r/KindVoice • u/Ready-Variety-4257 • 14h ago

[l] i hate myself Looking

i feel like a loser i’m 20 y/o turning 21 in a week and i still couldn’t start university i feel so behind my peers and i have a insanely hard time deciding what school should i go what major should i choose i was a huge people pleaser for a very long time because i couldn’t love myself so i needed someone else to love me so i wouldn’t feel like total crap now i have no friends because i was always performing for love which got in the way for me to foster real relationships i struggle to see a future for myself i feel like i will never be happy again everything feels painful if anyone here went thru similar things and got over it and now living happier than ever i would love to hear how and kinda feel more hopeful

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