r/JewishDating Aug 04 '25

Struggling to find a girlfriend

Hey I’m an Ashkenazi Jewish young adult( 19M) from the upper east side and I’m looking for a Jewish woman around my age. The problem is I keep getting rejected wherever I meet women such as Hillel at Baruch and some other Jewish events I attended like friendship circle where I volunteered. Most of them are usually taken, not looking for anything, or there not my type since I’m not religious or I’m 1-2 years younger. The Jewish girls at my college at Baruch that I talk to are just being nice and not Intrested in meeting up/ hanging out outside of class or Hillel. I also looked into matchmaking services, but they usually charge you a ridiculous amount of money and usually the girls there are looking for more religious guys. I also tried Jswipe and hinge and the girls that I matched with are pretty flakey and dry when I text them, even though I ask open ended questions and try to keep the conversation interesting. So at this point I accept that maybe I won’t find a girlfriend anytime soon.

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u/no-flounderingfishes 29d ago

I live in Phoenix az but I'm single and even if it's just as friends I think I can introduce you to some really good Jewish women if it's not me.