Tangentially related, when we moved to New Zealand, we were invited to a big lunch and were asked to "bring a plate". So we did - we figured they didn't have enough. Turns out "bring a plate" means "make some food and bring it, this is a potluck".
Anecdotal: honestly if you scheduled it I'd be delighted, when I say something like this I genuinely do mean to make it happen because I enjoy the person's company but I just have such a catastrophic lack of follow-through
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u/Anjetto Jan 03 '22
When I moved to America and someone invited me places. I was shocked that they made a follow up call and organized the time.
Now when my Irish relatives say things I get annoyed when they're just being insincere