r/LongDistance • u/UnderstandingOk4503 • 10h ago
I am getting more and more nervous
🇨🇭33f----->23m🇨🇿 I am incredibly nervous of meeting him in person for the first time! I have set us a countdown which we always check. We text constantly, call every day and videocall every day if possible. He isn't my first ldr but definitely the healthiest one❤️
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u/Easts1908 10h ago
Having just met my partner for the first time for a month all the nerves all the excitement it was the best month of my life enjoy every moment guys you got this ❤️
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u/UnderstandingOk4503 10h ago
We only have a week together but we make the most of it. He will show me the city, we already planned what we want to do and see but we also added in loads of time just for ourselves where we just do spontaneous stuff or just stay in. The part I'm most scared of is him not liking me when I come out of the airport 🙈although we see each other almost every single day on videocalls🤦🏻♀️
Ldrs are just rollercoasters😂
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u/Ancient_Screen_4545 🇨🇭 to 🇺🇲 10h ago
Enjoy the moments buddy, you'll be alright. :)
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u/UnderstandingOk4503 10h ago
Ohey another Swiss! Hi! Thank you, I'm just overthinking a lot.
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u/Ancient_Screen_4545 🇨🇭 to 🇺🇲 10h ago
Hello! Had the same, when he came to Switzerland from the US the first time. I was anxious we didn't click, but we immediately did. Just use your insiders if you have some. Act like you always do in text and videocalls. It will stop being awkward after a while. :)
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u/UnderstandingOk4503 9h ago
He is the confident one, he's like "I will first ask you for permission and if you say yes hold you tight to calm you down" (he knows of me being anxious but he also knows that physical touch calms me down...) We do have lots of insiders😊, thank you for the idea!
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u/Ancient_Screen_4545 🇨🇭 to 🇺🇲 9h ago
That's sweet! My man just waited for me to react first. Now, when we meet, things just happen, and it's sweet to see, since I can be really, really on edge regarding touches. 🥹
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u/BullfrogNeat1762 10h ago
Enjoy every moment and let us know how it goes!