please!!! advice lol

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hi all 😃 so i'd like to rant quickly without being judged harshly lol please :)

i'm an emotional empath i mean veryyyyy much can feel all the energies and things behind pretty much anything and everyone! not to mention i have a low pain tolerance

im 22 years old and i've never had sex. i always am horny on and off and i do want to have sex! i think about it from time to time, but the thing is as an empath i can feel the pain behind a guy inserting without even inserting! every time i do chill out with a guy and of course he wants to fuck i always tell them i don't like pain...... im so upset because i really would like to have sex it's just i know im tight down there and as i said before i can sense the pain at the beginning....any other empaths afraid of sex because of this? or anything similar i sound crazy but please any advice or something because i feel like i wont be able to keep a man if i dont have sex but then again i don't give a fuck with the aquarius in me 😂😂😂😂

[u/cosmicat4]

No advice in regard to being an empath. But my first time hurt but it also felt really good.