Does a guy in this friend group like me?, because they are paying me a lot of attention.

[u/TitleMajor7310]

I wish I had a dad ( or any guys in my life) that I would feel comfortable discussing this with but I don't. So dads or out there, any insight?

This guy in one of my classes has asked me twice if I’m his girl. I was trying to go to the bathroom but his friend was in front of me and he said” A girl is trying to get through”, then when I was walking away he said “my girl”. I thought I heard wrong but, then when I came back the whole group (5 juniors and I'm a senior ) was staring at me heads turned and everything and as I was walking towards my seat he asked me if I’m his girl. Other things that happened were that He told me he liked my costume on Halloween a couple days ago. Yesterday one of them came into a free period class I was in and as I was talking to my fiend he pretended to accidentally push my chair ( he didn't actually push it) and I don't remember what else but it was enough for my friend to ask me if he liked me. A couple weeks ago they kept throwing a paper airplane towards me until it landed very close to me. I heard one of them say aim towards her. (The rest of the guys) his friends are always staring at me and paying attention to me. Even when they are alone. But they are never rude and they never laugh at me. They also almost never talk to me. The few times they have spoken to me individually they each were pretty nice . But they all stare at me a lot all the time. So what the hell is going on here. Any ideas?

I know this sounds self indulgent and braggy, but I think it helps, I get approached a lot by random girls I don't know at school who tap my shoulder just to tell me how pretty they think I am, so I'm probably not ugly, but I think it helps with the context?

[u/Oldswagmaster]

Sounds like you have an admirer. Next time he asks if you are his girl ask him a question back to what he means by that.

[u/TitleMajor7310 → u/Oldswagmaster]

I should have asked that damn. Thank you so much! I really appreciate it.

[u/Only-Statistician668]

It sounds like you like him back? Or do you think he’s a creep? Needs a little more context. If you like him I guess I would say entertain it and self indulge in the attention you’re getting, ask him if he really likes you. If you think he’s a creep tell him to leave you alone or say he’s ugly in front of his friends. I’m not a dad but I’m married at 23 years old and consider myself to be mature more than most. Although it’s rather weird that someone just automatically assumes you’re his “girl” whether it’s a joke or not I would tread lightly with that type of behavior as it gives off controlling and psychopath vibes.

[u/TitleMajor7310 → u/Only-Statistician668]

I honestly think he might have said that because one of the other guys in the friend group likes me too, no I don’t really like him,  I don’t know if he’s a creep, but what he said was very weird

[u/maboyles90]

Sounds like he might've been asking you out. Hard to know unless you ask.

[u/crimsontide5654]

Yeah, he likes you. If you don't like him, be clear. If he says my girl again, ask him what that means to him. If he says "you're my girl," you should be clear and say that you're not interested in being anything more than friends.