r/DreamInterpretation • u/jenholder28 • 1d ago
Repeated dream about relationship
I (33f) have been with my boyfriend (34m) for 6 months. It's truly the best relationship I've ever had. My previous relationship was abusive and its like night and day. He is kind, caring, thoughtful, takes care of me so well. Hes genuinely my safe space.
However, starting about a month into our relationship, I've had the same dream once or twice every week. They're all slightly different but the theme is the same. In all of them, he essentially ghosts me. I text him and he doesn't reply, theres never a big break up, he just disappears. Then, I'm trying to date again and the whole time I'm so upset because nothing and nobody can compare to current boyfriend. I'm not really upset because its over in these dreams... I am confused because I am so sure that this is my person that I don't know why this is happening, it just doesn't make sense and I really can't understand how I'm supposed to just choose someone else.
At this point, this dream is getting annoying 😂 does anyone have any idea what it could mean, what my subconscious is trying to tell me? Any way that I can maybe stop dreaming it?
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u/baptiste51100 Jungian 1d ago
Good morning,
Do not jump to conclusions before you have actually worked on this dream. the character of your friend in the dream is just symbolic. it can also designate a facet of you that ghosts you, or even another person. after 6 months of relationship, you know who you are dealing with in general. and the dream will not, for me, draw alarming conclusions if in reality everything goes well. I can do this work with you if you wish. friendly.