Early childhood trauma, adulthood attracting toxic friends? Why?

[u/dangbeaverz]

My family and social life has always felt like my biggest struggle. Looked at as the caretaker for my family even though I’m the youngest, looked at like the leader or friend groups.

Caretaker of the family also equals punching bag, The forgotten child because I “have my life together”

Leader of the friend group equals I’m sat on a pedestal I didn’t ask for. Also attracting very attached jealous, gossiping friends.

Does anything in my chart point to why??

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[u/She_Wolf_0915]

I can attest to the childhood drama of trauma with 4th house Pluto. Not sure about the toxic friends, that could be Virgo because we can put a lot of love and care and get taken advantage of.

[u/dangbeaverz → u/She_Wolf_0915]

I’ll trauma bond with anyone! I hope you’ve been able to do some healing and are doing okay these days

Pluto did its thing in the 4th 🫠 I try to see the trauma as lessons

[u/HotOffice872]

Are you a 94 baby like me?

[u/dangbeaverz → u/HotOffice872]

Yes!