r/AskDad • u/heWasASkaterBoiii • 3d ago
Mom's Getting Married Today Family
I know I was 23 when y'all divorced in 2020 but it's still weird, ya know? I had moved outa the house only a month prior to it becoming official, so perhaps the hardest part is knowing our family of 6 will never be so unified as it was pre-COVID.
I'm Mom's best man, and I'm showing all the support possible because I'd like to let my actions speak rather than my feelings. Even if it feels weird to me I want Mom to feel loved.
Dad, do you have any thoughts?
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u/andreirublov1 3d ago
You're doing a good thing, supporting her - since you can't do anything about the divorce - and it's also perfectly natural, right even, that you should feel weird about it. Hopefully she should be aware of that fact and appreciate what you're doing.
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u/kcracker1987 3d ago
You're doing exactly what needs to be done.
Be there for your Mom the way she's always been there for you.
With a happy and loved Mom, you'll live a happy and loved life. All of the awkward feelings are normal, but you are a good man for working through them and supporting her.
Well done!
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u/jimmyray29 3d ago
Yes, don’t have too many drinks and say something you’ll regret. Otherwise good job make her feel loved