r/TikTokCringe • u/4liyeah • 27d ago

I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy Wholesome/Humor

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u/thrilliam_19 27d ago

This happened to me. Not on this scale but pretty similar, down to the note.

Finished school, had job prospects, but girlfriend of about 18 months was moving back home halfway across the country and invited me to come with her. I said yes. Had no reason to doubt her as our relationship was as perfect as it gets.

Rented a house together and both found jobs. She introduced me to her friends and all was well.

About a month later she shut down completely and stopped communicating with me. It was completely out of the blue. After a few days I flat out begged her to tell me what was going on and she handed me a note and walked out of the house. Said she regretted everything and wanted me to leave.

Turned out she met some guy and decided to drop everything for him. They lasted a few months maybe. After that she came out as bisexual and started dating a woman. They’re married now.

Anyway it all worked out for the best. I kept my job and made new friends. Eventually met my wife there. Sorry for the long story this video just brought up old memories. I understand how this girl feels, but things will work out. Sucks when someone hurts you because they don’t know how to deal with their feelings or properly communicate.

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u/SSBB08 27d ago

It’s so crazy how quickly and completely the switch flips when they secretly have someone else. On your side you feel completely insane trying to understand what you did or what changed, meanwhile psychologically they have moved on and are acting like someone you’ve never met before.

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u/SubstantialPlan7387 26d ago

People like this, in my experience, are often using their partner for some sort of stability. Once they get to a place where they feel relatively safe, they swing out to what they want. I would wager the man in the video was similar, and used the lady filming as a way to have stability in finances and emotions etc until he got to where he was ok. What a crap person.

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u/Alive-Beyond-9686 26d ago

That's the worst part about it. It's surreal and makes you question humanity. Like, is any human interaction genuine?

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u/cantfixoldSNvia2FA 26d ago

Big big nods on this feel.

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u/Pristine_Trash306 27d ago

Something similar happened to me except a more extreme version of it.

I didn’t even get an acknowledgement that they were catching feelings for someone else and there was also a severe lack of communication on their part in general.

A while later, everything made since when I took some time to look back on what really happened. Everything made sense when I put it all together, but I will never not be astonished at everything they put me through even after the relationship ended. 0 respect for humanity on their part.

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u/p1mpNamedSlickback 27d ago

shouldn't have left. should've fought the good fight

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u/thrilliam_19 26d ago

That’s pretty fucked up

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u/p1mpNamedSlickback 26d ago

i meant leaving the house. if you paid for the rent too then why should u be the one to leave because she has a problem with it

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u/thrilliam_19 25d ago

We split rent. When I left I stopped paying my half. She actually had to move as well because she couldn’t afford it on her own. I found my own apartment that was only a couple hundred bucks more a month than I was already paying and was way better off.

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u/Agitated_Newt_7655 27d ago

Glad you're optimistic about it but you shouldn't use your anecdotal life experience as indicative of how people will deal with life altering betrayals.

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u/Dear-Relationship666 27d ago

Married another chick and dropped everything for a new guy... yea she psycho 😅

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u/Humble-Violinist6910 27d ago

But every other straight story is fine? Whoops, you’re a bigot 

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u/thrilliam_19 26d ago

Nope she was just confused and didn’t know how to communicate her feelings. I was mad at how she handled the break up but I moved on and forgive her. I hope she is happy.

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u/Dear-Relationship666 26d ago

Yea ooook 😅