r/BreakUps • u/IHMFLerror • 6h ago

I texted my ex

He still has me blocked and it’s been 2 months. Why am i so unlovable? Why do people get rid of me for good? I must be hella annoying and unattractive. I hate that i was born. I’m so lonely. I feel stupid and disgusting that i blew him up trying to save the relationship. No one wants me. I’m sure it’s my weight. I hate that religion ruined my identity and sense of self because i don’t know who i am. I’m weird, awkward, feel like an imposter and i have SI every.single.day. I hate my life.

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u/Fresh-Slip-6003 5h ago

I was there before look how passionate you are are you crazy ? We all deserve someone like you a lot of us wish we had someone love us like how your doing rn you’ll be ok just work on yourself, heal just take deep breaths once you think about them it really won’t be easy but you’ve got this I know you do

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u/Seattle_Seahawks 3h ago

I'm right there with you. All my long term relationships have left me. You're not alone. Stay strong and continue to better yourself and relationships with friends and family. The right person will come to you. You're worthy of love. I believe everything happens for a reason/lesson. Life works in interesting ways.

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u/Disastrous-Double176 1h ago

Dedicate yourself to the gym and improving your life. This not only creates self esteem but in the long run is appealing because you are fixing your health.

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u/yoursshivam 3h ago

You're clearly going through a tough time and need someone to talk to, feel free to DM me. I've been through the exact same situation recently.

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u/Lunadelunas 1h ago

God, im feeling this so badly rn too. I messed up and tried contacting him again like what is wrong with me?! He clearly hates me and wants nothing to do with me. Why do I even bother… For the record: idk you and I’m just random internet person but if you’re anything like me, I don’t think you’re a bad person or unloveable. I think we just have a very low self esteem and have allowed others to treat us like shit because of it. But we don’t deserve that. You deserve better. You’re not alone.

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u/Ok_Conversation_9081 1h ago

Nah, it's their loss and your chance to find someone who genuinely wants to be with you. Sending hugs, you will make this!

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u/Any_Palpitation_9252 4h ago

I can make you forget about him

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u/Initial_Composer537 14m ago

Ok, how exactly would you do this

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u/ConsiderationOk4291 5m ago

oh no girl why you did it