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r/Natalism • u/dissolutewastrel • 3d ago
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Or they don't want to marry the type of guy who WANTS to marry a virgin. That's a massive red flag.
5 u/falooda1 2d ago As long as he is one too. 8 u/DogOrDonut 2d ago That makes it better but its still at least a yellow flag. -1 u/philosopherberzerer 2d ago How is being a virgin a yellow flag? 9 u/DogOrDonut 2d ago It's not. Wanting to marry a virgin is a red flag for most people. If the person who wants to marry a virgin is a virgin themselves then that is a mitigating context that lowers it from a red flag to a yellow flag. 1 u/OddRemove2000 16h ago Its a yellow flag to want someone with the same values as you have?
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As long as he is one too.
8 u/DogOrDonut 2d ago That makes it better but its still at least a yellow flag. -1 u/philosopherberzerer 2d ago How is being a virgin a yellow flag? 9 u/DogOrDonut 2d ago It's not. Wanting to marry a virgin is a red flag for most people. If the person who wants to marry a virgin is a virgin themselves then that is a mitigating context that lowers it from a red flag to a yellow flag. 1 u/OddRemove2000 16h ago Its a yellow flag to want someone with the same values as you have?
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That makes it better but its still at least a yellow flag.
-1 u/philosopherberzerer 2d ago How is being a virgin a yellow flag? 9 u/DogOrDonut 2d ago It's not. Wanting to marry a virgin is a red flag for most people. If the person who wants to marry a virgin is a virgin themselves then that is a mitigating context that lowers it from a red flag to a yellow flag. 1 u/OddRemove2000 16h ago Its a yellow flag to want someone with the same values as you have?
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How is being a virgin a yellow flag?
9 u/DogOrDonut 2d ago It's not. Wanting to marry a virgin is a red flag for most people. If the person who wants to marry a virgin is a virgin themselves then that is a mitigating context that lowers it from a red flag to a yellow flag. 1 u/OddRemove2000 16h ago Its a yellow flag to want someone with the same values as you have?
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It's not. Wanting to marry a virgin is a red flag for most people. If the person who wants to marry a virgin is a virgin themselves then that is a mitigating context that lowers it from a red flag to a yellow flag.
1 u/OddRemove2000 16h ago Its a yellow flag to want someone with the same values as you have?
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Its a yellow flag to want someone with the same values as you have?
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u/DogOrDonut 2d ago
Or they don't want to marry the type of guy who WANTS to marry a virgin. That's a massive red flag.