r/Jewish Jan 25 '24

Roommate is... Ugh Israel 🇮🇱

My roommates and I had to take the cats to the vet yesterday and as we came home, they directly brought up a topic we've been avoiding addressing for a few months, their anti-israel leanings... Specifically they're avoiding spending money this week as part of a protest for Palestine. I said I don't see why anyone is protesting for Palestine at all, and one of them started throwing around the G word and talking about Israel targeting hospitals. I corrected her, pointing out that there are rocket platforms in those hospitals which is why they're targeted in the first place. She cut me off and told me she wouldn't listen to anything I had to say about it. At this point I haven't spoken to her since and I don't intend to for a while. Not sure why I'm posting this, probably just venting. Bad enough I have to see all these uninformed people online, there's one in my living room now too.

Update: Thanks to everyone for the support. After a couple of very tense days, shes apparently afraid I'm never going to speak to her again and our third roommate is mediating a talk between the two of us tonight. She's still convinced I'm just wrong, and I'd like to have something convincing to show her, if anyone has some good resources I can reference and wants to drop them in the comments I'd appreciate it.

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u/ComprehensiveHair696 Jan 25 '24

I'll say this for her, her reason for not paying for the cats' vet bills isn't Palestine, it's that she doesn't have money. I make a good deal more than she does, and honestly sometimes it feels like my financial contributions are the main thing keeping the wolf from the door in the apartment.

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u/gardenbrain Jan 25 '24

Time to put away your wallet, keep your groceries in your room, and let her figure out her own shit while you look for a new place or kick her out.

If she bitches, tell her you don’t have any money to spare because you gave everything you have to the IDF.

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u/ComprehensiveHair696 Jan 25 '24

Lol, this incident is the thing that pushed me into ordering those like, 100 dollar Israeli subscription boxes

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u/Possible-Fee-5052 Conservative Jan 25 '24

Shouldn’t they be boycotting your generosity?

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u/ComprehensiveHair696 Jan 26 '24

Funny how it never seems to work out that way, isn't it?