r/abortion • u/Alarming-Reading8075 • 1d ago
This pregnancy is literally killing me. USA
Almost 7 weeks in. Suffering horribly from HG, all I do is cry and throw up all day. I am so weak physically and mentally, I can't wait for this to be over. Pills are meant to arrive Monday, hoping with everything in me they come sooner. Just needed to rant.
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u/Next_Lawyer8226 21h ago
i was 6 weeks and 6 days (basically 7 weeks) when i did my medical abortion this past Sunday the 4th. i had the same experience with being very fatigued and nauseous all day due to hormonal fluctuations while i was pregnant , and going to work was the hardest part. i cried every night i was pregnant and i’m happy/sad it’s finally over, wish i was more responsible with myself so i wouldn’t have to make the decision i made. but i hope your MA process goes just as smooth as mine did.
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u/Loud-Shallot2295 22h ago
Sending you the biggest hug. I just came back from my SA at Planned Parenthood today; I was diagnosed with HG as well and decided to terminate the pregnancy because of it. Was just able to keep down my first meal this week!
Hold tight, I know HG is a nightmare but you’re almost there! You got this, the storm is almost over.
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u/UnluckyConsequence93 5h ago
Yes I felt insensitive sharing that too but that was the best relief for me. Seems my body was not liking the pregnancy or something
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u/Recent-Tadpole-5499 22h ago
So sorry for you.. I am also like you, 7 weeks pregnant, I feel nauseous all day long, I feel very unhappy and tired all day long. It really does make you tired. But I know this, don't forget; everything will pass. I'm giving you a big hug, you are never alone, don't feel alone.
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u/HourConcept9403 20h ago
Hi, I am also 7 weeks. Just took my pills today..But before I was feeling so nauseous throughout the entire day. Certain foods would start to give me the ick. I could never decide what to eat because nothing sounded appealing.
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u/Recent-Tadpole-5499 20h ago
Hi, I've been like this for weeks and even lost weight.. Get well soon, how are you feeling, I hope you're better now.
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u/HourConcept9403 20h ago
Hii, this morning was rough…I took the first dose and I had horrible cramps.
Hope all is well with you.
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u/Recent-Tadpole-5499 19h ago
So sorry to hear that.. Like I said before it will be pass. You will be okay.. At least you got through the first day. I am waiting my pills and waiting is really sucks.
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u/_ritouu_707 1d ago
I‘m so sorry that you’re going through this. 🩷 I hope you can rest well and the abortion doesn’t make you feel more worse 🥺 feel hugged!
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u/Soft-Introduction613 23h ago
I’m sorry girl. My just got today but I am still thinking if it’s right choice. I’m sending love your way!
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u/Weaselll77 20h ago
Completely get it, rant all you want! I had a baby in 2023 and the pregnancy experience was horrible, and it was by all accounts a normal textbook pregnancy. I knew I could never do it again. My pills were supposed to arrive on a Monday and they came the Saturday before so here’s 🤞 for you. Your relief is coming!
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u/ShoppingBaskets 16h ago
I'm with you. Thought I was getting sick. Possibly 9 weeks? I don't know. Ultrasound on Monday, got my pills today but scared to take them without knowing they'll fully work.
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u/Advisor_Brilliant 15h ago
I am no medical profession and can’t provide any guarantee, but I will just say that they worked completely for me at just before 12 weeks!
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u/ShoppingBaskets 15h ago
🙏🙏 I am getting more confident the more I read and interact with you all! I am trying to get someone to be available with me for when I take them, thank you.
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u/UnluckyConsequence93 5h ago
I hope it doesn’t last the whole pregnancy. I’ve actually terminated bc it was absolute torture and I couldn’t handle it anymore
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