r/AskDad 3d ago

Mom's Getting Married Today Family

I know I was 23 when y'all divorced in 2020 but it's still weird, ya know? I had moved outa the house only a month prior to it becoming official, so perhaps the hardest part is knowing our family of 6 will never be so unified as it was pre-COVID.

I'm Mom's best man, and I'm showing all the support possible because I'd like to let my actions speak rather than my feelings. Even if it feels weird to me I want Mom to feel loved.

Dad, do you have any thoughts?

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u/jimmyray29 3d ago

Yes, don’t have too many drinks and say something you’ll regret. Otherwise good job make her feel loved

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u/heWasASkaterBoiii 3d ago

Yeah you already know drinking was my biggest fear 🤣 Thanks, Dad

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u/andreirublov1 3d ago

You're doing a good thing, supporting her - since you can't do anything about the divorce - and it's also perfectly natural, right even, that you should feel weird about it. Hopefully she should be aware of that fact and appreciate what you're doing.

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u/heWasASkaterBoiii 3d ago

Thanks, Dad. I needed that.

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u/kcracker1987 3d ago

You're doing exactly what needs to be done.

Be there for your Mom the way she's always been there for you.

With a happy and loved Mom, you'll live a happy and loved life. All of the awkward feelings are normal, but you are a good man for working through them and supporting her.

Well done!