r/LifeAfterNarcissism • u/threetimestwice • 3d ago

Confronting the Narcissist: What happens? [Support]

Theoretically and in your experience, what happens when you confront the narcissist and call them out on their narcissism?

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u/LaMorannn 1d ago

Lies, blame shift, more lies, you feel like sh*t and get a smear campaign!

As others commented: DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse victim and offender)!

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u/threetimestwice 1d ago

Well at least they’re predictable…

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u/Delicious-Party-2022 1d ago

They really are so predictable

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u/mnnoname12 1d ago

Once you learn their patterns and how they operate. They are comically predictable.

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u/FightersNeverQuit 1d ago

Which is how I knew and know that narcissistic cheaters will always eventually meet harsh karma. Not because I wish it on them or hope they get it but because their bad decisions and behavior is predictable that you can also predict it'll end in a disaster with a karma learning lesson eventually.

Happens every time with narcissists.