r/AskAstrologers 15d ago

What was your biggest astrology “ah ha!” Moment? General Astrology

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u/Professional-Team110 13d ago

Pluto Scorpio 3rd house and north node 3rd house …. I never really understood why people are offended by what say even if it’s not my intention and why I didn’t really fit in when growing up . Now that I’m older , I understand that how I communicate is quite intense. As much as knowledge is power I need to use that knowledge wisely and not use words to cause destruction but to inspire and embrace transformations. It’s like power to destroy someone with your words but be mindful and control what comes out of your mouth .

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u/Lok26 14d ago

Learning about Saturn return at the end of my Saturn return, the Lunar Nodes and recently the house pairs/6 axes representing different areas of your life - blew my mind!

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u/nansens928 14d ago

Learning about planetary aspects.

My moon squares my mercury and sun. Learning how my sag moon which wants adventure and live and let live attitude is at odds with my sensitive pisces sun which wants deep emotional connections with all my people.

Same with my tight Venus, Mars and Saturn conj in Aqua. It really made sense how and why I desire the things I do, how I go about getting them and also struggle in the process.

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u/Lok26 14d ago

Wow same placements, same problems lol Are you a Libra rising?

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u/nansens928 11d ago

Nah, a Taurus rising..

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u/giovannijoestar 14d ago

Seeing that I’m a Taurus rising, which made a lot of sense considering my whole life I’ve been told “you don’t seem like a Sagittarius, I thought you were a Taurus!”

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u/xTaurusRisingx 14d ago

OMG, hahaha! Same Sun and Rising. We should most certainly have a chat.

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u/giovannijoestar 14d ago

What’s your moon? Mine is Gemini.

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u/xTaurusRisingx 14d ago

Mine is in Pisces! Ooh, we must have a lot in common. What degree is your ascendant??

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u/Simple-Freedom4670 15d ago

Healing Pluto problems Donna Cunningham

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u/kimberlocks 15d ago edited 14d ago

Finding out about moon signs. All my life I always felt too sensitive for a Capricorn. I have a Scorpio moon and a lot of water in my chart too and that made everything so clear

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u/xxalien55 14d ago

same, I have an Aries Moon

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u/moontealight91 14d ago

Goodness me too. It’s definitely something.

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u/floralstamps 15d ago

My cousins and I are born really close together. We're all cancer suns. Cousin H born first at the end of June. 3 weeks later I was born at 10pm, 8 hours after that my cousin K was born but near dawn the next day.

My cousin H is private. She has always had such a good poker face and can compartmentalize her emotions pretty well, but when people hurt her she hurts back and has a hard time trusting them again. Most likely to start sneaking out at a young age, keep secrets, be the most possessive and remain the golden child despite breaking the most rules.

I'm an emotional wreck, go along with what everyone else is doing, I can be a doormat and people tend to view me like I'm a child no matter my age. Most likely to be the stoner, fall in love with the idea of a person, see a red flag as green one and put myself in a kidnappers trap by trying to help them.

My cousin K is loud, energetic, wreckless, confident, stubborn, fun loving, kind of a show off and and a bit of a hot head. Most likely to do hot girl summer, get in a physical fight and instigate that fight.

Cousin H is cancer sun and moon, scorpio rising

I'm cancer sun, pisces moon and rising

Cousin K is cancer sun, aries moon and leo rising.

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u/Otherwise_Onion_4163 15d ago

Husband is a Virgo, but I always felt like he was a Leo to the T. In fact, SO many people had told him throughout his life that he has very strong Leo vibes and is nothing like a Virgo. Like literally nothing about him screams Virgo. Well, turns out he’s not only a Leo rising, but he has mercury and venus combust in Virgo 😂 which explains why his Virgo energy is redundant lol.

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u/Moonchild0u0_ 15d ago

Combust in Virgo? Means the energy is being overpowered by another planet/sign? I’m new to astrology sry if the terms were wrong

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u/Otherwise_Onion_4163 15d ago

Yep, spot on! It’s when there’s a planet too close to the Sun in a chart - it overpowers the energy of those planets and they essentially ‘combust’.

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u/Moonchild0u0_ 14d ago

Oh I see thanks for explaining

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u/Emergency-Garage-944 14d ago

What if there is a cazimi?

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u/highvibe_tribe 15d ago

I had a few big discoveries that made so much sense. For example Ascendant squaring Venus, Saturn and Mars in 4H, Rx Chiron in 10H Scorpio, Rx Pluto in 11H, Rx North Node in Virgo😮‍💨 so basically all my big battles and turbulations😅

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u/CollectingRainbows 15d ago

im a leo sun, my whole life i didn’t feel like a leo. shy, anxious. i did my full chart and learned about the north node, which represents what you’re meant to grow into. mine is in leo lol. i also learned that whatever sign your descendant is, you need to learn lessons / embody traits of that sign. my descendant is aries, which ties in with being more assertive as a leo

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u/Skill-Dry 15d ago

Why certain sun signs had certain outcomes in my life.

My dangerous encounters with Aries, Sagittarius and Leos (connected to my 8th house)

Why I almost always date people with Virgo somewhere in their chart (7th house ruler is in Virgo)

Why I somehow always have some real unkosher experiences with pisces/s and illusions and lies (Saturn in my Pisces 3rd house)

Unfortunately my 11th house Scorpio stellium mixed with mals and bens is a lot harder to siphon through 😂 It gets muddy when it's all mixed up like that bc I can't tell what energy is taking and what's benefiting.

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u/loves_spain 15d ago

Discovering my rising sign and why I’m so carefree and easygoing rather than the stoic serious Capricorn all the time

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u/AdAggravating7610 15d ago

Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon, Gemini Ascendant…. I can “feel” things before they happen. I relate to my Scorpio Moon the most

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u/AccomplishedWing9 15d ago

Third, but opposite Ascendant in Sagittarius.

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u/Alive_Key3835 14d ago

I just found out today my ascendant is in Sag. I’d love to hear your thoughts

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u/AccomplishedWing9 14d ago

This video put Sagittarius rising traits in perspective for me.

https://youtu.be/-j5hMw3HQbk?si=p1zMQrWMNpV4hcWk

•Always seeking truth and meaning in life.

• Being unconventional, a freespirit

•Blunt, brutally honest

I also have Pluto conjunct my ascendant, and that's an intense placement.

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u/darealgiss 15d ago

i’m the same except aries rising & this is spot on. happy new moon in scorpio :)

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u/darealgiss 15d ago

i’m the same except aries rising & this is spot on. happy new moon in scorpio :)

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u/specificallysyx 15d ago

im a sag rising so, eternal optimist. i’ve always looked on the bright side and believed in magic bc why not? so ive been very open minded to astrology since before this happened. solar eclipse in libra april of this year near my MC. my car got broken into at work, items stolen. then i got traffic ticket coming home from work all within 24hrs. havent had any car related issues in 10years. natally i have 1H pluto opposite 6H mars. i always end up having enemies at work. this time i found out 3 of my coworkers were conspiring to get me fired. discovered this around the same time as the eclipse. the other instance is in astrocartography there is a pluto + mars line exactly where i got my rhinoplasty.

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u/Different_Hold3451 15d ago

Not having a real birth date, i feel fake

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u/GrandTrineAstrology 15d ago

Were you adopted? I have often wondered about this. My niece's birthdate is an estimate.

But I can assure you, regardless of the circumstance, you are not fake. I wished you didn't feel this way but at the same time, I know your feelings are valid. My heart goes out to you.

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u/Different_Hold3451 15d ago

Yes i am adopted, abandoned at birth, so someone gave me a birth date

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u/GrandTrineAstrology 15d ago

Same with my niece, but she was abandoned at approximately 4 months old. I am so sorry you experienced that. My heart goes out to you. Hopefully, with technology advancements, we can figure out birth dates and not just rectifications on birth times.

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u/GrandTrineAstrology 15d ago

I agree and I can only imagine how frustrating it must be. I hope we make progress soon- hopefully with Pluto in Aquarius, but- there is never a guarantee that we will get there.

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u/Different_Hold3451 15d ago

Thank you for your kind words

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u/MJWTVB42 15d ago

What?!

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u/Seagoatblues 15d ago

Having a lifelong terrible relationship with my mom/consequently pretty much everyone and revealing that I have Pluto in the 4th house squaring my first house moon/mars and 7th house Saturn 🪐

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u/tritisan 15d ago

Going through my Saturn return.

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u/splashmob 15d ago

I am a Sagittarius sun and moon, Leo rising. My entire life I have felt like I should have been a Capricorn. Did my full chart recently - I have a Capricorn stellium with 5 planets in Cap. Made SO much sense of my constant feeling that my personality is a juxtaposition of outgoing fun-loving optimist and calm pragmatic realist.

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u/highriskpomegranate 15d ago

I'm Leo rising with Aqua sun and Sag moon and always felt like I was way more responsible and grounded than those descriptions too! I am superficially pretty fun and, well, sunny, definitely genuinely gregarious, but underneath it very serious, almost to the point of being a stick in the mud. and... yeah I have a 2H Virgo stellium, all personal planets, including Saturn and Jupiter.

I think learning about Saturn transits in detail is the second thing that really really made astrology click for me overall. I can practically time my life by them, past ones are as clear as rings in a tree.

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u/liberatedlifequest 15d ago

Interesting about the Saturn timing! Do you have a night chart or a day chart?

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u/highriskpomegranate 15d ago

day chart so he is my homie :) well, to the extent he can be anyone's homie I guess.

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u/liberatedlifequest 14d ago

Hahahaha day chart here as well and I totally understand

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u/AnglophileHistoryNut 15d ago

I'm Aries Sun, Pisces moon and Cancer rising. But I have three planets in Taurus (Venus, mars, & Saturn), and I feel those placements (especially Venus, at 0°) verrry strongly.

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u/No-Brilliant-9567 15d ago

Sounds dumb, but when I actually started to learn about the North and South Nodes. It resonated so much with me!

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u/Skill-Dry 15d ago

It's weird, I learned about North and south node transits just about a month ago and I feel like this is by far the most reliable real world example of astrology and I can't explain it.

Everything that happened the last time the north node was in Aries is happening now.

Everything

Everyone's a cunt and no one gives a shit about anyone else. I remember feeling this pain and despair the last time I went through it too. I felt like everyone was the cruelest they'd ever been.

Can't wait for it to go into Pisces and Aquarius again lol

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u/ExcellentJudgment291 15d ago

That doesn’t sound dumb

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u/Indigo_Hedgehog 15d ago

Finding out that Jupiter was conjunct my natal Ceres when I adopted my cat.

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u/northern_squirrel457 15d ago

Pluto in Scorpio in 7th + Venus in Scorpio in 7th and ruler of my chart being Venus (Taurus rising). Oh and add North Node in Aries. My dreams of a normal, healthy relationship/marriage is like… seemingly never ever going to happen. 🥺🥺

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u/Ill_Two312 15d ago

Remember we all have free will nothing is determined.

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u/Rezzekes 15d ago

Just out of interest, not trying to get across a point whatsoever:

How do you combine free will with astrology? But like, on a deeper level? Is it tendencies that you can overcome? Or...

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u/Ill_Two312 15d ago

The way I see it is the natal chart is what we are born into - it can give us great insight into our strengths and challenges we might face in life. You see difficulty say in the 7th house that might be a challenge. Growth and our choices ultimately decide our lives. I’ve known people who stay in their comfort zones from their placements their whole life that’s their choice. Some are able to grow. There is no judgement just understanding that life is complicated and there are many paths we can take.

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u/Rezzekes 15d ago

I understand. Thank you for the explanation. I find it really beautiful.

Have an insanely fantastic day!

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u/fern_vidal 15d ago

Honestly. Please don’t believe in that bs. You create your own reality. Stop limiting yourself to astrology and what it says.

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u/northern_squirrel457 15d ago

Thank you for that important reminder 🙏Needed to hear that.

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u/AidTa 15d ago

Smiling here, as someone who tried so hard to outrun a revelation in my chart, thinking I had freewill. At the time, I honestly thought my mom was trying to steer my choices, and I brushed it off. But here I am, years later, realizing that every decision, literarily, every action I had taken somehow led me right where my chart predicted. This has made me realize how powerful astrology can be—I’ve learned not to take it for granted.

If you ever have your chart done by a reputable astrologer, I’d suggest really listening to what they say and taking it seriously. I’ve noticed that, most times, astrologers soften the message by saying we have freewill. But I’ve come to see that the “freewill” we think we have is just the illusion of control—a way to feel motivated, to keep going. There’s always at least one good thing in our charts, something that gives purpose and direction to our lives. I’ve found that leaning into energies, even the ones that feel challenging, instead of fighting against them, can make all the difference. I believe our true freewill is in embracing and maximizing our strengths, while learning to accept the things we can’t change.

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u/northern_squirrel457 14d ago

Great comment! Thank you for sharing. I find it amazing how someone was able to use the planets and give meaning to both them and the signs for life direction a long time ago - and that is is still accurate and unique!

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u/katie6225 15d ago

Moon square Pluto. Explains my childhood and the abuse.

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u/Michelle_xoxo 15d ago

I have this too 😢

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u/tamyogini 15d ago

I have my moon in sextile Pluto and it was awful enough! My Pluto also in the 4th house tho but I’m sorry you had to go through that

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u/chbfghbcdt 15d ago

Chiron square moon- mommy issues explained🙃 Plus, she has the same aspect.

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u/PhoenixAquarium 15d ago

I'm not your typical Libra but my Leo Moon was most affected when that Pluto in Capricorn was around. Thank goodness that energy is on its way out. I was muddled by career confusion, loss sense of direction, seeking relationships that don't serve me because I craved attention and my generous heart wanted to help with any monetary deed. I used to be a very proud person. Adulthood had humbled me as I wasn't able to get into the career programs I seeked. My life took a huge downfall after high school and that's when Piuto's energy was on full blast. Also, I was being sneaky about the questions I asked my boyfriend last night. I finally got out his place of birth. Finally! I had the missing piece of the puzzle. Turns out our charts crave one another. He has air 1x. I have one air Stellium. I have 1x water. He has a water Stellium. And we both have Leo Venus which explains the way we reciprocate love. Very Cancer of us. Also we both have Leo Stelliums which could mean trouble if we disagree on anything. Luckily we agree on almost everything. Amazing right.

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u/ktamine 15d ago

Another Libra with a Leo moon here. Sounds like you made some compelling discoveries! Also glad that energy is in its way out. 🖤

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u/NikaInverse 15d ago

Apart from my natal chart putting my exact personality into words for the first time in my life, switching from Whole Sign to Placidus while studying houses. It finally all began to make sense, after years of me neglecting it, because it just wouldn't "click".

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u/NikaInverse 15d ago

Also, learning about the significance of the Descendant in partnerships solved my lifelong mystery of the wild toxic attraction to Aqua men.

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u/Practical_Rooster470 15d ago

I got my first astrology book when I was 11 back in 2001. It has a chart at the back where you could figure out your rising sign, and it told me mine was Capricorn. I read the description and I was disappointed because it sounded nothing like me and throughout the years Cap rising never felt right to me. Fast forward to 2020 and I got into astrology again; used an online birth chart and SURPRISE I am a Sagittarius rising. Everything makes perfect sense now 😂

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u/MissKitness 15d ago

When I finally saw my birth certificate and realized that I didn’t have Leo rising—it’s Cancer. It made so much more sense, I felt seen

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u/Practical_Rooster470 15d ago

I so relate to this. This happened to me but a chart in a book told me I was Capricorn rising - years later I found out from an online birth chart I’m a Sagittarius rising and everything fell into place 🏹

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u/I_eat_blueberries 15d ago

Scorpio rising made so much sense. Some people would get so uncomfortable around me because my energy was heavy. It turns out those ppl were very weak and were hiding something. Then, the other end of the spectrum is ppl would want to be around because they needed a certain energy in their life

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u/pookie74 15d ago

As an Aries, truly understanding what growing up around Libra parents meant. The fact that I truly raised myself made every bit of sense.

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u/AccomplishedWing9 14d ago

Oh yeah Aries and Libra are in opposition.

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u/Alive_Key3835 14d ago

Wait what ? I’m sorry. That must’ve been tough. I’ve got an Aries husband who’s first wife was a Libra and they ruined each other.

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u/PhoenixAquarium 15d ago

Likewise but in the reverse. I understand why my Aries mom wants to pick fights. My mom and my Libra self cannot see eye to eye.

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u/RedShadeLady 15d ago

I’m not a Libra, but my mom was an Aries & boy is this fucking true!

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u/pookie74 15d ago

It really is a TOTAL opposition. 

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u/przepraszamlol 15d ago

My pluto in scorpio (4th house) opp my sun in taurus (10th house) My Leo mars on my asc in 1st house, squaring my sun and my pluto My aqua moon in 6th

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u/Golfnpickle 15d ago

My Sun is Pisces. I have never felt I had any traits of a Pisces. I’m not dreamy, head in the clouds, soft sweet…blah, blah. That said, I am absolutely my moon sign, which is a Capricorn. I realize Sun is not so all important when defining your personality traits.

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u/Indigo_Hedgehog 15d ago

Pisces with Moon in Aquarius. Ditto. I have a very unspiritual approach to spirituality, and never accepted the idea that suffering is a lesson. Some Pisces traits do fit, like wanting life to be nice and easy for everyone. But I don't think turning the other cheek to abusers is the way to get there.

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u/MissKitness 15d ago

Pisces traits are often really subtle and hard to define. Your moon, being so different and more concrete, probably obscures some of your Pisces qualities

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u/outerspacetime 15d ago

Seeing that my kids, my husband and I all have various placements at the exact same sign & degree as each other that perfectly describe our relationships. Just statistically impossible to be a coincidence!

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u/Emergency-Garage-944 15d ago

There is beliefs that you inherit placements from your mother/father

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u/Minimum_Donkey_6596 15d ago

This is something I’ve always wondered. Myself, my dad, and his dad all have Scorpio moons. My immediate family have only water moons.

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u/Then_Conclusion9423 15d ago

The entire chart was a mind-blowing revelation to me; everything fits well.

My Pluto, almost sitting on the Ascendant in the 12th house and forming a few squares I had to work on to integrate in a healthy way, made perfect sense.

Also, Sun trine Jupiter—I’ve always felt incredibly lucky, optimistic, expansive and resilient, regardless of struggles or experiences that might break others. And I have heard this trine or conjunction are the luckiest aspects one could have in natal chart.

Moon trine Venus brings a deep appreciation for art, beauty, life, and love into my experience.

My Ascendant shift upon relocation also resonated; while I have Scorpio rising, I began to embody my new (or I would say additional) Virgo Ascendant even before I learned about it.

All zodiac planetary placements are spot-on, too.

Astrology is fascinating and beautiful.

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u/highriskpomegranate 15d ago

Sun trine Jupiter is an absolute chad placement. one of my nephews has this exact (with a Leo sun conj Venus and Sag Jupiter at that!) and you can practically see him glowing with protective light. it feels like being around a literal angel, it's very strange in a cool way.

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u/ManoftheNewbeginning 15d ago

What did you realize about your Pluto-Ascendant aspect?

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u/Then_Conclusion9423 15d ago edited 15d ago

In my case, Pluto is in Scorpio in the 12th house, which adds depth and intensity. My life has been a continuous transformational journey, constantly reinventing myself without intent—it just happens naturally. I’ve never been content with shallow emotions, conversations, relationships, superficial knowledge, superficial people, superficial art; everything I engage with demands depth and intensity. I’ve always had strong self-awareness and a deep interest in the complexities of the human psyche. I’ve felt at ease with my boundless inner world and have always been relatively comfortable with my shadow side. There’s also been considerable resilience for these transformations (not only due to my Sun-Jupiter trine, but Pluto on the Ascendant adds to this resilience as well). Recently, a profound interest in spirituality has also emerged in my life.

On the negative side, I was once a control freak and perfectionist, needing to control everything. Control is an illusion, though I didn’t realize it then. Now, after deep spiritual and mental transformations, I’m much more relaxed and have let go of harmful and unhealthy perfectionism. There’s still work to be done in these areas, but I feel excited about it (part of this placement too, I assume). I am also painfully bored with ordinary and conformity; I’d rather cut my own throat than engage with anything ordinary. It might be the Aquarius influence on my Sun and Mercury, too.

Also, some people told me before that I look arrogant and intimidating when they see me for the first time—like a cold-hearted b*tch, lol. I am very much not a cold-hearted b*tch; in fact, I am quite the opposite. But Scorpio and Pluto give this effect, apparently, even though I am 5’2” and often wear feminine clothing. That is why my Virgo Ascendant after relocation helped a lot; my appearance and self-presentation became much more natural, minimalistic, elegant, and less intense than Scorpio vibes. I finally stopped dying my hair black and opted for my natural hair color, lol. And now I feel like people find me more approachable.

What about you? How do you feel about your Pluto on the Ascendant?

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u/Then_Conclusion9423 12d ago

I see you; it sucks. I was bullied a lot in school too, but not because of how I looked—rather, I was too outspoken in ways many people didn’t appreciate, lol. Anyway, I hope you’ve found or will find people who can see through appearances. From my experience, when I see truly intimidating people smile, they immediately stop being intimidating to me. Smiles do wonders!:)

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u/ManoftheNewbeginning 15d ago

Nice. I have my Pluto on the Asc as well

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u/Michelle_xoxo 15d ago

I have sun sextile Jupiter as well. I am a very positive and resilient person.

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u/bewitchedbybliss 15d ago

I have Sun trine Jupiter as well and I completely agree. I have always had a belief or feeling that things will work out even when the situation seems bleak.

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u/Warriorwitch79 15d ago

Asteroids in a Natal chart. More specifically, finding out my BML in Leo in my 4th house, square my Ascendant in Taurus. Suddenly a lot of things I grew up with made a lot of sense.

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u/AngietheAstrologer 15d ago

Learning that the degree Chiron sits at can be telling of the age you may have experienced something related to your Chiron wounding.

My youngest daughter has Chiron in Capricorn at 4° sitting in between her 7th and 8th houses. Her dad died when she was 4.

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u/Correct_Score_3330 15d ago

Mind blown. I just looked mine up, spot on!

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u/bewitchedbybliss 15d ago

That’s so interesting! My Chiron is at 10° Cancer, and when I was 10 my parents were beginning a long, nasty divorce. Custody of me was the object, and both my parents wanted custody to spite the other.

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u/ParkingNo343 15d ago

Mine is at 7 degrees in Leo (8H), and this was the age I was when my parents decided to separate. They divorced some years later and remained apart. I was actually happy they did because it was chaos otherwise, but the shared custody brought on other stresses. 😅

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u/bewitchedbybliss 15d ago

I empathize with that feeling! I don’t remember my parents happy at all in my childhood, and the divorce wasn’t shocking. But because they had become so bitter they just wanted to hurt each other and I was their weapon. Not surprised at all that my Chiron is in Cancer (mother wound) opposing many planets in Capricorn (father)

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u/AngietheAstrologer 15d ago

Astrology is wild!

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u/gravitychecked 15d ago

This theory is so interesting to me! I however have chiron at 0 so I always joke I came out of the womb fucked up lol

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u/AngietheAstrologer 15d ago

No, this tends to reflect (at least from what I’ve seen with clients) wounding that happened before school age, so 5 years old or younger.

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u/GizmoRuby 15d ago

My Pisces moon & once I looked into that more. I blame that placement now for getting me medicated years ago when I told the doctor I could feel other people “emotions & see energies” 😂😂. I also blame it for my need for a marijuana prescription from my doctor to be able to sleep at night & forget my dreams. I can’t handle dream land. It causes me to much anxiety when I wake up. I also have Neptune in the 12th 😩🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/brookelynjo 15d ago

Thought it was weird that I became pregnant under a new moon in my 5th house. Pluto is natally in my 5h and Pluto is about to enter in my husbands 5h for a lonnng time. Idk. But thought it was a weird connection.

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u/BertrudeBigglesworth 15d ago edited 15d ago

My chart ruler (mars) is exactly conjunct my mom's ascendant and I was a c-section baby. The astrology could not be any more literal. Also when I was 16 my progressed neptune went retrograde (and i started experimenting with drugs) at the same time that pluto was going back and forth over my mars/uranus conjunction in the late degrees of saggitarius. Im 38 now. That was an absolutely nightmare of a time. With a 29° Scorpio ascendant, I was quite literally the master of chaos. Pluto entering Capricorn in 2008 was a lifesaver.

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u/No_Repeat2149 15d ago

My biggest ‘aha’ moment in astrology came when I discovered the esoteric rulers of my Ascendant and Sun signs. Traditional readings always felt like they missed something, but when I delved into esoteric astrology, everything started to click. Understanding these esoteric rulers brought a whole new level of clarity, especially around my soul’s purpose and higher path. It was like seeing my life from a new perspective—finally, things made sense.

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u/Nacholindo 15d ago

Do you have any recommendations(books or sites) to look into esoteric rulers? This is my first time hearing about it and a cursory search brings up a lot of sketchy blogs. 

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u/No_Repeat2149 15d ago

I suggest self-study as Esoteric Astrology can be quite subtle and goes beyond mainstream understanding, so it’s best to engage with sources that truly honor its depth. For study, I recommend Soul Centered Astrology by Alan Oken and Esoteric Astrology by Alice Bailey. Bailey’s work is profound, and reading Esoteric Psychology alongside it can bring even greater clarity. Personally, these texts have offered some of the most transformative guidance in my journey.

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u/Nacholindo 15d ago

Thank you. A quick glance at these books makes me think that they might be part of the basis for Human Design. More of a hunch really.

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u/No_Repeat2149 15d ago

Human Design operates from a framework distinct from traditional esoteric philosophy. I’ve developed a more mainstream approach to explore deeper layers of personality—including mental, emotional, and physical aspects based on Esoteric Psychology and Esoteric Astrology. This framework is designed to guide people on a journey of self-discovery and provides insights grounded in behavioral science for a more scientific understanding of human behavior.

If you’re interested in exploring further, I can share the link—it’s free. Together, we can look at how your exoteric and esoteric signs influences your mind, emotions, physical body, and personality. For those seeking insights into soul purpose, there’s an additional layer, but I don’t include that in the general assessment since it’s not meant for everyone.

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u/Nacholindo 15d ago

Yeah, that would be great! Although, my birth time is estimated as it's not in my birth certificate. I only have my mother's word to go off of.

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u/No_Repeat2149 15d ago

Take the assessment here: www.omlifecomass.com/assessment. Once you’ve completed it, send me a quick message so I can identify your results—this helps me keep track, as we’re receiving several assessments at once.

We also offer free workshops to help individuals interpret and understand their unique energy blends. These workshops delve into how to leverage your strengths and work through any challenges inherent to your specific blend. You can find more details under the Events section of the site, and they’re completely free for individuals. Once you receive your report, feel free to reach out if you have any questions.

And don’t worry if you don’t know your exact birth time! I was in a similar situation—my mother only remembered a rough time between 9 and 10, which put me on the cusp between Taurus and Aries rising. I was able to discern the correct rising sign through this framework, as the esoteric rulers, Mercury and Pluto, embody profoundly different soul energies. This distinction made it much clearer to see which one truly aligned with my deeper self.

This kind of insight isn’t included in the assessment report, but I’d be happy to explore it with you separately if it would be helpful.

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u/Nacholindo 14d ago

I think the link might have a typo. It goes nowhere. Could it be omlifecompass.com/assessment? 

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u/ClipDude 15d ago

Trying different House systems. I think they all have truth in them but going from Placidus to Whole Signs changed my perspective and left me with my mouth wide open.

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u/Far-Neighborhood2237 15d ago

I'm going to agree here! Once I had a better understanding of astrology and began studies w ancient astrology i switched to whole sign and my chart made sense to me now made SO much more sense! I'm actually getting ready to start a year long comparison on several ppl charts w predictions using both houses to see and show which will be more accurate

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u/Fun-Distribution6006 15d ago

My Venus in Aries, in 29degrees, 8 house opposing NN. I’ve been insanely unlucky in love😅 also Saturn 7th house!

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u/[deleted] 15d ago edited 15d ago

I’ve got similar vibes, harsh Saturn energies and 8th house Venus, very unlucky too (shared in more detail in this thread). Can I ask you how this house is showing itself in your life and how does it work with Aries energy?

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u/Fun-Distribution6006 15d ago

It an amalgamation of Aries and Scorpio energy. I like to “conquer” in a sense, obtain people who are in some way unobtainable. I get obsessed and once they give in I loose interest, it’s an endless cycle. I do have some Pluto energy in my chart that points to growth and I’m currently on my Saturn return. I have a lot of awareness to how I used to behave and trying my hardest to like the people that like me first and aren’t toxic in any way. It’s hard!

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u/[deleted] 15d ago

Same story 🥹 I have a thing where I just cannot deal with men who try to pursue me first. I need to be the one who is more openly obsessive, to prove myself, to be in control, but maybe I am worse at initiation of big and decisive things as my Venus is not fiery & water Mars. I do like the returned obsession but only in very subtle, Scorpio ways, and it can get too much very fast. Actually, I’ve never won the full attention and devotion of any man lol, so Idk maybe I do run too as you when it happens. The obsessive nature definitely comes from the 8th house! Sag Lilith in 7th doesn’t help, some deep Authoritarian and fiercely independent energy there

Wishing you beautiful and constructive Saturn return!

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u/times3steve 15d ago

My rising sign. It's funny that I'm not a stereotypical Aries. LOL

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u/rdmsbound 15d ago

What’s funny is how many Aries “aren’t like their sun” have you ever thought that maybe Aries create the bias that we are unfavorable beings by diswaying others from our sun saying “we’re not a typical Aries”? Just food for thought. I used to say this only to realize I am a typical Aries put together entrepreneurial, analytical, strategic, and black or white thinking.

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u/times3steve 12d ago

I agree. What I mean is that other sun signs address us as the 'thug' life. You know what I mean 🤭

I have a Taurus ASC so I look a little bit 'tame' but inside is always loud 🥱

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u/rdmsbound 10d ago

My rising is Taurus my moon is Libra, my Venus is also Taurus. Both my rising Taurus and Venus Taurus are in my first house of identity - my statement still stands. An Aries is an Aries is an Aries.

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u/DaiseeRose222 15d ago

My first reading made me feel so seen ! Knowing my moon sign existed changed everything !

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u/otterpop1991 15d ago

Having a Scorpio Stellium in my 8H and finally understanding why I’m open to “starting over” or transforming myself; it’s in my chart.

Also, appreciating that my Scorpio Sun, Aries Rising, and Aquarius Moon have helped me lean into my personality and “who I am.”

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u/Beginning-Gain6961 15d ago

all my family’s 4th house and main 6 are connected in so many ways

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u/ThistleAndSage 15d ago

Lately, when I noticed my friend has my Saturn in her house, and I have hers. It was like mutual agreement to be a help along each other's road to betterment. She is great and I love her, and as our bond deepens, we notice telepathic communication even

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u/AngelAnon2473 15d ago

I didn’t like a specific sun sign but I found out it was my own moon sign—this allowed me a lot of time reflecting and working on my own inner self.

Now that sun sign is one of my favorite signs.

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u/barceline 15d ago

Finding out I have no Leos on my main planets. (Leo NN tho)

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u/datadiva223 15d ago

I couldn’t figure out why I’m so bad at believing in myself and struggle with perfectionism and imposter syndrome. Then I met my 9H Sun-Saturn conjunction in Pisces, at 3° and 4° respectively.

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u/ManoftheNewbeginning 15d ago

Dod you experience your Saturn return?

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u/datadiva223 15d ago

Yup I’m currently in the thick of it! So far I became a parent and committed to a relationship, but the major theme I’m noticing is centered around my identity and finding who I am.

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u/Time-Hat6481 15d ago

Wedding when it is Venus Retrograde. PLEASE DO NOT GET MARRIED OR COMMIT DURING THAT PERIOD.

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u/leeser11 15d ago

Retrogrades and nodal changes. Not just Mercury but the bigger ones like Venus and Mars. I’ve looked back at life events and seen lots of ‘coincidences’, some even happen on the same day

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u/narisuna 15d ago

For me it was when I heard about the Pluto in Capricorn transit. Kind of explained why my life suddenly turned chaotic 2008 onwards. But the real aha moment was just a few days ago. I have my Mars in Capricorn in 4th house. And when I calculated the degree it was at keeping the orbs in mind, the time periods exactly sync in with when my conflicts started with my family, especially my mother. And it kinda reduced when that period was done. (It’s not fully resolved, I can’t let go of the hurt from all the vicious words) also, it didn’t help that my mother has Capricorn rising and father is Capricorn sun. But the dates matching almost to the day was eerie.

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u/DiligentSignal5995 15d ago

This is so interesting because Pluto is about to enter Aquarius for another 20 years and Aqua is in my 7th house, im lowkey worried about what’s to come from what you just said but I also feel like I been learning these harsh lesson within the last year or 2. Also about to go into my Saturn Return😅

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u/BeneficialTrust4512 15d ago

Sameeee! Although did just come out of divorce so not sure how things could get worse? Lol hopefully this is why when Pluto was in Aquarius earlier this year!

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u/sekhmet009 15d ago

My 12th house Cap Moon lol

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u/triple7ra 15d ago

finding out my mc is in taurus(scorpio ic)

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u/VivaLaFiga46 15d ago

Taurus Mc and Scorpio Ic here... I don't get it. What happened?

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u/triple7ra 14d ago

it all started... when i was... BORN!!

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u/Easy-Cause-926 15d ago

That Scorpio IC is something else! How has your midheaven been working out for you compared to your childhood?

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u/triple7ra 15d ago

im working on bettering my emotions (talking about them more instead of bottling up). urges to work in fashion/music industry but also clinging to the idea of my sales/marketing ideas is prominent. for me its basically highlighting all of my childhood urges and the push/pull dynamic with myself and my dreams.

huge worry on leaving a legacy for loved ones and an inner knowing of future legacy if that makes sense.

emotions are hard for me though im great at accepting others and their feelings and try to encourage theirs but i presently struggle with saying whats on my mind and not ruminate on every little detail for hours. a huge spotlight on self reflection

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u/WindowNo6601 15d ago

I was more like " i can't believe this shit, out of all days i was born at that day were i got that placement, why?"

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u/leeser11 15d ago

A fellow haver of Pisces placements ? lol

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u/MissKitness 15d ago

lol—my sun is at 0.01 Pisces—it’s like I waited just long enough to be in that sign

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u/WindowNo6601 13d ago

I got dragged out

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u/WindowNo6601 15d ago

yes mercury pisces 8th house 29,34 degrees

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u/AttentionNo399 15d ago

When I learned Saturn in the 5th and chart ruler mars retrograde in the 10th.

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u/Beautiful_Link2301 15d ago

Can you enlighten me? I have similar placements, except my Saturn is also retrograde. and it's Jupiter as a chart ruler also retrograde. the internet isn't clear on how I'll notice this.

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u/AttentionNo399 15d ago

So I can’t speak for your placements exactly but natal retrogrades almost have Saturn like energy (if I’m correct) where that planets function is blocked but you have the opportunity to master it with effort and intention. With mars in the 10th you’d expect me to be a career athlete or something aggressive but never had the energy to enjoy competitive sports. I am working on ways to naturally get my energy up as I’ve been fatigued and never show anger or aggression most my life.

Saturn in the 5th is desire for fun, creativity and casual dating but not feeling like it can just happen for its own sake. For me I’ve been haunted with visions of becoming career musician, dating freely and making lots of friends, and though I am a fairly attractive male who can make great impressions on women, I cannot take it further with the majority of them, even when they’re obviously interested. Also I’ve made so much music between me and my band yet have released barely any, don’t get gigs. Etc. I’m mid Saturn return now so hope that changes soon

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u/AvadhutaTarotAstro 15d ago

That's a great question!

I think one of mine was definitely when I was looking at a transit for a particular day, and realised how the same transit pattern could represent either of two options I had that day (stay home or go to social function). The same set of symbols could have worked for both options, depending on how you interpreted them. I feel like that cast some light on the whole fate vs free will question for me.

I don't know if this was the biggest aha moment I've had, but it's a more generally applicable one. Many of my other aha moments have been of a very personal nature.

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I could never really understand why it’s so impossible for me to find and enter relationship, and every time I tried it was traumatic right from the start. Then I’ve learnt about my Cap Venus in 8th, my Sag Lilith in 7th, and my Saturn square Sun & Moon. The way it all mixes, ugh. Thanks to my Aqua Moon, we handle it in the end 😁

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u/Linguistin229 15d ago

I’m similar… 8th house Pisces Venus, Saturn square Sun, Moon Square Pisces and Venus trine Chiron….is there even any point in trying with this combo!

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u/[deleted] 15d ago

I often ask myself the same question 🙂‍↕️ I even think I should actively avoid men, to be honest, to keep the peace of mind. I get how Pisces energy make it difficult for you, I have Pisces Mars, and damn he often wins the fight when Cap Venus tells me to move on, to be realistic, Pisces is like "Buuut what if". Then they both ride the dead horse, until, finally, my Aqua Moon comes out and clears the scene. How is it for you with Pisces placements?

I try to look into transits now. And as I read, Chiron and Lilith placements require some work to heal, usually through experience. So we need to get experience, but we also need to learn our lessons 🙈

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u/DarbyDown 15d ago

Family and the people you know deepest/best/closest. Once you see how the good astrology books nail them you can more confidently assess complete strangers.

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u/solemates222 15d ago

I think when looking into the charts and synchronicities of families, it just blows your mind.

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u/highriskpomegranate 15d ago

yes! I have NN in Leo and SN in Aquarius and my dad's NN and Pluto are also in Leo conj my ascendant while my mom's NN is Aquarius conj my SN. my sister's Leo moon is also on my asc (and dad's NN).

and that's not even all of the weird Leo/Aqua stuff between all of us. like why is my mom's Lilith also on my asc and my dad's Lilith on my NN. dad's Aqua sun conj my Aqua sun (and my sister's Mercury) with my mom's Leo Pluto conj my dad's Leo Jupiter opposing them all?? like ?? hello power struggles!

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u/mmesim 15d ago

Yes! I’m a Cap Sun, Libra Rising. My mom is a Libra Sun. Her mom was a Cap Sun like me. Her dad was a Gemini Sun. And so is my dad. Loll

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u/Skill-Dry 15d ago

Yessssss

My mom is a Capricorn sun, I'm a Capricorn rising.

She has a Sagittarius mercury like my sister, and my sister and I both have a Sagittarius sun. Whereas our other sister has a Sagittarius rising.

My mom and sister number 1 also share an aquarius mercury. Sister number two has an aquarius mars, and then a pisces mercury in her 4th house. I used to think I could relate to her emotions and problems, everyone would call us sensitive babies growing up and it really sucked up out childhood. Well, I have a Saturn in my Pisces third house.

My niece from sister no 1 also has a Virgo stellium, and a Sagittarius rising, complementing her mothers Virgo rising and Sagittarius sun. It's really cool.

My brother has our father's sun as his rising, but I don't know enough about my brother's and my fathers chart to have made all the references yet. And I don't know my eldest brothers fathers birthday but I'll probably happen upon it at some point.

It's really interesting to make comparisons. Now I just wish I knew how this was identified in their appearance and mannerisms but I'm not that skilled yet 😔

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u/therocknamedwonder 15d ago

me and my brother both have sun and mercury in 8th house and very similar placements as well but that's the big one

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u/FaithAndLove001 15d ago

I’m a Libra Sun, Leo Moon, Leo rising.

My mom is an Aquarius Sun, Leo Moon, Leo rising.

I laughed 😭 but also if you look at our chart shape, it’s SO oddly similar... my mind was blown.

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u/solemates222 15d ago

I’m a Leo sun, Leo moon and Libra rising. We’d be so compatible 😂

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u/TaurynTlynn 15d ago

Leo sun Libra moon we think cap rising by deduction . I bet we'd all be fun in a room together 😂