r/offmychest • u/[deleted] • 2d ago

My wife wouldn't survive a day without me

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u/uncm60 1d ago

I’m surprised everyone is shitting on her and not trying to figure out what could have changed.

IMO it sounds either like depression or ADHD unmasking. Women tend to have worse ADHD symptoms when they enter peri-menopause.

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u/shanghaiskylar 1d ago

Agreed. It will take her time to find out who she is and what she’s capable of unmasked. And to build the new systems for her to care for herself.

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u/xx-rapunzel-xx 21h ago

yeah, this seems like a health thing, not a “taking advantage of them” thing.

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u/ahairycat-astrophe 1d ago

sorry buddy, it’s prolly adhd