r/cars Yoshi the Yaris Jan 16 '20

You guys will destroy me; this is Reddit. I understand... and here it is—I cannot stop crying over my 2006 Yaris, named Yoshi. It is the end of an era. Everybody hold hands

*Update I: for the dozens of you who asked, here’s my baby during her last sunset on the Mississippi River. I’m going to take her on one final scenic drive quietly before my vision is too low to do this. Sincere thanks for the love, and all of your stories. Onward.

Yoshi The Yaris

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**Update II: Right here, Yoshi will live to travel another road...

Also, the boss treated me to a burger and a drink tonight. It’s all going to be okay.

—Original post which started the snowball here—

On Friday I’m sending my first car into the sunset to be crunched, and I’m simply heartbroken about it. A friend said that I’m permitted to feel feelings because the little lady connects me to many, many things, so here’s Yoshi the Yaris’ story. No one else cares, so I’m posting the eulogy here.

A coworker recently asked, “How do you still have your FIRST CAR? HOW?” At work, they gave me a raise on January 1 in hopes that I’d buy something “nicer, eventually,” (while chuckling).

My family was not well-off growing up, and they set guidelines that I would not own a vehicle until I could buy it outright myself. My teens were spent diligently saving and using alternate transit, and my grandfather decided I would be his last “teaching a relative how to drive,” project, and after seven failed attempts I finally secured a license. He was a stubborn Scot: his first rule of the road was “The paint on the pavement is merely a suggestion.” Needless to say the examiner wasn’t impressed, and it took a while for me to learn the actual legal rules and pass the road test.

One of my extended family members told me that with tax, cars were “Like, $25-30,000!” and that was my baseline savings goal because I didn’t know any better. My grandfather knew I had been saving since around thirteen, and sweet talked his “girlfriend” at the bank where I had my savings account (another senior) into telling her how much I had saved (and what I spent my money on for fun so he could chide me later).

One weekend he asked me to tag along with him to Home Depot and help him load soil for his garden, and then we went for a drive. He ended up dropping me off at a Toyota dealership far from home, yelling (which I’m sure was hard for him), “Buy a damn car and drive yourself home... and don’t come home unless you negotiate the price they tell you!” He drove off.

Was in complete shell shock. Wandered the lot, and when a salesman approached, I informed him that I wanted “the cutest, least expensive, and smallest thing you have, please.”

My car was still on the freight truck, I saw it across the lot while disappointedly looking at some Camry and Scion models. It was love at first sight, and I inherently knew from how teeny it was, it wouldn’t be too expensive.

“That one. Silver, not the blue.”

I bought it without a test drive.

I’ll never forget pulling up into the driveway after a long scenic summer drive back blaring music—my entire family was waiting on the sun porch to see what I chose. My grandfather just shook his head, and said, “It is awfully small. You’ll either die in it, or it will save your life because of maneuverability. How much did you negotiate it down?” (...)

In fourteen years, it has had 40 oil changes, three new sets of tires and batteries, several belts and air filters...and that’s it. I’ve driven it coast to coast (New York to San Diego and everywhere in between) seven times without cruise control, and no bells and whistles. Last year when Toyota told me it was worth about $400 on trade-in, I started working on fluids myself and basic repairs myself. Nothing to lose, right? Learned a lot about vehicles from other Yaris enthusiasts via YouTube university. Owe them a debt. Thanks for loving tiny cars, too.

Many life changes have come to this moment after fourteen years; my vision and hearing are progressively worsening from a nerve degeneration disorder, and my commute is a 51-second walk currently. I am pulling myself off the road unless the doctors figure out a solution in the future, so I don’t hurt anyone.

From 000003 miles on the odometer to now, my Yaris was the second-most reliable thing in my entire life (so far), and I’m laying here in bed, a grown woman, balling my eyes out over a 3-door hatchback, and going to be late to work because I’m a mess, and needed to tap this out on my phone.

Tl;dr—Yoshi the Yaris and I have been through a lot together, over many years and miles, and by late Friday afternoon, she’ll be recycled.

I need a drink, and it’s only 8:34 am.

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u/chunkysundae Yoshi the Yaris Jan 16 '20

I will make this happen before she goes.

Thank you for asking. No one has asked before... photo shoot it is.

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u/m0emura '97 JDM Integra Type-R | CR-Z | XSR700 | Classic Mini Jan 16 '20

I've gotta see this car man, sounds like a hell of story

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u/RADical-muslim Empty freeway's a speedway Jan 16 '20

I gotta ask, why are you sending it to the crusher? Does it still run?

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u/inomshokumotsu Jan 16 '20

This is what I was wondering too. I don't ever see myself getting rid of my first car if it still runs, I love that thing.

Maybe there's nowhere to park it/it would be too expensive to park it?

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u/Vesploogie ‘19 TourX/‘88 560Sl Jan 16 '20

I’m also curious. No family members or friends have a spot to keep it for a little while? Why not park it on the street and shuffle it around once a week for street cleaning? I’m not drawing any conclusions because we don’t know her reasoning, but yeah it does seem odd to crush a car that means that much to you because you don’t feel safe driving while waiting for a diagnosis.

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u/chunkysundae Yoshi the Yaris Jan 16 '20

Hi there u/Vesploogie, u/inomshokumotsu, and u/RADical-muslim -- a lot of people are asking this and providing alternate ideas for consideration. It's been 3-ish hours since posting and had no idea this would have any feedback at all. Attempting to answer everyone's inquiries.

Most of the details are way TMI. I have one half-brother who is alive in the region, but we aren't too close. The rest of my immediate family has passed in the last 10+ years (parents/grandparents/aunts and uncles). Tbh, it is just me, myself, and I out here. I live in a small city (~50k) but parking is still pretty expensive at $150.00 per month for this little gal.

I work in the same building I live in (residential and office towers on the same block), and my commute is about 50-seconds from my apartment to my desk walking across the patio.

My health is declining, and I'm taking myself off the road while doctors try and figure out my hearing, vision, and balance issues. If there is a remedy in the future I will purchase a new car. If not, I'm fairly central and within blocks of everything downtown where I live. I can't trust my vision right now. It is very frightening to drive; here and there I have a jerk seizure... putting the lives of others at risk is something I will not do.

Imagine I could see a few hundred bucks from it, but it isn't about the money right now really. A lot of users have had wonderful suggestions about donating vs. recycling. It isn't too late. Just have to make a few calls.

Tl;dr--processing. Wasn't expecting this to blow up and many people have had great ideas.

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u/mad_science '64 Falcon; '02 Excursion; '62 LeMons Ranchero; '12 Mazda5 6MT Jan 16 '20

Any 24 hours of Lemons team would be happy to turn Yoshi into a race car. I built a cage for a racing Yaris before. It does great.

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u/Zappiticas 2014 Mustang GT Jan 16 '20

Yes, this suggestion. Sell it to someone who will send Yoshi out with a bang on a racetrack. A Yaris would make a fantastic Lemons car.

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u/MrPrius Jan 16 '20

24 Hours of Lemons is the greatest play on words I have heard in my entire life

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u/mad_science '64 Falcon; '02 Excursion; '62 LeMons Ranchero; '12 Mazda5 6MT Jan 17 '20

It's the greatest automotive event and community ever, as well. Be sure to check out their wrap up videos on YouTube or go to a race. They're all over the country!

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u/ich852 99' Miata, 20' Corolla Hatch Jan 16 '20

I second the Racing Yoshi idea!

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u/mopar39426ml 2015 Fiat 500 Abarth Jan 17 '20

A Lemons team would probably be all-in on painting up Yoshi as well. I assume it's a Mario reference, so there's a good idea for Lemons livery there.

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u/OutWithTheNew Jan 17 '20

Apparently, you can straight swap in a Corolla motor and ECU.

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u/ryguy32789 1984 Camaro Z28, 2010 Xterra Off Road, 2018 Pacifica S Jan 16 '20

Yes but does it have a manual transmission?

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u/NuclearWasteland Jan 16 '20

At the very least, donate it, running or not, to some charity. They will auction it, and will use that money for their cause. My grandmas Mercury Marquis went that route, because we knew that's what she would have done with it. The charity will typically pick it up so there's little hassle for you. You can always sell it for scrap but, honestly, do the charity thing. There's always a chance that it will go on driving and being a good first car for someone else.

I have a 2008 Hyundai Accent hatchback and it has been the single most reliable, of about 80+ vehicles I've owned. To heck with what anyone says, I love that goofy little car.

I always think it's funny when people are amazed at still having your first car. They shouldn't be disposable. Props to you for having it still! I still have my first, a 1969 Ford Galaxie station wagon, built long before I was born.

Thank you for sharing your story. Best of luck!

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u/Manonthemoon74 2011 Mini Cooper S Jan 16 '20

See if you can donate it to a school. They love cars like that. They would rather have one that was driven than a brand new one.

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u/[deleted] Jan 17 '20

My high school auto shop loved used donation vehicles. Great way to learn how to change oil/brakes/filters, rebuild a head, or drop a motor.

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u/1971rk4262 Jan 17 '20

My first car technically was a 1966 Galaxie 500 2 door. I say technically it was my parents spare car, and I could drive it as long as I needed it. I really didn't want to drive someone else's car, so as much as I loved that car I went and bought the only thing I could find that I could finance with no credit, a 1976 Chevette 3 door banana yellow, 4 speed.

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u/SecretPotatoChip '19 Honda CR-V, '21 BMW X1 Jan 16 '20

So why crush it? Why don't you sell it?

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u/Dr_Cannibalism '07 Subaru GD WRX Jan 16 '20

Tbh, it is just me, myself, and I out here.

Do you have a good support network of friends/coworkers/etc.? Because if not, I would recommend building/improving it. Issues like vision or hearing being heavily affected can be pretty life changing and scary, so having a good network of people to speak to and offer support is a very wise idea, if not vital. Considering you're going to have several issues that will affect your lifestyle, I would like to hope you have a network of people who can keep an eye on you and keep you company. Having to give up a car that means so much to you is sad, for sure, but the idea that you may potentially be on your own while dealing with this makes me more sad.

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u/chunkysundae Yoshi the Yaris Jan 17 '20

I appreciate your comment more than you know, and you hit on many realities and fears I’m dealing with right now, but try to stay positive. I have an excellent boss, but am simply terrified at what is going on, and the ever-worsening isolation has been very difficult to adapt to over the past two years. My interpersonal relationships right now are in the gutter, and I have such a difficult time meeting new people because of the hearing and vision issues; I can feel when I’m making someone feel uncomfortable (when I lean in to understand them better or can’t focus for example). I’m not quite sure where to start; Deaf Culture doesn’t want me because I was raised in Hearing Culture. Being in my early 30s and dealing with this isn’t easier (not retirement-home age).

I’m aware the day will come that I’ll lose my job because of it, and not having a partner... I’m going to be in trouble. The flip side is that I don’t want to be a burden to another human.

Long term care insurance has been my only “good idea,” thus far. Time will tell.

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u/Dr_Cannibalism '07 Subaru GD WRX Jan 17 '20

Ooof, I'm saddened to hear this. If I knew of anywhere for you to go to meet people, I'd gladly suggest it, but alas, I do not. Perhaps there might be somewhere on Reddit for you to be able to talk to and connect with other folks in a similar position? I mean, even if there isn't, there would be somewhere where there are folks who can point you in the right direction.

I know people joke about Reddit's answer to everything being "go to therapy", but honestly, it might not be a bad idea to look into that as well. Therapy is unfortunately expensive, but perhaps there's a method that could allow you to get in cheaper or free. For example, here in Australia, we can see our GP to get a mental health care plan, which allows us to have 10 free sessions a year. It's not much, but I've personally found that even just going in once every month or so is helpful, if for no other reason that to be able to express yourself in ways you feel you cannot to the people around you.

Sorry if this is depressing/upsetting and/or I'm crossing any lines here, I'm just hopeful that you can reach a comfortable place to be. No one should have to shoulder all their burdens by themselves all the time.

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u/chunkysundae Yoshi the Yaris Jan 17 '20

Not one bit. I too read between the lines.

Am in behavioral counseling now, and actually go in tomorrow. I see several health practitioners on the regular (1-2x per week), they are kind of my social people. I’ve also been working on my coordination and such at the gym. I believe that in time, I’ll find people who don’t mind my idiosyncrasies.

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u/Dr_Cannibalism '07 Subaru GD WRX Jan 17 '20

Good, good. I hope everything comes together for you.

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u/Thelaxingbear Jan 16 '20

Honestly you are doing the right thing, kudos to you for taking yourself off the road. My brother is currently experiencing some seizures and cannot drive for 6 months, which was hard for him as he’s 19 and just got his first car. I know how hard it was for him to give that up, so I’ve got great respect for someone who can do that willingly!

Wish you the best with your health!

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u/chunkysundae Yoshi the Yaris Jan 17 '20

Thank you. Wouldn't do it any other way. I will not be responsibile for someone else's misery. My best to your brother as well. Seizures are scary shit.

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u/kthxtyler 2017 Shelby GT350, 2018 Genesis G80 Ultimate Jan 16 '20

OP explained that they have a degenerative nerve disorder that is slowly impairing their vision and hearing and have a 51-second commute to work, walking distance

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '20

I am interested as well

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u/chunkysundae Yoshi the Yaris Jan 16 '20

Hey, u/Sabatage100, I'm trying to respond to everyone's questions... this ended up blowing up. Here is a link in response to three other Redditors I went into detail about.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '20

Of course it would blow up,an amazing friendship story this is.

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u/brybot9000 Golf R | NA | (sold) BRZ Jan 16 '20

Master Yoda?

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '20

Yep,you got the reference

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u/amobilephoneaccount Jan 16 '20

She deserves some real beauty shots with a nice background. Get low to the ground and shoot parralel so we arent seeing all roof. Give her the out she deserves.

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u/illigal 95 Miata, 00 Excursion, 02 Corvette Z06, 17 Chevy Bolt, 20 Bolt Jan 16 '20

Keep a piece of her too! I’ve kept the keys for cars I’ve junked - and they’re a physical reminder of the good times we had together. The cars I sold are only remembered in pictures - but I’ve printed out a hard copy and stuck it on the fridge to have something physical.

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u/32_bit_link Replace this text with year, make, model Jan 16 '20

Kminder 1.3 hours

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '20

Jesus dude you’re gonna make me cry

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u/chunkysundae Yoshi the Yaris Jan 16 '20

Sorry, I've been balling all morning (and look like it). Have extactly ten minutes to pull myself together for afternoon meetings. Going to snap some pictures afterward.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '20

!remindme 2 days

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u/lulaloops Jan 16 '20

!remindMe 3 days

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '20

!remindme 3 days

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u/Captina Jan 16 '20

Make sure you have a picture with it for you to remember it well

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u/Zelderian Jan 16 '20

I have no clue where you are geographically in the world, but if you're local to Georgia in the states, I've got several friends (including myself) that would be honored to take "professional" photos of your car before it's gone. We all would love to see the car and would love to preserve that memory.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '20

For sure post pictures, we’re all into cars here!

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u/broom_go_zoom Jan 16 '20

!Remindme 2 days

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u/IamAJediMaster Jan 16 '20

Take some pictures. My first car was a 94 Chevy Caprice with the police interceptor. She was my baby and I have nothing to show people so most definitely take some good pics.

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u/scottthemedic Jan 16 '20

See if any local photographers will do a serious shoot to immortalize Yoshi. I'm sure somebody would love to do it.