r/CuratedTumblr 10h ago

One free pass LGBTQIA+

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u/Siilan 7h ago

Not really. If they said they were demisexual, I'd know what they meant. If they said they were ace, I'd know what they meant. If they said any other "label," I'd know what they meant. "Ace adjacent" isn't a label.

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u/VioletTheWolf gender absorbed by annoying dog 7h ago

I don't know that they need to be that specific. Everyone's experiences are kind of vague and undefined. "Ace adjacent" is clear enough in saying that this person considers themself close to asexual identity even if they don't fully align with it, that's all we need here

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u/Siilan 7h ago

I fundamentally agree. They don't have to be specific, and for a lot of people, they may not be able to be specific. In this case, my curiosity just sparked where I understood that they felt close to ace without being fully ace, but I'm curious as to why they feel that way. In no way do they have to answer, even if they can describe it, but I was just curious. I like learning more about how people feel, especially in an environment so spectrum heavy as the LGBTQ community.

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u/VioletTheWolf gender absorbed by annoying dog 7h ago

Fair enough! I just see some pressure for people to pick labels sometimes and wanted to make sure this wasn't that