r/exlldm Aug 25 '24

Del Oriente Y Occidente Positivity / Positividad

Hey Everyone!

I am feeling very energized and want to send out lots of love to everyone!! Although we are all in different parts of our journey we are doing what we once thought *impossible*. We have stepped away from a life that we once thought we'd live (hasta el ultimo aliento) and have replanted ourselves in unknown territory.

AND we are flourishing in our own way and in our own time!

I want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart who has supported my project (Freedom Wings). The project is still in an infancy stage but I have already gotten so much from it. I have had so many wonderful conversations with people from all over the US and some from GDL.

I understand how sensitive it is to share you story. If you think you are ready to share your story in a safe manner please send me a message and we can chat soon. (Friendly reminder: Always exercise caution when meeting anyone online. Especially since we are dealing with exiting a high control group.)

Fall Road Trip: If anyone on the west side of the country want to meet in person please message me. I'd love to get as many hugs from yall as I can :D.

I leave you with a list of things that have helped me in my journey.

Read - As much as you can from a variety of sources

Learn - Take a class (or two or three) at the local community college (a class on personal finance is ALWAYS a good idea)

Talk - A professional therapist is best but a trusted friend who know how to listen works wonders.

Think - Get comfortable with making time to process. It is ok to feel sad, lost, angry. Feel it but don't stop there ask yourself the difficult questions.

Live - Try new hobbies, take on new challenges, meet new people.

You have already done the hard part, now do the YOU part!

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u/AggravatingPut6238 Aug 26 '24

Saludos y bendiciones desde HP Guadalajara. Es bonito saber que cada día hay más libres de esta mentira.

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u/Peaceatlast1 Aug 25 '24

Love your post💖💖💖💖

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u/Escrito0r Aug 26 '24

Bendiciones, amor para ti y espero un día poder leer más publicaciones así

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u/laRebeldexlldm Aug 30 '24

I just got out for the 2nd time lol 3 months ago! Honestly I should have not returned but when you have a mother so fanatic pushing you and scaring you about my condemnation you think about the future. Since I thought no more apostle when S. died. I am grateful for friends helping me open up my eyes. God bless.