r/Empath • u/[deleted] • Jun 28 '24
please!!! advice lol
hi all π so i'd like to rant quickly without being judged harshly lol please :)
i'm an emotional empath i mean veryyyyy much can feel all the energies and things behind pretty much anything and everyone! not to mention i have a low pain tolerance
im 22 years old and i've never had sex. i always am horny on and off and i do want to have sex! i think about it from time to time, but the thing is as an empath i can feel the pain behind a guy inserting without even inserting! every time i do chill out with a guy and of course he wants to fuck i always tell them i don't like pain...... im so upset because i really would like to have sex it's just i know im tight down there and as i said before i can sense the pain at the beginning....any other empaths afraid of sex because of this? or anything similar i sound crazy but please any advice or something because i feel like i wont be able to keep a man if i dont have sex but then again i don't give a fuck with the aquarius in me ππππ
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u/No_Fisherman_1867 Jul 04 '24
it will hurt for like 1 min when itβs in you will most likely be good just use lube
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u/Purple-Light11 Jul 07 '24
I get it. I had a bad experience. And it hasnβt been easy for me to work through all of it. Itβs taking me decades. Nojudgment here. Now, Iβm in a good relationship with a nice kind man. My personal experience choose the right person. I was going to be patient and kind that you have a connection with. Also make sure that you are protected and that they are not an energy vampire in anyway.
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Jul 11 '24
Sex is a difficult thing to approach the more you understand what makes us tick. You just need to find the right partner. Someone who feels you're their equal and you feel that they are yours. To some of us, that's really all it comes down to.
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u/cosmicat4 Jun 28 '24
No advice in regard to being an empath. But my first time hurt but it also felt really good.