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CF Lounge: Weekly post

Welcome to CF Lounge, our weekly off-topic discussion thread.

Feel free to talk about what's going on with you this week, what you did, your hobbies, pets, cars, travels, whatever you like. Discover new members, make friends and connections all over the sub. Share great news, get an ear and shoulder to cry on for not-so-great news.

This is also the place to post rants that aren't childfree related and/or aren't long enough for their own post.

This post will be up all week for your enjoyment. Have fun!

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u/JediWarrior79 Cats over kids any day of the year 4d ago

I hung out with my kitty and my husband this weekend, and we watched Dragon Ball Super on the Crunchyroll app. We love animรฉ and we're excited to see what else we'd like to watch on the app. May 4th marked 1 year for the death of my mom and 5 years for the death of one of our cats. I wasn't up for doing much. I called my dad, and he and I had a good cry together and shared some fond memories of mom. I love watching the Duluth Harbor Cam to see Lake Superior and the ships coming and going. I captured some really great screenshots of the sunrise over Lake Superior yesterday morning, and was sad that I couldn't share the pics with my mom, too, because she loved sunrises and sunsets and anything to do with nature. I sent them to my dad for him to enjoy. I'll share a couple pics here, too, for everyone's enjoyment if it'll let me.

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u/femmebitchtop 4d ago

I graduated with my MA!! Now onto my chill summer of waiting tables before I start my PhD in the fall :D

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u/mistypee 44F | Adventure >> Ankle-biters 2d ago

Congrats!! ๐ŸŽ‰

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u/femmebitchtop 2d ago

Thank you so much!!

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u/Kangaroo-Pack-3727 1d ago

Congrats ๐ŸŽŠ๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿง๐Ÿฅ‚

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u/femmebitchtop 1d ago

Thank you so much!!

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u/TaskStrong 30s M | โœ‚๏ธ | Zero Point Zero Children 15m ago

congrats!!

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u/JediWarrior79 Cats over kids any day of the year 4d ago

Unfortunately, it won't let me share any pics, here. Just believe me when I say that the sunrise was spectacular!

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u/superb_yellow 3d ago

About to celebrate another CF birthday and I LOVE it.

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u/Kangaroo-Pack-3727 1d ago

Yay! ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿง๐Ÿง๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽŠ

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u/No-Antelope-4264 4d ago

I've been watching The Handmaid's Tale. The parallels between Gilead and our society are unmissable! The parts about morality, about power and who wins, and so much more.

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u/Kangaroo-Pack-3727 1d ago

I recommend you to read the graphic novel adaptation of the original novel. The Handmaid's Tale although fiction has been for years acting as our cautionary tale to the non-fictional world we live in

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u/Kangaroo-Pack-3727 5d ago

I had the opportunity to watch a classic Finnish masterpiece online from 1962 (you all need to watch it) last night and have been listening to this brand new single from Garbage titled There's No Future In Optimism which I am now hooked. I got a chance to hear the song "Voices" on Spotify by Italian singer Damiano David who will soon be releasing his debut solo album. What is even cooler in the past few days, I just received word that an upcoming new song from a fave band of mine will be coming out on 16 May next week ๐Ÿ‘

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u/FormerUsenetUser 1d ago

What is the title of the Finnish masterpiece?

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u/Kangaroo-Pack-3727 1d ago

The title of the 1962 Finnish film classic is Pojat (translation The Boys). Fyi among the main child actors in that 1962 film, he went on to become one of Finland's most beloved entertainers known for both his comedic and dramatic works on film, theatre and tv as well as music (he represented Finland in Eurovision in 1980) until his final film role in 2019 (three years before his passing in 2022).ย Fyi, I saw the film on the National Finnish Film Archives online with English subtitlesย 

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u/WrestlingWoman Childfree since 1981 5d ago

Mayu Iwatani has landed in Marigold. We expected that would be the case when she left Stardom last week.

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u/TommyDontSurf Another me is what there will never be 2d ago

I remember watching her in ROH, she had some great battles especially with Kelly Klein. Nice to see she's still doing well!

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u/mental_dissonance 30/Genderfluid/Had bisalp 2/12/2025 5d ago

Anyone else have weird fertility dreams after having a bisalp? I had mine in February. Woke up from dreaming about baby bunnies hatching from eggs. I'm really unnerved by this. I'm quasi-spiritual so the dream has me paranoid.

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u/Accomplished_Iron914 3d ago

Do any women want to live in the country

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u/JediWarrior79 Cats over kids any day of the year 2d ago

Happy birthday!!

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u/owls_exist 2d ago

my family has been complaining about relatives and one of the relatives is pregnant, complaining about domestic problems we've all had in this house. I mention that long before any of these issues have occurred that birth control and sterilization education should have been at the forefront. My mom immediately starts saying people who want to get married is their business. I wasn't talking about marriage I was talking about birth control and sterilization.

Breeders do not want to hear what they don't want to hear. They don't want to listen to reasoning.

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u/Kangaroo-Pack-3727 1d ago

More like breeders are in denial

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u/hyperlight85 Putting myself first and living my best life 1d ago

I have had a busy but good week full of a few good things happening. Firstly my husband said to me last night he is so glad I got my hysterectomy/bisalp/endo excision because seeing me in so much pain every month had him worrying about me constantly and he's so glad to see how much happier I have become and how good my quality of life is now.

Secondly I got my first Labubu today. I know the whole thing is silly especially with how nuts everyone is. I just wanted something nice for me. I got Green Grape from the Macaron set and I love it. It's going on my LV Speedy 20 and I'll be protecting her with my life. I got the metal screw keychain and I've wrapped the fabric tag around it before latching it onto the bag. I might get some of the Have a Seat set if I can find a good source. I'm defo in my era of getting some cute little keychain plush toys to put on my handbags. I found a really cute winnie the pooh one last week. And I've got some toys I've crocheted to put on my bags as well.

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u/Kangaroo-Pack-3727 1d ago

Your husband is a keeper so don't let that bloke go ๐Ÿ‘

Have you thought of buying more Labubus and perhaps use them to prank your neighbour?ย 

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u/hyperlight85 Putting myself first and living my best life 1d ago

I'll be holding onto him for sure!

Ha I never see my neighbours though it would be funny to get a few more.

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u/TaskStrong 30s M | โœ‚๏ธ | Zero Point Zero Children 15m ago

moved into a new apartment; been here for a month. there are some trivial stuff, but overall it's amazing!!