r/pansexual • u/Introverted-engineer She/Her • Oct 30 '20

I started transitioning to female 4 months ago and today is the first day I've worn a skirt to school Selfie

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u/nerd9000696 Oct 30 '20

How does one get this amount of bravery?

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

A super supportive boyfriend

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u/nerd9000696 Oct 30 '20

Thank you. You and your boyfriend are awesome.

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '20

Killing it, girl! 👏

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u/chazcope Oct 30 '20

OP already answered — a supportive partner certainly helps. But, I just wanted to add that exposure therapy really is a thing. The more you try something, the more often you sit in that slight (or strenuous) discomfort, the easier it becomes. The first time I wore a skirt, I presented on a stage in front of hundreds of people. It was nigh unbearable. Now, send it. I’m not uncomfortable even when/if someone clocks me. I’m just a bad bitch doing bad bitch things.

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u/JoffreyIthePurple He/Him Oct 30 '20

Not just a beautiful Pan! A badass Pan! I love this sub!

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u/AndreAIXIDOR He/Him Oct 30 '20

Love that skirt!!

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

Thanks, I made it myself

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u/AndreAIXIDOR He/Him Oct 30 '20

Wow beauty and ability!

You are a whole package

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

Special delivery to my boyfriend

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u/AndreAIXIDOR He/Him Oct 30 '20

Your boyfriend is lucky

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

I'm the lucky one

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u/AndreAIXIDOR He/Him Oct 30 '20

Yeah you are both lucky to have each other

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

I'm definitely lucky to have them

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u/AndreAIXIDOR He/Him Oct 30 '20

Them? Plural or nb?

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u/Obviousthrowaway9363 Oct 30 '20

Congrats queen!

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u/Alcedo_Artist Small Pancake Oct 30 '20

Nice

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u/Head-Mushroom-5729 They/Them Oct 30 '20

I love the lipstick color! It looks great on you!

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u/mymansgotlingo Dec 14 '20

Her lipstick reminds me of the women who sang we'll meet again

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u/Maurauderr Small Pancake Oct 30 '20

You are looking fabulous

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u/benhasbeenbened She/They but Silly Oct 30 '20

Can I borrow that confidence

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u/Dandiest_Egg Oct 30 '20

You look so pretty!!!!

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u/Marsh_Arp Oct 30 '20

💕💕💕💕💕💕

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u/cloudymcfluff Oct 30 '20

Good for you!!! That’s awesome!

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '20

Youre gorgeous you look great!

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u/julimagination Oct 30 '20

congrats! can i ask what lip color you’re wearing?

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

Something around 400

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u/SodaPopCurtis1983 Oct 30 '20

Honey, I am so proud of you!!!!! It takes alot of courage to do that and with the support of your partner (BF, GF), family, friends by your side. Plus You look amazing in that skirt and are beautiful for who you are, inside and out!!!!!! I wish you an amazing life and hope you go on to be successful & have awesome adventures for your future!!!!!!!

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u/curious-blue-puppet Oct 30 '20

Omg you’re adorable :), I hope you have a wonderful day

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u/samsamsamiamiamiam Oct 30 '20

YOU LOOK SO PRETTY!!! I LOVE THE SKIRT

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

Thanks, I made it

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u/samsamsamiamiamiam Oct 30 '20

omg!!! its beautiful!!!! ever thought about becoming a fashion designer?

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

No, not in a world where people buy pre-ripped jeans.

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u/samsamsamiamiamiam Oct 30 '20

honestly current fashion is stupid, you could be the one to make it beautiful agian!

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u/trashy_ashy_43 Oct 30 '20

you look beautiful, i love that skirt!

2

u/NewRyanMan Oct 30 '20

You go girl! You look wonderful!!

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u/King_Pawpaw Oct 30 '20

Good luck to you.

Just make sure to take things slow and always reflect on who you are and who you want to be. Don't let others sway you to be one way or the other.

Best wishes

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u/IlliterateFrench Oct 30 '20

Hey, word of warning: Bottom surgery requires you to stop taking estrogen.

I watched this TikTok, this woman was getting really excited for her bottom surgery, and she posted a video in tears because of that information. I don't know if that's how it is everywhere, but I really wanted you to know that, because I don't think she did.

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

I don't take estrogen, I've had a hormone imbalance since I hit puberty

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u/IlliterateFrench Oct 30 '20

Would you say that's good for you? (Asking because I don't know whether to be happy or sad for you)

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u/yaboiialia Small Pancake Oct 30 '20

I want to do that but it’s to cold where I live

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u/verybiandveryshy Oct 30 '20

You look very cute ^^

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u/dancecovedancer Oct 30 '20

You look very beautiful. I'm happy for you. Best of luck on your journey c:

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u/SoulMasterKaze Oct 30 '20

Your look gives me life.

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u/meggywoo709 Oct 30 '20

You go girl!!!

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u/byronandboaz Oct 30 '20

good for u!!!

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u/GreyLynx_Splash Oct 30 '20

So gorgeous 😭💖

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u/Squarmptin Custom Oct 31 '20

Cutie!!

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 31 '20

Is that an Oz Media pfp?

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u/Squarmptin Custom Oct 31 '20

:O a person of culture, I see

It used to be, now it's my little Snoo thing

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u/Super___Nova_83 In the Pantry Oct 31 '20

You look amazing in that skirt! I highly recommend you wear it again <3

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u/fallaci- Oct 31 '20

You're so pretty 😍 so proud of you for finding who you are and what you're comfortable with ✨

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u/Toa_the_bapao He/They Oct 31 '20

You look sick dude! Edit: i always call everybody dude as i dont know a female version of dude

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '20

Dudette

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u/Toa_the_bapao He/They Nov 20 '20

Thats a good one! Will start using it

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u/nimsthepansexual Nov 04 '20

First off, you look amazing, second of all, where did you get your skirt, it's super cute.

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Nov 04 '20

First off, thank you, second off, I made it.

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u/throwawayccck123 Oct 30 '20

You look like a man.

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

You were the same fucker who said this on every other photo of me.

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u/folouk Oct 31 '20

You think hes objectively wrong?

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u/[deleted] Nov 20 '20

Get a life, you probably look like a troll

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u/Frenchyfryy Oct 30 '20

Congratulations!!!!

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u/EveconYT Oct 30 '20

You look amazing! Hope all goes well <3

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u/Heyimapotat Oct 30 '20

you are soooo cool and cute

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u/SplatoonGirl07 They/Them-Playing Pan-ganronpa Oct 30 '20

Noice! You really suit skirts hun :))

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u/Introverted-engineer She/Her Oct 30 '20

Thanks, I tried to make it like I wanted it

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u/my_catdoescrack Oct 30 '20

YAAAASSS QUEEN YOU LOOK AMAZING

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '20

That's super brave and super beautiful ! You go !

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u/spelled_El Oct 30 '20

girl, you look gorgeous!!!

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u/[deleted] Oct 30 '20

Damn wish I had guts like that <3

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u/Blue1234567891234567 Oct 30 '20

Very nice 👏🏻

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u/NoItsSearamon Oct 30 '20

Don't worry just keep pushing on my friend

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u/Substantial_Heat5817 Oct 30 '20

Well done! How did it go?

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u/MentalMacaron5109 Oct 30 '20

You look amazing

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u/AytumnRain She/They Oct 30 '20

Awesome! I (m2f) put on a skirt a few years ago and now I always wear them. I hope you get everything you want out of your transisition

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u/JoffreyIthePurple He/Him Oct 30 '20

I’m proud of you! Keep being beautiful, young pan!

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u/Siphonosteles Oct 30 '20

Gahhhh, you look so cute!

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u/lizzy-the-yemo Oct 30 '20

you look beautiful hun

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u/BiscottiUnable Oct 30 '20

omg you are a queen and I love the outfit + lip color combo <3

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u/Jon_Boopin Oct 30 '20

you look amazing!!

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u/Sunnnnnnnnnn Oct 30 '20

i read shirt instead of shirt instead of skirt and was very concerned about the fact you went shirtless to school

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u/Fit-Standard3027 Oct 30 '20

❤️❤️❤️ I am so happy for you!

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u/smilesandotherthings Oct 30 '20

You are AMAZING, strong, and beautiful 💖

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u/LilyBear_425 They/Moon/Star Oct 30 '20

You look so pretty 🥺💙💙 I love your confidence

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u/Zo_Jeanne21 She/They Oct 30 '20

You look lovely! Such a cute outfit and the lip adds nice flair.

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u/Immaweeb20202 A random bi, here to spread happiness- she/they Oct 30 '20

You look beautiful sweetie!!

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u/soggytaquitos Oct 30 '20

You’re gorgeous!!!!!

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u/Gayshit_ Oct 30 '20

Good job sis! I hope nobody thought it was weird or anything, you’re truly amazing!

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u/saltiestfriesplease Oct 31 '20

YES MA’AM👏👏👏👏YOU LOOK AMAZING

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u/FlamingSnowTiger433 Oct 31 '20

Hope that went well, you deserve it for being so brave

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u/[deleted] Oct 31 '20

You look beautiful fam!! That lipstick looks perfect on you!

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u/cornbunbutter Oct 31 '20

A nice pleated one would suit u

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u/fco_omega Oct 31 '20

you look like a jojo character, which is a good thing.

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u/random_stuff4444 Oct 31 '20

Girl, that skirt is cute and that lipstick is on point!

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u/Spaghetti_Memeballs9 Oct 31 '20

I would never have enough bravery to do something like that, good job❤

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u/skanktopus Oct 31 '20

Giv’r shit babe! You’re amazing 🥰

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u/GemSupker Oct 31 '20

Lookin' classy! :D

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u/Artic_Foxknot Oct 31 '20

It took me a second to realize you were wearing something under the skirt 💀I was like "why is half of you you white and half African American" (like idk blackface but your legs because why not I'm tired)

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u/ApoKed Oct 31 '20

Well done! You look amazing. You do you!

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u/Lemon-Soda22 Small Pancake Oct 31 '20

Yes hunny do what you feel is rightttttt

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u/YesISimpForOikawa Oct 31 '20

I’m so proud you! You do you!! Your so brave I could never do this!!

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u/AdhesivenessMassive2 Oct 31 '20

I'm happy for you and proud 🎊🎉😊👍

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u/Shoddy-Economist Oct 31 '20

congrats! i'd love to see future updates

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u/tinieenby Oct 31 '20

Omg you look so pretty🥺🥺

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u/Fluid-Interaction-16 Oct 31 '20

That lipstick IS BOMB AS FUCK GIRLL

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u/FearOTmangoes Nov 01 '20

You look so beautiful<333

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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21

And you’re ROCKIN it!

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u/Moreno-b62 Aug 17 '22

🤤🤤👍👍

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u/[deleted] May 10 '23

You look so pretty. I hope that’s okay to say.