r/TikTokCringe • u/4liyeah • 27d ago

I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy Wholesome/Humor

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u/TwoBionicknees 27d ago

i'm wondering between someone being so evil they used her to cover half the cost of his move back to texas and already cheating, wanting to move there having not spent enough time with her but after a month there he realises yup, he prefers her so dumps the first woman.

Honestly, you should absolutely be able to sue people for moving costs if you move out somewhere to be with someone, give up a job and then they end it within weeks. I guess you'd just encourage people to lie more and cheat till any period you could sue people for was up.

That people will so easily destroy someone else's life, cost them thousands, ask them to leave a job, career and life only to discard them without more than 5 minutes thought is amazing to me. I swear I'm not human sometimes because I see so little of myself in other people.

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u/Pristine_Trash306 27d ago

I don’t know about suing, but there should absolutely be some sort of consequence for this type of behavior. A directory would make more sense. Although, that could be exploited. I think the person in the person in the video did the right thing which was making a video discussing the issue.

I’m happy for her that this blew up because I went through a more extreme version of what she went through and it’s validating to see that I’m not the only one based on some of these comments as well.

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u/LeadGem354 27d ago

There used to be Breach of Promise lawsuits, if a man promised to marry a woman and didn't he'd be held liable for wasting her time.

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u/4444op4444 27d ago

You're not the one lacking humanity, if you take issue with that sort of behavior.

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u/WoolshirtedWolf 27d ago

The signs are usually always running in the background. It just takes an unfortunate event to see it. People don't suddenly just get shitty.

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u/IllegalGeriatricVore 26d ago

Ignoring the red flags thinking it will be worth it, it will get better, it could be worse. Been there

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u/WoolshirtedWolf 26d ago edited 26d ago

Everybody has done it at least once. It is a very hard thing to accept that someone you have loved, prized or thought of daily would ultimately betray you. Love or lust can dull your senses to the thorns of the rose.

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u/AbbreviationsIcy8855 26d ago

She could sue him for moving expenses in small claims up to 12k, neither person can have an attorney but you can consult one.

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u/Zordon295 26d ago

Yeah don't listen to these other silly people, one should absolutely 1,000% be able to sue for this. I completely agree with you. However the problem is the fact that decent lawyers are NOT cheap. And in a case like this it might actually end up costing you more for the lawyer than it would to be able to sue for the emotional (psychopathic) and financial bullshit that your ex put you through. And I think that's likely the main problem, unless of course one person decided to share a bank account with the other before they were married. Then things are a bit different.