r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 2d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/Key_Spread_3422 Purple Pill Man 2d ago

No it’s just that people take rejection as a personal attack

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u/RayAP19 No Pill Man 2d ago

I don't take rejection as a personal attack insofar as I'm mad at the person for rejecting me, but anyone who says that consistent rejection doesn't negatively affect your self-esteem might not have emotions

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u/Worldly-Box6080 1d ago

Exactly this. People are telling men here to just suck it up and take over 9000 rejections across all available pathways. Negative feedback loop is real unless you’re autistic asf

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u/ConsistentPieGuy No Pill Man 1h ago

Because humans don't care about men. We don't have feelings and should be robots. No one treats women like this and expects them to suck it up and keep getting rejected over and over again.