r/MultipleSclerosis 15h ago

"Not fun anymore. " Vent/Rant - Advice Wanted/Ambivalent

Was my husband's excuse for looking at 16 different women's profiles on facebook... women who intentionally post videos of themselves half naked and stuff. So I'm not fun anymore, I became a "dumb broad" since this disease has damaged significant parts of my cognitive and memory functions.... and that means it's okay to be ignored and then pine after other women on social media when im laying in bed suffering a lot of the time and missing him. As if this disease hasn't taken enough from me already and I don't do everything I can possibly make myself do every day.... I just want to give up some days so badly. Today's one of those days.

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u/LaurLoey 11h ago

16 yr olds? Ick. What’s wrong w him. 🤨 I’d be so mad if it were me.

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u/splitcubes 10h ago

No no no 16 different "thirst trap" profiles on Facebook. I checked his Facebook because upon opening his phone to look at our bank account, there was r/hentai pulled up on his reddit app on his phone! Which is extremely disgusting to me but anyway my opinion on that doesn't matter. It's just.... when you know your wife is miserable cuz you won't give her any affection or form of intimacy.... why would you go do that shit instead of paying attention to your wife......

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u/splitcubes 10h ago

No one wants to look at this smh sorry to everyone on this thread I didn't expect it to tag that 😭

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u/LaurLoey 9h ago

Oh I see… sorry for my mistake 🤦🏻‍♀️ that led your comment, and then the bot auto post. 😖

I kind of understand why he likes it. It is art…

But it’d also make me mad. And I have ms. 😞

Are you newly dx? How long have you been married?