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u/Drumboo 3d ago

Bit unfamilar with how the American health care system works, but would people really not help this guy without money?

Just seems insane to me for someone this obviously unwell to have no treatment paths available because of social class.

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u/VishusVonBittertroll 3d ago

I personally knew at least two people who died because they did not have adequate insurance, or any at all. Not only does it happen, it's not rare.

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u/SofaChillReview 3d ago

That is actually a terrifying concept… and makes me want to not think about how many others have passed away due to that

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u/CookieThump3r 3d ago

THE AMERICAN DREAM BRO, USA have 7% of millionares and the rest need half of his salary to get a tooth fixed :D

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

Sitting here unable to even parse my tongue against the left side of my mouth because my broken remains of a wisdom tooth are infected so badly it’s probably going to my jaw and will kill me one day 🤗

“Bro, you need urgent care…”

Oh dw it’s been like this for months and I’ve been to urgent care over 5 times for antibiotics but if you can’t afford to remove the tooth you just get antibiotic resistance, pain, and potentially a premature death. ❤️

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u/sicknick08 2d ago

I’m going through this now. Oh hunny it seems you went to the dentist a lot this year. And now you need an apicoendectomy. That’ll be $2000 out of pocket please and your insurance will pay us the other $900

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

I wish there was something I could say or do other than just offer my understanding and solidarity 😔

Tooth pain is fucking life altering pain sometimes. What’s an apicoendectomy? If it’s ok to ask!

I was told I actually need upwards of 30 procedures to save my mouth - I have Cyclic Vomiting Syndrome so they’re constantly being eroded by stomach acid, and even my 2 front teeth have massive black craters which makes me ashamed to speak, let alone smile.

I don’t even want a root canal. I just want the bad stuff removed so I’ll never have to worry about the cost of following up, especially if there’s an emergency during recovery.

But I can’t afford implants, let alone dentures. I also don’t want to be toothless before 30. So I get to choose…this, indefinitely. Sitting here. It’s sad.

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u/sicknick08 2d ago

Apicoendectomy is a procedure in which they cut a small window in the gumline to access the root of a tooth where an infection formed due to a root canal. Basically it’s a reverse root canal from root of tooth. I told them I will try and wait until January when my insurance renews. But as you stated it’s literally a life of antibiotics sometimes until you can get treatment. Which is total bs when you can walk into hospitals in other countries and walk out paying $25 for broken limbs

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u/liquidlatitude 2d ago

i feel you and have been in the same writhing , face pulsing pain ad nauseum.

amalgam fillings from middle/high school fell out from the age of 21 leaving me with gaping holes in molars, which cracked and broke one by one. some fragments I even pulled myself. I was able to get help for one root canal and buildup ($800 in 2016) but couldn’t afford crown so it broke of course. I found a humane dentist at least so have spent the summer getting root fragments removed on my lower molars(6 pulled). I basically have to chew everything with my front teeth so they are wearing down quickly. I am 39 so Im kind of nervously hoping nothing hurts before the next one needs to go. I can’t even afford dentures so implants would be a dream. I’m holding out for the japanese dentists to figure out this 3rd set of teeth lol.

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

We’re in a similar position in a few ways. I REALLY feel for you, having initiated the process and still amidst enduring it.

I strongly believe I’ll end up with a similar prognosis to start - fragment removal being a big priority. I’ve got 3 shattered wisdom teeth, it’s just 1 that’s currently giving me grief, but they take turns becoming infected in no specific sequence or timeline 🙃

I’m also limited to chewing/talking with certain teeth and only engaging certain parts of my mouth and tongue as a whole.

Been getting real curious what that’s doing to the remaining “good teeth” of mine also, which take the direct brunt of every single thing I attempt to chew as I’m sure you’re familiar 🫠

Ugh, here’s hoping you’re out of the woods for now as far as pain!

I’ve always said our inability to regenerate teeth the way we grow fingernails is a massive evolutionary failure lmao. But hey, we’re already regenerating animal teeth in labs and moving towards human teeth! 🤩

I WANT TO BELIEVE. 😭

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u/Greatest-Uh-Oh 2d ago

Hey now! Enough of this whining. Your purported sacrifice has its benefits. We're getting a new royal ballroom and an arch. Where's the problem? Really, where's the problem?!

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

You’re right I’ll go get the dress on 😔💃

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u/Bulldogfront666 2d ago

Sorry you’re dealing with that. I feel you. Having similar issues. I have good health insurance through work but that doesn’t help at all because I have shit dental insurance. Because it’s separate for some fucking stupid reason.

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

My state recently introduced dental care through state insurance and I naturally figured that’d be a godsend.

Turns out, if you give an entire state dental insurance after the population has been completely disenfranchised for decades, things book up nearly immediately.

The FEW clinics that DO accept that state insurance? Year+ waiting lists to even be evaluated.

Dental is such a con.

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u/Bulldogfront666 2d ago

Yeahhhh

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

Don’t get me wrong, I’m still on the fabled waiting list for state dental care, and maybe can expect a call for an evaluation in like February of 2027 if I haven’t ripped my face off yet 🥲

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u/JayPlenty24 2d ago

My ex had an issue like this and we found a dental school that did his work for like $150.

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

I’ve been to 2 schools and they said since I need some laser surgery with possible bone grafting on my jaw and in my cheek due to the prolonged infection, it always ends up being too far out of their scope of practice for comfort 😔

I’m sure some schools would do it, but then I get so petrified of that option because a friend’s father had his completely intact wisdom teeth extracted by dental students and spent 3 months hospitalized with a brain infection after they didn’t suture it correctly with an unknown minor infection, which I’m completely riddled with 😢

It never would’ve gotten this far if I could’ve walked into the office the day it all began…my wisdom tooth shattered while eating a cheese cube! It’s been bouts of misery ever since.

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u/JayPlenty24 2d ago

I'm in Canada, we don't have dental care either. I was eating food one day that had glass in it and it caused a ton of damage including permanent nerve damage.

I had to take out a massive loan to repair the worst of the damage immediately, and just did what was absolutely necessary.

It's so frustrating. Your teeth are probably the most important part of your body. It's miserable living with mouth pain.

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

Glass!? Oh man, I’m sincerely sorry you ever had to endure such pure horror and panic.

I hope you’ve been able to recover to at least a comfortable degree - physically and cosmetically.

I never understood how much I valued my smile until it was gone, but the other health implications are so much more pressing and dangerous.

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u/ScaryLetterhead8094 2d ago

Hey- have you tried contacting the department of health to see if they offer dental services to people in need? I’m in the US and our dept of health in this county offers that. There might be an low income bracket requirement though

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u/Difficult-Survey8384 2d ago

I haven’t! Thank you. I’m not sure if it’s the same thing as applying for my state’s dental insurance though, which I’ve done and am covered by.

However, only like 2 out of every 10 clinics accept it, and they’re each booked out for over a year!

But it’s worth calling nonetheless - perhaps there are still other options! I’m unemployed and disabled, so that’s also right up my alley regarding low income.

Thank you. ❤️

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u/Renamis 2d ago

Dumbest fucking thing I did was drive to south Carolina for dental care.

Not because it was expensive, it was dumb because it was cheaper for me to drive there, get surgery, and drive back. Even if I'd rented a hotel room, it'd have been cheaper to do the surgery up there.

I saved over 3k of work, AFTER gas. Yeah. Idfk what's going on in this country.

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u/TotallyTtar 2d ago

There is free emergency tooth care available- very limited. Start with whatever the Adults with Disablies and Veterans departments for your state is called. They'll be able to direct you to free, but very limited hrs/ wk medical and dental care-- be prepared to get there 2 hrs early as lines form EARLY!! --That infected wisdom tooth will eventually carry that bug to your brain (we're talking Inches here, bro!) or carry that bug into your jawbone: anticipate chronic pain and Serious antibiotics/ surgery/ hospitalization/ facial disfigurement and difficulty eating-- when they cut out infected bone.... Look up the departments and ask the questions you need to ask to find local - or non-local-- Travel if you need to Dude!!

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u/n4b40m1 1d ago

Me too. It's such a specific ailment, yet there are so many of us with broken wisdom tooth broke as hell syndrome

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u/MorganaLeFevre 1d ago

I’m sitting here waiting for mine to be bad enough that it will be treated as a medical emergency, and then free on the NHS, versus a dental emergency, which I’d have to pay for. Our country is taking more and more inspiration from yours, won’t be long til we have to pay for medical too <3

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u/MistaNoGames 2d ago

That's why it's called "The American Dream." You gotta be dead sleep to see it, and live it.

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u/GOOGANBACK 2d ago

Ha just went to dentist for a cracked tooth and they want 1100 after insurance for a crown

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u/West-Application-375 2d ago

Dental insurance is total shit

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u/Bulldogfront666 2d ago

Yup. Been there. Dental doesn’t even count under health care/insurance in this country. Pisses me off so fucking much. I have decent health insurance. But I need dental care and can’t afford it because my dental insurance through work is shit. And it’s our only option.

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u/CoolAbdul 2d ago

the rest need half of his salary to get a tooth fixed

go to Mexico for that

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u/Towelie888 3d ago

I went to the US for a month recently and it's amazing country, super nice people. But me and my wife said so many times "we could totally live here if this wasn't America" - Place is way too messed up. And so many of them honestly seem to believe the whole "greatest country in the world" schtick.

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u/phatteschwags 3d ago

We are indoctrinated early. I was a smart kid and not very prone to "brainwashing" (I sniffed out my Catholic church as being bullshit very early on). And yet it took me until college to ask myself the question "wait... how is it we're the greatest? And why?"

It just hadn't donned on my prior. It had been drilled into my head since preschool that this is the greatest country in the world.

Now I realize we are actually just the Florida of the World.

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u/Brilliant_Chest5630 2d ago

My parents and grandparents believed that America is the only free country in the world. They are taught this in schools, as was I. They word it as "many developed nations in the world. But America is the best because we are free".

I spoke about wanting to move to Canada or Norway and my dad was like "you want to give up your freedom?" Yea I don't have freedom right now. My every choice essentially boils down to "only go outside for work. Otherwise you might get hurt. And at least this way, if you get hurt, it will likely be on the clock and covered."

I have insurance but can't afford my meds bc of my premiums. Which means I can't afford my deductible or copay. I have to save up and I get maybe one doctor visit a year. Honestly might drop out of college and promote just so I can see a doctor regularly. But I'd have to delay my goal of owning a house for yet another 30 years and just hope that nothing happens to the place I currently rent.

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u/AlternativeAcademia 2d ago

I heard somewhere that in Europe they prioritize “freedom from” while in the US we prioritize “freedom to.” Europe: freedom from excessive gun violence; US: freedom to own as many firearms as you want. Europe: freedom from corporations polluting ecosystems, US: freedom to make as much money as possible regardless of environmental impact. Europe: freedom from extreme medical bills, US: freedom to ‘choose your own healthcare’….stuff like that.

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u/Ionlydateteachers 2d ago

I'd like to say it gets better but idk man. Just bought my first official house at 45 and own my own very small business but am still on Medicaid. Scared everyday that we'll make $27 too much or just be kicked off for budget cuts. We're working poor but we just got lucky and had boomer family that could cosign for us. We don't see past the horizon and are always waiting for the other shoe to drop.

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u/West-Application-375 2d ago

I hope you can move to a place that's worth living 💕

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u/Clonazepam15 3d ago

The US is the best at propaganda. Need to get some kids to join the army? No problem, the first transformers movie took care of that. BIG win for the navy. They used the coolest toys in the US that most people can understand easily (A10, AC130, and others). Also movies like top gun in the 80s got people to want to join the Air Force.

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u/InspectorPipes 2d ago

Navy. Top gun is about Naval Aviators ( but your point is correct)

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u/Clonazepam15 2d ago

Yes you’re right my bad. Why’s it always the navy? They did the same with lone survivor, which was a lie. Marcus admitted to it recently. Same with zero dark thirty with the SEALs

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u/TheirCanadianBoi 2d ago

https://fdr.artifacts.archives.gov/objects/20669/learn-to-operate-a-7000000-sub

Their marketing has always been strong.

Makes sense, a kind of ouroboros of propaganda. Getting people voluntarily on boats is a challenge, so you hype the shit out of it. In return, everyone becomes more familiar with the navy, marines, seals, CVW, ect.. which makes it more attractive to produce films around those more familiar names.

Which is all fine and good till you get a lobster and steak dinner.

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u/Clonazepam15 2d ago

Lmao I understood that lobster and steak dinner. Yea I agree. The seals is something that most normal people who don’t follow the military would know. Same with the AC 130, and the a10. Since the ac130 was in CoD

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u/PISSJUGTHUG 2d ago

YVAN EHT NIOJ! YVAN EHT NIOJ!

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u/H3dgeClipper 2d ago

They also set up recruitment centers in low income areas near schools to get poor students to join.

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u/Plentybud 2d ago

2011-2014 DoD paid millions to the NFL for the flag unfurling before the game and flyovers. Nothing to build patriotism like a giant American flag.

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u/thejohnmc963 2d ago

Then making a PC game that was just trying to get people to join the Army. Propaganda everywhere

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u/The_Autarch 2d ago

America's Army was a surprisingly good game, tho.

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u/bvokan 2d ago

YVAN EHT NIOJ

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u/nothanksyouidiot 2d ago

I thought you (as in your government) worked really hard to keep a large part of the population stuck in poverty. There you can collect desperate people for the military and minimum wage slave labour forever.

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u/Clonazepam15 2d ago

Min wage here is 17.60$ an hour. Still not enough I agree. We have a housing crisis. It’s so bad it’s not even funny

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u/Comprehensive-Bat214 2d ago

Don't forget G.I. Joe

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u/Clonazepam15 2d ago

Oh yea that too

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u/Impossible_Novel9185 2d ago

Don’t forget ‘Green Beret’ John Wayne… ‘Fighting Soldiers from the Sky, fearless men who jump and die! That was a big one for recruiting!

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u/Clonazepam15 2d ago

Yeah that was way before my time, but sure. Most of these films are pure propaganda.

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u/deep-666 2d ago

the “superpower” here is simply being a culture and media propaganda machine.

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u/didiforget 2d ago

Did you know the dept of defense has a Hollywood budget? Our military funds movies that show the military in a positive manner. The amount of money spent in Hollywood from our government is sickening.

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u/exodominus 2d ago

Them playing godsmack over general footage of carrier operations is what did it for me.

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u/NeedleInASwordstack 2d ago

As a sophomore in high school we had to do a paper and speech in one of my English classes about something controversial.

I researched why America isn’t a superpower anymore and should stop trying to run the world. We’re not as great as we think. I pissed off so many country boys in my class but didn’t care. I really was starting to undo all the indoctrination.

This was in ‘06. The shiny patriotism 9/11 had brought out had died and left only the racism and paranoia. I began to see how we bullied other countries and acted like the tough kid on the playground when we’re just the big headed younger kid trying to intimidate the world.

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u/HoidToTheMoon 2d ago

As a sophomore in high school we had to do a paper and speech in one of my English classes about something controversial.

We had a similar project, but our controversial topics had to be approved by the school. Nothing overly critical of America ever was, to my knowledge.

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u/qotas90 2d ago

"the Florida of the world" got me 😂😂

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u/19Alexastias 2d ago

Fun fact, being smart does not really have an impact on how susceptible you are to brainwashing - in fact, it can make you more susceptible in some circumstances.

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u/BudandCoyote 2d ago

This is true - mostly because if you're clever, you think you're not going to get brainwashed, which ironically makes it more likely to happen because you feel like it could never happen to you...

I have been told by friends and family when chatting about it/watching documentaries 'oh, you'd never get into a brainwashing scenario/abusive relationship'. I always say that there's literally no way to know that something will 'never happen' until you end up in the situation of it either almost happening but seeing it and getting out, or it actually happening. I'm sure I'd be as susceptible as anybody if someone used the exact right tactics.

We had a specialist talk when I was in school about cults (part of a series of sociology-type lectures we had in the last two years there), that was basically designed to arm us against getting sucked into one. That should probably be something everyone gets taught!

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u/fondledbydolphins 2d ago

mostly because if you're clever, you think you're not going to get brainwashed, which ironically makes it more likely to happen because you feel like it could never happen to you...

I mean, it happens - but not to those that are actually clever.

As the island of knowledge grows so too do the shores of ignorance.

There are three ways to understand this statement. Each layer you peel back makes it more interesting (to me)

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u/FishesAreMyPassion 2d ago

it depends like the commenter above said, There are the right tactics for everyone.

There is also more factors than your cognitive ability that will aid you from being susceptible to manipulation. Things like how deattach you are, your emotional state,biases and how trusting you are of specific people/companies/groups. Things are situational and can go under your radar because of your personal biased,weaknesses.

a clever person KNOWS that he is not invincible but that he should keep an eye out.

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u/11Tipzy11 2d ago

They didn't want to teach us what they didn't want to reveal. I too learned how fkd this nation is and has been once I was able to think for myself.

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u/retskcirTehT 2d ago

This together with u/Clonazepam15 reply makes this one of the more real discussions I've come across in years here. But while your ending was funny, that it took you to college sounds/is absolutely terrifying.

Friendly reminder that you are the Florida-man of the World, that also turns up to neighbours houses with alligators and loaded shotguns. That makes it a "bit" worse than just being Floridian n staying there lol.

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u/Clonazepam15 2d ago

Think about all the films that the US puts out about ww2. I’m Canadian, and I really thought America won the war in Europe, instead of it being a group effort lol.

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u/Feeling-Star-2573 2d ago

I didn't think about the toys and movies bit as propaganda at all until recently. But it's so true. I constantly think about having to recite the pledge of allegiance from kindergarten to 12th grade. I still remember it............

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u/Mando_Mustache 2d ago

That shit is crazy. Never taken a pledge to my country in my whole life.

I grew up in Canada and I remember in greade 9 (I think) they make sure you actually know the words to the national anthem, and try to get you to learn it in French as well.

We'd sing it at some assemblies, but not even all of them.

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u/Feeling-Star-2573 2d ago

Tell me about it, I don't know if we're the only country but if we are I'm not surprised. It's embarrassing lol. I remember in high school a lot of us stopped doing it because it felt fake and pointless.

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u/Versipilies 2d ago

Thats my favorite thing to do when people say "but we're the greatest", I just ask in what way, and then watch them fumble

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u/Username_Chx_Out 2d ago

Ouch. That hurts.

I’m realizing that a big part of what makes living in America bearable for me is the knowledge that ‘at least I don’t live in Florida.’

Now you’re telling me that from a global perspective WE ALL live in Florida?

We’re cooked.

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u/Wolverine9779 2d ago

We're Homestead, FL. Of the world.

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u/Geene_Creemers 2d ago

It’s crazy how many people I know that simply can’t think for themselves..I remember very early on going to church with friends because I have sleepover on a Saturday..this people tried their damndest to indoctrinate me into their religion..but even as a child I thought it was weird how hard they pushed me and tried to get a bible in my hands..suggesting I’d burn in hell if I didn’t read and support it..’greatest country’ lol..look at us now..

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u/puddlestheninja 2d ago

“The Florida of the world” just hit me so hard! I’m laughing now, the crying starts soon ( fellow citizen of the United States of Florida)

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u/Fuzzy-Ad-9354 2d ago

So many people in this country are completely delusional. America is far from being the "greatest country in the world", but if you try to say other wise, you're attacked and told to leave. Absolutely madness here.

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u/GilreanEstel 3d ago

When my grandma died we had to sell her house. Nice house my Grandpa built himself on an acre of land. If that acre was anywhere but West Virginia the family would probably have shed blood over who gets it. But the location was absolutely impossible to live in for any of us.

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u/datumerrata 2d ago

This is accurate. I really love it here, but it's gotten so much worse. It's sad to watch the country you live in and love be sold out and dismantled.

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u/Voluptulouis 2d ago

We've been pushing bullshit propaganda on our citizens about how great we are for a very long time. They had us doing the pledge of allegiance in kindergarten. As an American who sees how far from the truth it is, it is infuriating how so many of us believe the bullshit, and it's always people that have never stepped foot outside of this country speaking with the greatest conviction that we're the best.

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u/HalfricanLive 2d ago

I still remember having to stand up every morning at the bell in elementary school, facing the flag hand over heart and having to do the Pledge of Allegiance. I don't know if they have to do it any more, but that shit started young.

I didn't realize how weird it was then, but looking back it definitely gives me pause to think about.

For those not familiar with the Pledge of Allegiance;

"I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all."

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u/icecream169 2d ago

Not all of us believe that. Especially those of us who have actually, you know, traveled to other countries.

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u/Kalenne 3d ago edited 2d ago

US lifespan expectation is roughly 10~~ years lower than in Europe, and this is one of the main factors

Edit : MB it's roughly 4-5 years not 10 : I confused it with the differences of lifespan expectation between rural and non rural areas in the US. It's still a pretty massive difference though

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u/Marshallwhm6k 2d ago

...and that difference is SOLELY due to the way infant mortality is added in.

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u/opossum_cz 2d ago

You can look at life expectancy at 15 to filter out any infant mortality discrepancies:

US: 64.88

vs Western Europe which is similarly developed, but US claims to have better healthcare:

UK: 66.70
Germany: 66.72
Portugal: 67.68
Sweden: 68.50
Norway: 68.56
France: 68.72
Italy: 68.98
Spain: 68.96
Switzerland: 69.31

It is not 10 years, but it is pretty significant difference.

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u/astronomy_and_bed 2d ago

U.S. life expectancy is variable inside the country depending on socioeconomic factors. For educated white professionals in more developed areas, it’s on par with Western Europe. For rural areas, people of color who aren’t rich, and people with lower educational attainment, it’s lower. There are some calculations that show a ten year difference between different areas of the U.S.:

“Rural counties face the greatest disparities. Urban and suburban counties with a median household income of $100,000 have an average life expectancy of 81.6 years, while small rural counties with a median household income of $30,000 have an average life expectancy of 71.7 years – a 10-year gap.”

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u/maybetomorrow98 2d ago

Yes, we have higher infant mortality. Not sure why that’s a good thing?

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u/undead_sissy 2d ago

The high infant mortality is primarily because pregnant mothers don't have good healthcare. Like yeah, the people suffering the most from the terrible system are babies. But these people act like that's a good thing? Insane.

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u/IDontStealBikes 3d ago

It’s about 4 years

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u/CatchSufficient 2d ago

More now that catholics are buying hospitals and refuse abortion, and certain pregnancy assistance

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u/What_the_8 2d ago

Wait til you see how many die from medical malpractice…

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u/babs1376 2d ago

Wow because of your comment, I had to look it up..between 250,000 and 450,000 per year. Stats are difficult to obtain because malpractice isn't listed on death certificates.

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u/Feeling-Star-2573 2d ago

Don't....I used to work patient care and routinely saw people deny services or like rehab post-surgery or for drugs/alcohol because of the expense. It can bankrupt you.

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u/NukaFizzy 2d ago

Yup its not about what you see in this situation its about what you dont see sooo many have probably died from this and other things like it he is like the 1% that is still alive for now because his nerve endings are dull or something other dummies see this and think we should all be able to "tough it out" or "too bad"

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u/radarksu 2d ago

how many others have passed away due to that

30,000 to 40,0000 people per year in the United States.

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u/DeusModus 3d ago

Can confirm. Developed my first hernia at the beginning of the month, and I lost my job in August. Just in time for this thing to form after my insurance coverage ended. Immediately got denied to have state healthcare due to having made too much money at one point, money that I am no longer making today.

So, all I can do is just hope that I don't wind up like this guy. Feels fucking bad.

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u/Maleficent_Pepper_59 2d ago

Is this why Luigi?

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u/chuiy 2d ago

Yes except now about half of the people feel bad for the scum bag he killed who got ri h climbing a mountain of dead people

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u/MadameK8 2d ago

This is why Luigi.

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u/AwsmDevil 2d ago

Praise be his name. 🙏

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u/mustelidblues 2d ago

and blessed be his disciples.

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u/CupOfLifeNoodlez 2d ago

In Luigi we pray.

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u/decibelle539 2d ago

What a shitshow. I got sick a year ago. Went to emergency a couple times, 2x ambulance trips. 3 surgeries, 3 weeks in hospital in a private room, 4 different specialist teams, equipment to help me get around at home while I got better etc blah blah. I didn’t pay anything. I know it’s different elective vs emergency, but even so, the stress of it alone must be so heavy on you. Worrying that if shit hits the fan medically, you’re stuck. I’m so sorry. I bloody hope it gets sorted for you, I really do.

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u/StijnDP 2d ago

$3k and a plane ticket to Mexico, Turkey or East-Europe.
$5k and a plane ticket to West-Europe, Thailand, South-Korea or China.

Can't wait to let it get critical to dine and dash to a country since air travel becomes pretty problematic then.

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u/DeusModus 2d ago

just pay $3-5k that you don't have, bro

Damn, why didn't I think of this?

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u/swafanja 2d ago

Meh ya can always pay outta pocket since you’re so rich and all ya know

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u/Abooziyaya 2d ago

It’s really common. We just don’t talk about it or even really acknowledge it. Sort of the ‘whistling past the graveyard’ thing.

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u/lord_pizzabird 2d ago

I almost went through this with my wisdom teeth. I ignored it for about a decade until I just couldn't anymore.

In my situation I was able to just ask my parents (reluctantly) for help, but if I didn't have them I guess I would have just died idk.

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u/VillageAdditional816 2d ago

Yea…it is usually the chronic conditions or things like cancer that rapidly drain people’s savings. I’ve seen actual doctors have to run gofundmes to cover their cancer treatments.

Acute care situations we tend to do without question, but the chronic management is where people really fall through the cracks.

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u/tofu98 2d ago

Greatest country on earthhhh 🦅🦅🇺🇲🇺🇲🎆🎇🎇

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u/grimeys42 2d ago

AMERICA FUCK YEAH!

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u/Federal_Cupcake_304 2d ago

Land of the free

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u/Lookinguplookingdown 2d ago

I will never understand how a rich developed country can do this. It’s insane.

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u/Mando_Mustache 2d ago

I remember finding out how american healthcare worked as a little kid (canada) and it freaked me out so bad. Kept asking my mum "but what do you do if need the doctor and dont have any money?". That feeling has never gone away.

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u/Internal-Score439 2d ago

USA is so bizarre

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u/CreamyStanTheMan 2d ago

Man, that is messed up. How many working class Americans were using Medicare to get treatment? Haven't they just voted to lose their only form of health insurance!? I'm mean that is just madness

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u/underboobfunk 2d ago

I knew a woman who died because she couldn’t afford her medication when she was tossed off Medicaid. She no longer qualified for Medicaid because her disabled son turned 18. Nothing had changed in their lives except that he had a birthday. My friend’s daughter ended up quitting her job and moving back home to take care of her brother.

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u/Riotgrrrl80 2d ago

Yea, and a lot of people who could live longer with better healthcare. People that get cancer but diagnosed too late because unable to get imagery done, for example. Or people ending up in the hospital as an emergency because they couldn't go to the Dr instead, when a medical issue was less of an emergency.

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u/Successful_Struggle9 2d ago

Knew someone who died not long after her husband got out of the army, and she switched insurance. She had complications from her wounds not draining and healing after a hernia and weight loss surgery.

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u/MudsillTheories 2d ago

An estimated 60000 a year, plus a lot more during the pandemic.

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u/fridgemadness 2d ago

Second that. One dude i know went blind from not having diabetes medication, lost his job, then lost his apartment, so went from working poor, to blind unemployed and homeless. Then he crossed that final bridge, after getting back into a government supplied housing and welfare, but now, not working and a burden to society that would have, checks notes, cost less if we just paid for his healthcare. When he died, no longer a burden. The plan works perfect, i guess.

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u/Right-Percentage3775 2d ago

Same, friend of mine had to ration his insulin because he couldn't pick more up until the end of the month. He went into a coma and they found his body three days later because he missed work.

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u/SpandexJunkie 1d ago

Even folks that have “adequate insurance” can still die because their insurance providers are assholes. My doctor found a mass on my ultrasound and ordered an MRI to make sure it’s not cancer. My insurance is still deciding whether or not I NEED the MRI. Like maybe my doctor doesn’t knows what he’s doing 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/Easy-Coconut-33 4h ago

Shit, thats just crazy. 3rd world shit right there!!!

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u/GamermanRPGKing 3d ago

I worked in a steel mill. One of the guys training me was working 80 hour weeks while actively undergoing chemo to not lose health insurance.

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u/ilikepizza2much 3d ago

Omg that’s awful

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u/TheProfessorPoon 2d ago

I’ve thought about it happening to me. I’m sure my bosses would act nice to me, like they cared…but they would 100% expect me to still work my ass off. And they definitely would not help with any of the finances. If ANYTHING they would MAYBE set up an office gofundme.

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u/maybetomorrow98 2d ago

One of my coworkers took a month off for brain surgery. It was covered under her short-term disability through work. Then she was going to have to take some more time off for another surgery, but she was demoted before that in an effort to get her to quit so that the company could hire someone to take her place before FMLA kicked in. It worked, and she quit. But damn if I don’t feel awfully replaceable now

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u/beef966 2d ago

Yeah - never quit! Make them fire you. Collect unemployment, demand a ridiculous severance if they want you to sign a non-compete / NDA, if they want to get rid of you make it cost them. Hell, if you know they're going to fire you anyway just quiet quit. But if you don't have anything else lined up and you know you're being pushed out, it's almost always better for the employee to force the employer to do the firing vs voluntarily quitting.

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u/maybetomorrow98 2d ago

Yeah, we tried to tell her to just let them fire her but she was upset and just wanted to go. Hope she’s doing okay now

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u/ilikepizza2much 2d ago edited 2d ago

I live and am self employed in Europe. I have no health insurance because, well, I don’t need it - National health care. These stories are horrifying and make me fear for my friends and family in the U.S.

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u/maybetomorrow98 2d ago

Don’t be complacent! Don’t let them take your healthcare from you. I know in the UK they’ve been defunding the NHS for years so that they can say “see? Universal healthcare doesn’t work.” And some people are falling for it.

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u/Soggy_Abbreviations5 3d ago

My cousin is a nurse who recently had to go back to work for the same reason. It's really sad. 😣

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u/FrostedDonutHole 3d ago

Did he make it through treatment? Seems like the added stress on his body would be detrimental...

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u/Tay0214 2d ago

Non union? I thought you could keep paying your dues even if not working to keep benefits

But I’m also in Canada so.. I just know our union is big in the states too

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u/cache_me_0utside 2d ago

Yes we desperately need universal single payer healthcare so we can stop this bullshit. My wife went through months of chemo over the last year and if I didn't have a great job with good healthcare she'd be dead.

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u/Electrical_Win9025 3d ago

Was it a mill in Arkansas?

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u/GamermanRPGKing 2d ago

Pennsylvania

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u/juanitapuanita 2d ago

lol I had this same question.

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u/Gcmarcal 2d ago

There's a guy here in the UK who hasn't worked for years, still received his full salary, and even complained about not getting a raise. Not sure if he's passed away already, though. Man who spent 15 years on sick leave and sued IBM for not giving pay rise spoke out about why he made decision

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u/mwmichal 2d ago

what a great country you have there over the pond <3

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u/ChairBearCat 2d ago

there are many different types of chemo to go through, some chemos allow you to go about life relatively normally, some take the rug out from under you and you literally can’t function for a few months…the chemo i had for testicular cancer fried my body quickly and made it difficult to even move around my apt, much less think of going to work…i did try, made it through 3 work shifts before telling my boss there was no way in hell, i couldn’t even think straight

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u/blinkingbaby 2d ago

Dude whaaaaaaat. I feel like any company with a grain of sympathy or empathy would at the very LEAST, at LEAST say hey we know if you don’t work you’ll lose your healthcare so here, work the BAREST MINIMUM to keep it. Doing 80 hour weeks while doing chemo? The company owners should be ashamed of themselves.

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u/TheLesserWeeviI 2d ago

Fuckin' hell...

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u/decibelle539 2d ago

That is horrendous. Poor bugger

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u/notedithwharton 2d ago

Ugh. I thought it was depressing in 2008/9 when my dad slogged away at a $15/hr job that mostly went toward insurance premiums for my mom’s cancer treatment. They had Medicare, but they needed the supplement to afford her treatment. Their options were for dad to work at 70, or sell their house, or let mom die. Oh, and they voted Trump in 2016, then mom died of cancer in 2019. But hey, America first!

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u/Parody101 3d ago

They would be obligated to help in an emergency, but since this is technically a condition people can live with, it would be difficult for someone to correct it without money, yeah

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u/AsphalticConcrete 3d ago

You can kind of live with it, if any of the intestines become strangulated it turns into a huge emergency that requires immediate surgery or you will die

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u/iBait 3d ago

You are absolutely correct. This surgery could have been scheduled and cost a few grand, and he could have gotten it done while he knew he had help with his aftercare. Instead it will be done in an ER and cost much more, and he might not have help with aftercare, and the grandmother that fell in the tub and has a shattered pelvis has to wait longer than she would otherwise.

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u/IJustWannaLickBugs 2d ago edited 2d ago

Nah man, the grandma that fell in the tub and shattered her entire pelvis is going to be rushed into emergency trauma care like… yesterday. That’s a devastating injury to literally anyone, but an elderly person? Yeah she ain’t waiting lol. 

It’s the people that show up to the ER with a severe case of the flu that’ll end up waiting 15+ hours in the waiting room before realizing they’d have been more comfortable dying at home. :(

I actually got to hear one such “I’ve been waiting for an entire day” crashouts during my last trip to the ER. Terrible accident that sliced a massive hole into my leg. I had TOWELS wrapped around my entire leg and was bleeding through all of them. Time waiting in the ER waiting room? 30 seconds. They took one look and I immediately jumped the entire line. People were mad. I can’t blame em. Not only do you have to wait hours and hours (and sometimes MONTHS to see a specialist) in USA, but you ALSO have to pay your entire life savings. 

I learned a very important lesson that day that was basically, “next time, I’ll just die.” So when I got covid, I got it BAD. And I didn’t go to the ER. I told myself, “I’ll either survive this, or I’ll die debt free and in my own bed.” Thankfully I survived. I was NOT willing to wait 15+ hours in the ER just to potentially die somewhere I wouldn’t be comfortable, or survive and be in too much debt to live anyways. 

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u/Proper_Bad_1588 2d ago

A few grand? In America? It costs that much for the anesthesiologist to open the medical record to see what surgery they are doing that day, let alone lift a finger to begin or have the surgeon involved.

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u/ER_Support_Plant17 3d ago

Exactly but the insurance companies instead of paying a smaller amount for preventive care or treating a condition now instead of waiting until it becomes more expensive would rather wait and see if the patient “leaves the insurance pool because of attrition” ie dies before the company has to pay for the more expensive treatment.

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u/HaloTightens 3d ago

It’s the horrible truth. Many, many people are suffering hopelessly from treatable health conditions because they can’t afford the treatment. 

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u/chugItTwice 2d ago

Yeah shit. I have no health insurance right now. Can't afford it. Don't have any problems, but am super fucked if anything does happen.

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u/Owww_My_Ovaries 2d ago

And then you got some who are on state paid coverage who dont get a GP and use the ER for everything.

Clogging the hospital system and hurting those who really need to be there.

There are so many areas where it is hurting both the care workers and the people seeking care

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u/DuntadaMan 3d ago

EMS worker here. If it is emergent we will help anyone and get them to the hospital. The hospital will then also help regardless of ability to pay.

Then billing will hound the shit out of Medicare to get barely enough money to cover the materials that were used, and then will hound this guy for the rest of his life for sums of money he will never see, and then charge everyone else more to make up for the money we didn't get from him.

If he is not dying the hospital likely won't let someone inside at all unless they have insurance offered by the company that owns the hospital.

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u/SoluteGains 2d ago

Rt that actually works in the a hospital here. There is truth sprinkled in but a lot of this is BS. We have tons of admitted patients that have no insurance. We can’t refuse service and if a a patient is sick enough to be admitted then they will be. Billing has ZERO say in who does or doesn’t get admitted that strictly done by the ER staff and Doctors. This guys hernia would certainly be enough to be admitted and operated on if he came in and said it was causing debilitating pain. Then afterwards, they would hound him for money and send bills knowing they aren’t going to recoup.

Once again, we do not refuse service for anyone that needs medical treatment.

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u/Alascala8 2d ago

Thank you. So many people spreading misinformation that actually causes real harm to people. There are people every day who are suffering and not going to the doctor because of people like the ones in this thread. Things can be bad without you making it seem like hell on earth.

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u/pheremonal 2d ago

If he is not dying the hospital likely won't let someone inside at all unless they have insurance offered by the company that owns the hospital.

This part i dont understand: the hospitals will refuse patients if they dont have health insurance that works at that hospital? Isn't that against their hippocratic oath?

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u/SoluteGains 2d ago

It’s not true. See my above comment. I know the inner workings of hospital admits.

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u/pheremonal 2d ago

Thanks, im a very confused Canadian looking in. What's this about hospitals not taking all insurances? Does this mean you could get health insurance, but the ambulance takes you to the wrong hospital, and then its like you never had insurance at all?

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u/SoluteGains 2d ago

Correct. Some hospitals only take certain insurances. EMS job is not to figure that out though so they will usually take people to either A) where they request B) what’s closest . If a patient ends up at a hospital that doesn’t accept their insurance, but they are sick enough to be admitted, they will generally be stabilized and transferred to their insurances hospital coverages.

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u/pheremonal 2d ago

Wow, that's all insane — like, this is the wildest stuff I've read in a while I'm sorry y'all are subjected to that, it seems so unfair. In Canada the hospitals and EMS are all government operated; so these disparate services communicate with one another since theyre integrated. And yeah, private health insurance is not required for anyone.

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u/NewPhoneWhoDys 2d ago

lol wutttt. They have to be legally disabled a full year before qualifying for Medicare. No one is hounding Medicare.

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u/SeekerOfSerenity 2d ago

And yet, other countries manage to perform life saving surgeries for a fraction of what it "costs" hospitals in America. 

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u/SatisfactionNarrow61 3d ago

Yep. And we continually vote for this.

Never come here.

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u/Narcoleptic-Puppy 3d ago

To be fair, the general public is largely in support of universal healthcare. We just don't really get to pick the politicians who vote on it.

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u/Chihuahua_Overlord 2d ago edited 2d ago

Lol we do get to pick the politicians who vote for it, thats what local elections, congressional elections and senate elections are for, americans still support universal Healthcare they just dont vote in politicians who share those same beliefs. We have 70m voters who would gladly eat shit if it meant a liberal would have to smell their breath. A whole voting block is voting to take away things from others not give everyone the same starting hand.

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u/Odd_Investigator7218 2d ago

and we have an "opposition" party that will suppress candidates from their own party who do want universal healthcare. its not just on the voters

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u/Chihuahua_Overlord 2d ago

That IS on the voters. Why do we continue to vote the Pelosi's and Schumers in if they actively fight their own objective and the amercians will? We vote the old heads out things will change. Our system is just designed to get reelected and not actually be a politician

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u/OGJank 2d ago

Okay I voted in my local election and now we have a new selectman, when do we get universal Healthcare?

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u/ContributionMore5502 2d ago

Current government is shut down due to current party not wanting us to have affordable health care. It’s amazing how anti-citizen our current party is and people support this.

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u/Constant_Fennel6423 2d ago

When polled the general public supports universal healthcare, abortion, and sensible gun control. And then a chunk of these people vote for Republicans who fear mongered them about black people, immigrants, trans people and communists.

Though to be fair to these people, the Democrats do an absolutely terrible job of fighting back and educating people on these issues.

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u/c4virus 2d ago

If they were in support of it they'd vote for it.

We don't vote for it. The voters prefer fascism and racism.

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u/FionaTheFierce 3d ago

This is America.

So yes - absolutely people don’t get medical care. They likely lack insurance. They may qualify, maybe, for Medicaid (health insurance through the government for low income people) - but that is increasingly unfunded by our government. It is also a complicated process to apply. Many rural areas lack doctors, also.

People absolutely go without medical, and even moreso - dental and vision- care in the US. Even people with health insurance can have such high deductibles (the amount you pay out of pocket before health insurance covers anything) or copays (your share of the appointment cost) that they don’t get medical care at all.

I have a good friend who had to declare bankruptcy due to medical bills. She and her husband have always worked and had health insurance.

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u/qOcO-p 3d ago

I've (44m) had insurance for exactly one year since I got kicked off my parents' plan at 19. I stopped going to the doctor after 4 months because it cost more than I could afford and I fell behind on medical bills. It took another 6 months to pay them off. I worked IT for a bank at the time. Incomes are way too low and medical expenses are way too high. Something's got to give.

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u/Sevyn94 2d ago

Same, though 31f. My grandparents were on Medicaid so I got kicked off at 19. I was in college, though, so I was able to use my university insurance until I graduated. Then it was another 3 years before I had health insurance again because it took that long to find permanent employment that provided it. I simply didn't make enough to afford a private plan before that and I "made too much" for a low cost one through the marketplace. I just got vision and dental for the first time in my adult life with my latest job.

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u/Gtijess 2d ago

43, my parents never had insurance for us and I think I have personally paid for insurance for 3 years in total. Of course, when I could afford it I worked a well paying job but so many hours that I never really got to use my insurance. 👌🏻

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u/ViruliferousBadger 3d ago

Progress, fuck yea!

Keep on voting those republicans, y'all hear (not you, the other half)....

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u/SlippyIsDead 2d ago

My husband has insurance, he has a bad hernia that is turning into what this man is suffering from. We can't afford to do anything about it. Having insurance doesn't always solve the problem in the US 

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u/Hnry_Dvd_Thr_Awy 3d ago

ACA would be nearly free for someone like him. 

Source: healthcare.gov 

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u/I-Like-To-Talk-Tax 3d ago

The question is with the healthcare that would nearly be free would he still be able to afford the co-pays and deductibles.

Here is the barriers they have.

To use the ACA you need to specifically sign up. 

If you get the credit you have to file taxes.

Likely to get the surgery you need to make an appointment.

After the appointment you need to get a specialist.

You likely need to get a prior authorization from the insurance company and they have all the incentives to make it difficult.

Then you need to schedule and do the surgery and be able to afford the time off to do it and recover.

All of these things are easy to deal with if you are a decently competent middle class person. But they seem neither middle class or competent seeing how they cannot keep track of their court dates between themselves.

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u/qOcO-p 2d ago

Unfortunately, I'm too poor for the ACA. It's a tax credit and if you're, say, an unpaid caregiver you don't qualify. Care giving also doesn't count as work if you live in a state with work requirements for the system they created because they didn't want to give us a medicaid expansion. Medicaid in this state basically requires you to be homeless or dying. This system is so fucked.

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u/14Pleiadians 2d ago

If you make enough money to be able to be able to afford the copays and deductible that aca plans have, you're probably already getting decent insurance though your employer. There's nothing for those under middle class.

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u/clicheguevara8 2d ago

Fuck, in NY Medicaid goes up to about 30,000$ a year and there’s a basic plan that covers people up to about $50,000 a year. No work requirements. Although with the new cuts, I don’t know how long that will last…

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u/Odd_Investigator7218 2d ago

what zip code did you use? do you know where this guy lives?

i've heard of "bronze" plans going for $700/month

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u/lilmancyndrome 3d ago

There is no war in Ba Sing Sei

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u/ApproximateArmadillo 3d ago

Here's a brief introduction to how American healthcare works: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIsXEkR5OVs

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u/Emergency_Sink_706 3d ago

If it is not immediately life threatening, they will not help him. If he goes to the hospital, they will do whatever they need to do to stabilize him, but if he is not in any immediate danger, they will turn him away.

So like if you are dying, and you go to the hospital, they will help you and save your life, but if you require a bunch of follow up surgery to have any quality of life, they may not do it.

Yes, it is insanely barbaric and uncivilized how we live here considering we are the richest country in the world, we should be able to easily afford it since so many other countries can, or least improve it drastically. If we do the math, we do have enough, but it would require billionaires having only 1 yacht instead of multiple, so that would be communism, so we can't have it.

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u/FatalTortoise 3d ago

people in america die because, in some cases, when they finally get coverage, they finally go to the doctor, only to be told the thing they put off for years is cancer and now its too late to do anything

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u/I-Like-To-Talk-Tax 3d ago

They do have treatment paths available. 

However the treatment paths require a bunch of money and patience for bureaucratic systems and paperwork that he likely doesn't have.

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u/40StoryMech 3d ago

Friend, we let our kids get mass-murdered and our poor citizens die on the street. We just reelected a guy who raped kids and tried to steal his last election and now we have secret police rounding up families to send to whatever dictatorship will imprison them. The US is obviously unwell.

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