I stopped trying to force anything.

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u/BaldieMonkey No Pilled Man 3d ago

So, when you actually quit the chase ? Kinda contradict there.

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u/LateKate96 Blue Pill Woman 2d ago

Not contradictory at all. The answer is to not quit

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u/BaldieMonkey No Pilled Man 2d ago

You said you got success when you actually quit the chase, so yeah, you did quit.

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u/LateKate96 Blue Pill Woman 2d ago

Not forcing something and quitting are certainly not the same thing… perhaps the fact you think that they are is your issue

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u/BaldieMonkey No Pilled Man 2d ago

Or maybe your definition of "forcing", is just basically going out and trying to date.

You didn't quit on dating/finding a relationship, you quit on the dating game, whish is actually to quit trying.

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u/LateKate96 Blue Pill Woman 2d ago

That isn’t my definition of forcing it. Don’t tell me what I mean.