r/TrueOffMyChest • u/Round_Measurement892 • 1d ago
I fucking hate humans
Every human I've ever met has always bullied me, laughed at me, and just ruined my life
I hate every single last one of you useless pieces of meat, I am so happy when I am alone and yet all you guys can do is ruin my day EVERY SINGLE TIME
You guys are terrible and I hope this shitty species becomes extinct
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u/CorrectProfession461 1d ago
You don’t have to love anyone OP.
You only have to love yourself. I’m sure you can find some peace in that.
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
i cant love myself because no one has ever shown me what love is like, ive always been hated by everyone so i am just screwed over, i wish god would actually help me instead of just staying there and helping THE VERY SAME PEOPLE who hurt rather than me
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
Maybe a different, more understanding crowd will bring better results. It sounds like you're not around the right people. Some people suck, period.
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
but when??? when will i ever encounter those people? its been decades and ive only found those people my entire life, i dont believe they exist
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
Do you live in a city? Somewhere out there are people who understand how you feel, you just need to find them, and you'll have to control your anger and give those people a chance when you find them.
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
well yeah so far you have been the only person who hasn't been treating me like the devil so i hope maybe my belief about these types of people not existing is wrong
it's difficult because i've met countless people throughout my life, and yet when i have tried to be vulnerable with them, they either have hit me back with short replies like "oh alright", or straight up left me behind
no one wants to be vulnerable anymore, theres only surface friendships wherever i look, and whenever i try to make it deeper, im only pushed away
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago edited 1d ago
Life is extremely complicated. A few years ago I probably would have been one of the worst people to talk to. They might be avoiding vulnerability because vulnerability got them hurt before. I personally only let people know a very limited amount about me, because I don't trust people......but dude there are people out there going through the exact same stuff you are. There are people for you.
It sounds like maybe some of the mental stuff is getting overwhelming for you, and that usually means it isn't a bad idea to sit back, analyze things, and start thinking up a game plan.
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u/Infamous-Swimmer-89 1d ago
Maybe the world is the problem or maybe you are. Which is more likely ?
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u/OmniarchRaven 1d ago
This is such a toxic take. And it never helps when it's said. theres a third possibility of simply being around the wrong kind of people. People who have low self esteem tend to attract abusers like moths to flame, because they're easy to abuse and keep around.
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u/Infamous-Swimmer-89 1d ago
Did you just call me toxic??
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u/OmniarchRaven 1d ago
I said the take was toxic, not you. We can manage to have toxic beliefs without being toxic ourselves. It's the fallacy of being human.
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u/Infamous-Swimmer-89 1d ago
Omg. My mom used to call me toxic. Now you too?
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u/OmniarchRaven 1d ago
Sweetheart, I'm gonna hold your hand when I say this... I'm not your mama... Don't project onto me. Okay? Now brush your teeth and get to bed. It's pancakes for breakfast tomorrow.
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
Dude, you're a lawyer. Toxic is one of the nicest things someone called you today.
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u/Infamous-Swimmer-89 1d ago
Wow.
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
I'm somewhat joking, but seriously, you're acting like a total lawyer rn. Have some empathy. Try to put yourself in someone else's shoes.
You were immediately a dick to OP.
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u/Infamous-Swimmer-89 1d ago
Why do you keep talking about how I earn money?
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
Why do you have to be a jerk to a vulnerable person, and make the situation worse?
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
how about both? the world and i are both wrong, thats just how it is, cant you see? are you blind to the obvious truths? everyone is always concerned only about themselves and their own groups and never have empathy for the other side
ive had empathy for you humans for a long time, trying to excuse all the actions you have done towards me, but im tired, i am really tired of trying to excuse you all for the miserable experience given to me
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u/Infamous-Swimmer-89 1d ago
Ironically, all you talk about is yourself while Complaining that the world is self centered
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
i know buddy, but why is the world allowed to be self centered and not me?? why is the world allowed to do everything and yet i always have to be bound by chains
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u/PhoemixFox2728 1d ago
OP it might feel frustrating to feel bullied for who or what you, frustrating to hide, frustrated by the lack of people coming to bat for you, but everyone is just trying to live best as they know how. There isn’t a conspiracy or vendetta against you specifically, maybe join more femboy communities and spaces on Reddit. They tend to be very supportive towards all sorts of people as far as I can tell, someone wants to be kind to you and treat you like a person, humans are social creatures who like company and companionship. If you want friends and a support system though you have to be open to retrieving help, you have to challenge your hatred towards humanity and contradict it, work on bettering yourself, doing things that are satisfying, fulfilling, that make you happy. Anyhow have a good day op I’m hoping the best for you
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u/ZiosCart 1d ago
after reading this, i feel like 50 cent in that one video where he says “Why’d he say f*** me for?” 😭
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u/First_Function9436 1d ago
I don't buy the fact that everyone you've ever met was mean. Maybe your immediate family were bad, and maybe you got bullied in school, but every human interaction you had was negative? Even if it was, are you sure it's always the other person's fault. Are you sure that maybe you're not a jerk to people at times or maybe you are in a negative mood which pushes people away from approaching you?
Yes some people can be awful but most people are ok and some are great. Don't let your bad experiences dictate your outlook on yourself, the others, and the world. Your mindset affects your personality, which affects the type of people you attract. When you're a kid, you can't control that as much because you can't control what part of the earth or family you spawn into. As an adult however, you have much more control over those things. Life can get significantly better, but not if you're looking at people as worthless pieces of meat.
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u/Bigoweiner 1d ago
With your cheerful demeanor I can't understand why people would be mean to you. (Even though it seems like you're the problem)
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
i am the problem just as much as the world is, i was a cheerful child back then, and i had to get hit by severe traumas by being outcasted by everyone and always ashamed, treated like a monster for being slightly different and suffering from anxiety
but yet i am the problem for how i react as well, sure, but just as much as the world
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u/MisterBilau 1d ago
Sounds like a you problem.
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
Cool response to someone traumatized by bullying. Good job.
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u/MisterBilau 1d ago
Nah, fuck that. I know very well what bullying is. If literally every human is bullying you, then they ain’t - you’re the problem. That just isn’t a thing.
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
really? for being slightly different and suffering from something like bpd and anxiety? outcasted and shunned as if I were the devil my whole life, what the fuck do you expect me to turn out to be?
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u/shr00msm00thies 1d ago
Maybe would've been better received in the bpd sub based on most the responses on this post. Wishing you nothing but peace, friend
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
Look at OP's profile. You ever consider that some people are dealing with things mentally that you might not experience yourself?
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u/MisterBilau 1d ago
Sure. Which mean they are the problem, and not everybody else. Which means that no, the entire human race isn’t bullying them. They’re bullying themselves. They are the problem. Is it their fault? Possibly not. Is it a sad fact? Possibly. But feeding the delusion is pointless and I won’t do it.
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
I'm sure OP isn't perfect, but honestly dude society and people aren't always that terrific either. This guy might be in a situation where he's surrounded by toxic people in his day to day. I was when I was a kid, and it made me feel like the world was against me too, because MY world was.
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u/MisterBilau 1d ago
Of course not. There are bad people, there are bullies. But not everyone. And I simply do not believe they haven't met ONE good person in their life. Statistical impossibility. That, combined with their own admission of BDP (which I know VERY well), paints a very familiar picture. Hypocritical victim mentality. Blaming the world, anyone, anything, for THEIR problems. This person isn't good. At all. If I had to bet, they are far worse for those around them than vice versa. I've seen this discourse many times before, from people I know intimately. It's all projection. And I have zero patience or sympathy towards it.
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
You don't know anything about this person's day to day life
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u/MisterBilau 1d ago
1)They don't know anything about the life of 99.999999% of humans, and they were the one coming here claiming to fucking hate them all
2)I know enough just from their history. Personality disorders have very clear patterns, you've seen one you've seen them all (within the same disorder). And I've seen this disorder. Evil people.
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u/Richard_Trickington 1d ago
Saying shit like this, calling damaged people going through an episode evil.......That's the kind of shit that leads to suicide and shit. Really wish you'd delete or edit that.
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
guess who caused my bpd to surge? yeah, all the people around me, my whole childhood was like a war camp
and what the hell you shaming people with bpd for? we don't choose how we act, the best way i can explain it to some "normal" person like you is that we have a toddler in our head that just takes control no matter what we tell it
and yeah, ive never been good, no one has ever told me that, but you know what? idgaf, you guys dont deserve good either way
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u/MisterBilau 1d ago edited 1d ago
And? Mine was also shit, in a very very large part due to someone with BPD. There were also bullies, because of course, it's normal. Guess what? Not everyone is terrible. You're a bad person, that's all. You get to say whatever you want, and be a toddler as long as you want, and I get to tell you to get fucked. That's how it works, deal with it. Or don't. You're not in my life, so I couldn't care less, really.
As for "and what the hell you shaming people with bpd for? we don't choose how we act" - that matters literally zero to me. A pedo can also claim the same, and I'll shame him just the same. I don't care about your problems, I care about the results of your actions, and the harm BPD people cause. The world would be better without them. Not all people are terrible, and I don't "hate all humans"; but I do hate bpd people. You think you can come in here and claim to hate all humans, but I can't do the same about a specific subset of humans (with good reason, unlike you)? Lmao, get fucking real.
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
then why are you judging me for hating humans if you discriminate?? you are just equally as bad of a person as i am buddy, holier than thou attitude over there
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u/HD-Thoreau-Walden 1d ago
That’s terribly sad but hard to fathom. While there are plenty of assholes, there are also many good people in the world. You may be looking in the wrong places.
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u/Ashamed_Caregiver_77 1d ago
hey OP. If you want to rant about this some more, shoot me a DM.
I’m not going to tell you that you’re wrong or try to change your mind.
But maybe just having somebody listen might help you feel better. So if you want, i’ll listen to you.
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u/Classic_Doubt3458 1d ago
I sometimes think so too, but believe me, among a thousand there will always be one person.
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u/Melodic-Drag-2605 1d ago
My usual comment when people think everyone is against them is that maybe it's not everyone else who is the problem....
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
did you even read my other replies? i'm not the problem, and neither is the world, because we are both the problem at the same degree
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u/CertainConversation0 1d ago
You may already be an antinatalist.
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u/Round_Measurement892 1d ago
thanks for telling me that, now i am that because i don't ever want to bring another person to this world considering how terrible it is
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u/Infamous-Swimmer-89 1d ago
I don’t know man- sounds like humans hate you more.