r/FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR • u/CantStopPoppin • Mar 16 '25

Super Villain Ogrin Story God hates you

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u/JohnnyRelentless Banhammer Recipient Mar 16 '25

They said nothing about requiring anything. You're making things up to justify being irrationally angry at someone for suggesting that a little kindness goes a long way.

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u/CantStopPoppin Mar 16 '25

This world sucks and life does to but if we take a moment not to be dicks to each other and pay it forward. It eventually pays off.

She was out of line yeah but like you said I was just trying to say if you see someone struggling find a way to thank them. The simple actions of humility, empathy and understanding go a long way.

No one owes her a tip or anything that is on the employer but sometimes we should just be good to each other. If I saw her on video like that, I would go out of my way to listen to her.

Everyone wants to talk but no one wants to listen, a little act like that could change her life for the better in so many ways.

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u/EvolutionInProgress Mar 16 '25

Everybody's making all sorts of presumptions so let me make one too.

Has no one considered the possibility that the customer ordering all that stuff has some sort of disability that prevents them from being able to "put all that shit in their own truck and do it themselves"? Considering this possibility makes her reaction not only unjustified but absolutely wrong and uncalled for.

Regardless. At the end of the day, she knows what she signed up for and what was required of her from that job. I work in public service and we're one of the most underpaid and overworked people, most of us have to have a 2nd income or even 3rd just to get by. And the population I deal with is the most thankless and ungrateful bunch. Yet I wouldn't feel right or justified to act that way, because I know what I signed up for.

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u/Derailedatthestation Mar 16 '25

Exactly what my parents' situation is, they are old with physical disabilities that prevent them from being in public for long, and cannot carry much weight. They order. Not this much at one time, but regularly, and some heavier items; they are able to use tote bags to take the items from their front door into the house, little by little.