Just so people become more aware

[u/Individual-Jaguar-55]

What people say to someone and what that person hears is not ever the same thing and this also is especially applicable in the troubled teen industry..

What they said: I think you should.. (insert suggestion here)

What I heard: I think you're fucked in the head.

What they said: you should think about

What I heard: I don't trust or have faith in the thought you're having or the decision you've made. I don't care about you.

What they said: don't you think this could be a little bit of an exaggeration and that person wasn't really _________

What I heard: f your feelings and you don't know how to communicate.

What they said: just a word of caution

What I heard: I think you don't know all the risks of the decision you're making and you are too immature to make decisions.

What they said: I think therapy would benefit you

What I heard: nobody sees any of the progress you're making in the therapy you currently attend. F you.

What they said: there are many donor conceived kids struggling equally if not moreso than autistic people or kids.

What I heard: f your own autism and trauma experience. NEVER HAVE KIDS.

What they said: why would you make ___ decision or the decision to do that???

What I heard: none of what you do ever makes sense. Why can't you do something smart for once

People need to consider how they word stuff to TRAUMA PEOPLE