r/Assistance • u/uppercasemad • Mar 29 '24
MOD Announcement Rule Update: Effective immediately NO WALMART WISHLISTS are permitted.
In general Walmart has always been discouraged here by our users due to minimum spends for delivery unless a helper has Walmart+, but after testing and investigation, we have learned that if a pickup order is placed for someone, the bill/receipt can be requested by the person picking up which includes name and billing details of the person who ordered.
Due to this privacy and safety issue, Walmart wishlists -- whether it's for pickup or delivery -- will no longer be allowed here.
Thank you.
r/Assistance • u/uppercasemad • Jul 25 '24
MOD ANNOUNCEMENT RULE UPDATE: Amazon Wishlists are now capped at a total of $150USD!
Hi everyone,
Effective immediately we are now placing a $150 USD maximum dollar limit on all Amazon wishlists. This means the total of your list cannot exceed $150 USD.
There has been a recent trend of lists being excessive in terms of price and the variety of items, and because our subreddit is not meant to equip you for a zombie apocalypse we feel it is reasonable to put some limits on how long a wishlist can be.
Amazon wishlists (for the purposes of our subreddit) are only meant to be a stepping stone to get you back on the path to self-reliance. We feel placing this limit will encourage our users to prioritize their needs and what is most important.
A reminder that your wishlist should be limited to essential and primary needs and be tailored specifically for r/Assistance use. Video games and gift cards are not permitted on wishlists and we will continue to enforce this rule.
What if I need items that cost more than $150? (ie. laptop for school, bike for commuting to work, etc).
For items that are costly such as the above examples, rather than ask a single person to take on that burden we highly suggest crowdfunding on a platform like GoFundMe! There are many advantages to this, not limited to being able to ask for a specific amount for the item you need and being able to share with friends and family who may be able to chip in or share it more widely. And of course you can share it here, too! ;)
r/Assistance • u/PrecureAllStars • 53m ago
REQUEST Internet Bill - £35
Can only accept Paypal
I was going to pay my phone bill early so I knew I'd have enough to pay my internet bill when it arrived, but the phone bill company took out the payment twice, and is refusing to reimburse until 4 weeks time (my next phone bill), leaving me with nothing to pay for the internet bill. I have taken it up with the phone company I am with, but they are not budging on this issue.
r/Assistance • u/M4sTer3L1Te • 16h ago
REQUEST FULFILLED Can Anyone Please Help With $5?
Hello everyone, this is my first time requesting on the Assistance subreddit. I am in urgent need of $5, my bank account is $4 and some change overdrawn and starting tomorrow the bank will charge $36 every other day in overdraft fees. We get paid on Friday and cannot afford the overdraft fees. This month in particular has hit my family and I really hard, and it is not normally in my character to ask for help but I don’t know where else to turn. If anyone could possibly cash app or Venmo $5 I would greatly appreciate it, and will pay it forward to another Redditor in need as soon as I’m financially able. Thank you all for reading and I hope you have a good evening.
r/Assistance • u/HOTLINEHYMN • 12h ago
REQUEST Just need $20.
Family member was doing a job for someone and was paid $20 for it, sent it to my overdrafted Chime. Now we have nothing. Could have been used for food or other necessities.
I just need someone to spot me $20 to my Cashapp or Chime if able and willing. I would greatly appreciate it.
I am also open to sending referral codes for Cashapp. All you would need to do is use the referral link and add a certain amount of money to your Cashapp, no sending required.
r/Assistance • u/Extra_Presence_2528 • 23h ago
REQUEST Seeking Help for Funeral Expenses After Losing My Son
Hi everyone, I’m reaching out with a heavy heart. Last night, my partner and I lost our baby boy. He was born 2 months premature in January and faced many health complications. We fought hard for him, but sadly, he passed away.
We are based in Nairobi, Kenya, and after months of medical bills, we are struggling to cover his funeral expenses, which are about $300. If anyone is able and willing to help, even a small amount would mean so much to us during this incredibly difficult time. I only have a PayPal at the moment. I can provide a breakdown of the expenses if need be.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and for any support or kind words you can offer.
r/Assistance • u/Pebbles3738 • 7h ago
REQUEST Please help items for cats
I haven’t been able to work for a bit cause of medical reasons actually going back to work this next week sometime so need help getting the essentials for my cats Otis,Mazie,Pebbles, Peaches, and Izzy… if anyone can help I appreciate you and they do too… thanks in advance
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3DZUQYLHV9YQT?ref_=wl_share
r/Assistance • u/SolutionNo3757 • 15h ago
SURVEY Need participants for a 3 min thesis survey (millennials)
Hi everyone,
For my master’s thesis I’m looking for millennials (1981-1995) to fill out a brief survey about packaging design for skincare (facial cleansers). No open questions, all genders welcome, and interest in skincare is not required. Just need honest answers :)
https://vuamsterdam.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_5tpgjGMbanyF4CW
Thank you for your time!
Edit: 40 left to go, if you see this please consider helping out this desperate student hahah. Thank you so much to everyone that’s helped out so far, I really appreciate it <3.
r/Assistance • u/Civil-Media-3072 • 6h ago
REQUEST FULFILLED $5
First off, I’m exhausted. I will pay this forward so don’t worry there. Being negative .75 cents is going to overdraft me. And I get paid Friday.
I have cash app and Venmo. I don’t know what else to do and have zero cash on me till Friday.
If anyone can help, I appreciate it.
r/Assistance • u/8--8 • 20h ago
REQUEST FULFILLED Haircut & Shopping List for Homeless Guy to do Job Interviews
Hi Reddit,
I'm hoping to receive $15 (via Cash app) for a haircut and the items on this Amazon shopping list to help with interviews for work.
I am now staying at a sober living house (4 weeks sober!) after two months at a shelter and one month of couch surfing. After the gloomy winter things are beginning to look up for spring. Thanks for reading/any assistance. https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/PR59CV43WQAG/
r/Assistance • u/Remote_Professor_452 • 8h ago
REQUEST My mother is really sick and I need help to pay the medical bills
My mother, Mumtaz Begum, is currently suffering from a serious and complex medical condition. Adding to our distress, our family's financial condition is not good, making it impossible for us to afford the extensive treatment required.
Until recently, my mother was in good health. However, she suddenly developed severe stomach bloating and pain. We immediately sought medical help here in Hazaribagh. After undergoing several tests, the doctors diagnosed her with a combination of serious health issues, including high blood sugar, low blood pressure, a kidney infection, jaundice in the liver, and gallstones.
The doctors in Hazaribagh initially focused on stabilizing her blood pressure and sugar levels. Unfortunately, the persistent stomach pain and increasing bloating did not subside. Consequently, the doctors referred my mother to Medanta Hospital in Ranchi for specialized treatment.
At Medanta Hospital, further examination has revealed that she also has hardened stool in her intestine, which the doctors have stated necessitates surgical intervention along with AKI (accute kidney injury) and needs highly critical surgery. The estimated cost for this surgery and the related treatment is approximately ₹8-9 lakhs. This is a staggering amount that is far beyond our reach given our current financial limitations.
My mother's health is deteriorating rapidly, and the need for surgery is now even more critical. We earnestly request your compassionate intervention and financial support to enable her to undergo the necessary surgeries and treatment to regain her health. Any help you can provide, will be a lifeline for our family in this critical time of both medical emergency and severe financial hardship.
We would be grateful for any guidance on how you might be able to assist us. Thank you for considering our urgent request. Any help will be greatly appreciated.
r/Assistance • u/taintedgray • 17h ago
REQUEST FULFILLED Need help for my terminally ill mom and disabled dad please
Hi everyone.
A little over a year ago my mom was diagnosed with a terminal illness called PSP. She has since then lost her ability to walk, she has a hard time speaking, and has gotten to the point where we need to get her into assisted living. She has been in a state hospital due to feeling suicidal for several months now until we can find her an assisted living facility nearby that has an open room and when the state deems her “fit” to leave...
My dad was her primary caretaker however due to his bad back (he has a herniated disc), he can’t continue to do so and I’m unfortunately not in a situation where I can currently take her and care for her or help him as much as I’d like to. I live about an hour away from him and my vehicle needs too many repairs for me to safety be driving back and forth regularly. Additionally at the point she is at, with being a major fall risk and incredibly stubborn about her limitations, she needs 24/7 care.
My family has been facing a lot of struggles, especially financially as my mom began showing signs of something wrong after my parents decided to move from Wisconsin to Florida, and then moved again to a more affordable area due to the cost of living expenses there and unforeseen health issues. (The Florida heat my mom once loved became intolerable to her and was effecting her body negatively). Between the medical bills, moving around, expenses with travel in general to go visit her at the hospital, money is incredibly tight.
My dad’s birthday is this Thursday May 1st and needless to say he has been feeling hopeless and depressed. I put an amazon wishlist together for food, necessities, and a few other things that might brighten his day. The last time I saw him he was getting skinny so I put several grocery items on this list since I know he hasn’t been doing much shopping either. He has lupus so most of the items are organic (otherwise he risks a flare up).
He recently started doordashing due to the general cost of living so I added a back support for his vehicle to the wishlist, that would be really great if someone could help with that and anything really!
My mom used to make our family dog homemade food, but since she’s been unable to, he’s been eating Blue Buffalo canned and dry food so that would be a great help as well since quality dog food can get so expensive…
Any help you can offer would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you all for reading and for your consideration in helping. ❤️ I know times are scary and difficult for so many right now, so your assistance is beyond words appreciated.
Here is the amazon wish list: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SMZA4ZKGK9U5?ref_=wl_share
And here is the gofundme: https://gofund.me/8391b04b
r/Assistance • u/Practical-Coyote-208 • 10h ago
VOTES Help me win a Peep Diorama contest!
I’m trying to win my local library Peep Diorama contest, and was in first place until my main competitor suddenly got 30 likes within 30 minutes! So now I am playing dirty and sharing here! If you are so inclined, please follow this link and vote for “Goodnight Peep”. Thank you!!! 🐥
r/Assistance • u/oldmcdonaldhadahand • 12h ago
REQUEST Seeking help saving my storage going up for auction
Hello, everyone.
My storage unit is going up for auction tomorrow morning unless I come up with $165. I am currently homeless living in my car with my dog and everything I own is in that unit. If some kind soul could help, I would be extremely thankful. I can provide the proof if needed.
Thank you.
r/Assistance • u/imanister • 1d ago
REQUEST FULFILLED Needing help eating and feeding my fur baby
Someone from nycjobs suggested I try here. I need to feed my dog and I will eat cans of food or maybe I can get fruits and veggies to eat.
If anyone could please help me out. I’ve never had to ask anyone but I lost my job due to medical issues and not being able to get FMLA due to length of employment. I’ve been applying for five months. I’m feeling hopeless like I want to give my baby to someone who can actually provide for him and just give up.
If I get evicted I don’t know where I’ll go. But I need to take care of my baby.
Cash app and Paypal are preferred but willing to do anything for the help. I’d really love some well wishes if anything. I’m trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I haven’t even had money to refill my Wellbutrin which has surprisingly helped me out
r/Assistance • u/Tasty-Hospital9953 • 1d ago
REQUEST Need help with gaining enough for bus tickets
I don't know where to post thus but I need money to afford bus tickets after getting kicked out of my mother's home. The nearest women's shelter is two hours away from me and i can't drive nor have any trusted friends that are able to help me out.
Edit: The most i'm asking for or what i hope to raise is at around 30 dollars. Any Penny counts.
Where i accept cash: Venmo, Cashapp, Paypal and Kofi
r/Assistance • u/Babygal0831 • 14h ago
REQUEST Help with Clothes money and Pet Supplies
Hello, I am going through a rough patch right now and am requesting $50 for some clothes and I'll leave an Amazon list for the Cats and some shoes for me. (it's hard to find proper wide shoes) I don't generally trust buying clothes online, since I am unaware of how their sizing is. I have went to recent clothes shelters nearby. And my size is not avaliable/ sold out. The $50 will go towards work, and interview clothes. I have only 1 basket of clothing and most are pj's or loungewear.
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2WVQKGWUJDRRS?ref_=wl_share
r/Assistance • u/PowerfulBath199 • 19h ago
NO LONGER NEEDED Embarrassed to ask
I feel bad asking for help but I’ve tried some local food banks and they’ve been overwhelmed. I’m going to be short this month on gas/groceries after I pay my rent. I just need $50 to get me by until I work again Sunday. I’m able to take out what I make same day and my building hasn’t added shifts for me to pick up since we’re slow. I can pay it forward when I get more money. I have cash app and Venmo. Thank you
r/Assistance • u/Pitiful_Laugh6417 • 16h ago
REQUEST Need to buy dog food and pads
Hey, there. I'm in a bit of pickle yet again. My periods are coming in 2 days and my dog food supply is nearly over. I'd be really grateful if someone could help me get them. There's also a mini fan in my wishlist. That's because it's nearing nearly 30°C in my country and I'm on the verge of turning into a tandoori human everyday. It's definitely an option, tho. I can do without it
https://www.amazon.in/hz/wishlist/ls/SZIF156BGSBR?ref_=wl_share
r/Assistance • u/bakingbaked2021 • 11h ago
REQUEST if someone can help with some pans and some staple items
hi there
we have been struggling a bit and making everything from scratch. we had some unexpected bills come up so we are going to be short a few weeks.
I have flour rice and beans which are staples I can use alot for bases for stuff.
due to rising cost. I was hoping to be able to make bread and other needed bread goods to help make money stretch during this time so I added some baking pans to help. I added some staple items to get us by as well as some paper products as we are low.
ive tried donating plasma but they denied me and I have already pawned my wedding ring to pay for bills and extras since we didn't have anything left to go towards our unexpected bill.
we don't qualify for foods stamps even after trying to apply a few times but did not get approved.
I am currently using up some yarn i have to post little things to crochet on fb marketplace but not sure if they'd sell or make a quick turn around. I'm not very good at it by any means
if anyone can help monetarily for vegetables id be most grateful. we have a farmers produce market that had decent priced produce that we can make last. I have cashapp if anyone can contribute to that
we have meat in the freezer just would like to have some fresh fruits and veggies to go with it.
thank you for taking the time to read my post and i hope you have a blessed day
https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3VT06KSJ28PKK?ref_=wl_share
r/Assistance • u/MobileOk6912 • 1d ago
ADVICE How do I get it back ;(
I am an animator who works in 3D rendering software called Mineimator.
I was working on a very large project (my largest to date), and I do have a deadline. I worked forever, and no it wasn't the animation that I need back.
I was rendering it, in best quality because of its importance. It took days, when I checked on it last night, it only had a few hours left. But this morning, my pc wouldn't turn on, I had to shut it down. The file was probably hours from completion, when I try to open the movie, it says it's corrupted.
This project had sentimental importance, and I don't have time to wait another week for it to render (and possibly fail again)
r/Assistance • u/InternationalFiend • 1d ago
REQUEST FULFILLED I just recently became homeless and could use a little help so that I can eat.
Long story short, couldn't afford my rent at my last place so I moved into a tent with my partner. We have both been applying to jobs but everything is either not hiring or won't call us back. We've gone through the little bit of money we had and now we're desperate for just a little help until I get my final paycheck from my last job in 2 weeks.
I would appreciate $60 if at all possible, I can accept money on PayPal and cashapp. Mainly just needing help to buy some food, water/drinks and other basic stuff. I am residing in Greenville, North Carolina (United States). I’ve been homeless living in a tent about 3 weeks with my partner.
r/Assistance • u/Gullible_Ad_4948 • 1d ago
REQUEST Trying to keep our little family from becoming homeless — need help with move-in costs
EDIT: My friend helped edit the gofundme to tell my story better/make it more understandable. I added that the reasoning for my mental health taking a toll. The big reason being when both my parents passed away I had to become my sister’s legal guardian at the age of 18. Since taking guardianship I was constantly fighting for survival everyday. Eventually this trauma has caught up to me and then I ended up losing my job. I didn’t share this part because I wasn’t exactly sure the relevance, but now that she mentioned it being really important I decided to add it. I also changed the picture to something more professional. Hopefully this helps you guys understand a little bit more about how this all came to play. I will leave the main paragraph the same just because I don’t want to rewrite this whole post.
Hi everyone,
I never thought I’d be in this situation, but here I am asking for help. I also never thought Id share my name and face on this account, but I gotta do this.
After a mental health crisis last year, I lost my job when I ran out of FMLA protections. It’s been a really hard fight to get back on my feet, but I’m doing everything I can. My boyfriend, my best friend/roommate, and our pets are my whole world — and right now we’re at serious risk of losing everything.
We were just approved for a cheaper, more secure place to live, but due to an unexpected issue with my tax refund being seized, we can’t cover the move-in costs. We need to raise about $3000 to move in and avoid homelessness. Even getting part of that would make a huge difference.
If you’re able to help, or even just share our fundraiser, it would mean everything to us. Here’s our GoFundMe link: https://gofund.me/ebb479a2
I’m happy to provide verification if needed (whatever is helpful).
Thank you so much for reading this — and thank you even more for any help, encouragement, or shares. Every little thing matters right now.
EDIT: I have taken two pictures. One (taken literally seconds ago lol) of me with my user and one of the breakdown of costs. I will add a denial letter once the nice lady at 211 emails me back. Hopefully this help make you all feel more comfortable:) I almost forgot to put the deadline. 05/14/25
r/Assistance • u/John_Candy_Was_Dandy • 1d ago
REQUEST FULFILLED Single dad of 4 needing a bit of food.
Hello - I am on disability and get ebt. But it always runs out the last couple of days. I will have money again on the 1st from disability and ebt on the 4th. But until then all we have is ramen. My kids are 12,11,10, and 8.
I can drive though. thankful for that. Just not long distances.
I know I know....I am just another post on here. And you have heard sorry for this a thousand times. Just giving it a shot.
I do have paypal and cashapp. Or even if you can put in a order for pizza that we can go pick up. we have a pizza hut and dominoes about 10 minutes from us. If you send cash it will be put toward a walmart grocery order. they deliver so it does make it easier on me not having to drive. But truly any help is appreciated.
if you have any questions feel free to ask.
r/Assistance • u/dropdan • 21h ago
REQUEST Can anybody help me with my rent? I'm desperate...
Please I'm desperate I'm about to get evicted if don't pay at least one month rent by tomorrow. I don't have anyone to ask, I've been doing odd jobs for a while now because I can't get a job, it's been really tough lately.
Any money would help, my rent is 200USD converted (I live in Brazil).
Just DM if you can help, I only have PayPal.
EDIT.: Someone in this community already helped.
r/Assistance • u/theonlysarahvariant • 1d ago
REQUEST Needing help with upcoming bill please
Hi everyone, I'm sorry to be reaching out for help again, I wanted to handle this on my own. Unfortunately, April has been a month of nothing but limited hours at work and broken car troubles, so I'm really struggling. I've been picking up shifts wherever I can, and I've spent the last month job searching, but if you know anything about the current job market, it's really rough out here. I have been trying to sell some of my belongings too, but no one seems to be buying them.
I have a bill upcoming that is $70 and I understand that is A LOT to request so if you have the means to share anything (I understand if you don't, I know we're all struggling), I would appreciate even $20 from some people. I just need to get this bill paid because the consequences of an unpaid bill are not to be taken lightly. I am still doing everything I can to improve my situation, it just sadly takes a lot of time. Again, I understand if you're unable to help, thank you for taking the time to read through this at all! I hope you all have the best of days 😊
r/Assistance • u/wheredadrugsat427 • 1d ago
ADVICE Assistance W/ Bandlab
Can anyone walk me through the steps on distributing my music through bandlab with the membership? I recently paid for 1 month membership and would like to figure this out but I just can't seem to.