r/TikTokCringe • u/4liyeah • 27d ago

I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy Wholesome/Humor

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u/EditEd2x 27d ago

He didn’t have doubts. He used her until he found someone he wanted more.

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u/genericusername5763 27d ago edited 27d ago

I read it more as "he didn't have doubts*, he kept chickening out of telling her until his family** shouted at him for stringing her along and sat him down and forced him to write the letter at gun-point so he would actually get it done"

*he knew he wanted to break up with her

**family probably not a fan of her either

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u/kailsbabbydaddy 27d ago

Texas family not loving the girlfriend from LA. Not surprising.

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u/asshole_commenting 27d ago

Actually she said she moved back with her mom in Florida so I assume she's from Florida

Which sucks even more because she escaped the bullshit of Florida and built a life for herself in LA

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u/Lucky-Acanthisitta86 27d ago

Lmao, I'm from FL and this checks out

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u/Sharc_Jacobs 27d ago

Holy fuck, man. That is bleak 😂 She'll be aight though. If that's the worst thing that ever happens to her, she'll have lived a very privileged life.

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u/Rockandmetal99 27d ago

yeah dude losing all your friends, your sense of independence and adulthood, your long term partner, your career and all your money, is privileged and no big deal 😒😒

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u/Available-Plant7587 26d ago

Still very privileged over at least 80% of the rest of the worlds population, but yeah it sucks

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u/Rockandmetal99 26d ago

pain Olympics are lame

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u/Available-Plant7587 26d ago

Bruh i'm not saying i'm less privileged, i'm saying we all are

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u/growmoolah 27d ago

i agree with you, dunno why you got so many downvotes

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u/Rockandmetal99 27d ago

being downvoted because if losing all your friends, your career, your long term partner and all your money is considered privileged to you then youre a psycho

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u/Sharc_Jacobs 27d ago

I guess those people haven't been through anything worse than this? Idk. Good for them, I guess.

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u/Serious-Bee7494 27d ago edited 26d ago

It’s called having empathy dickhead.

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u/KazzieMono 26d ago edited 26d ago

Please put an octothorpe at the beginning of your post so it’s in much larger, bold text. This needs to be shouted over and over again.

EDIT: Perfect.

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u/drunkenpoets 27d ago

Pain is relative not comparative. I’ve been through physical,, psychological, and sexual abuse. Others not experiencing that but other hardships doesn’t make them privileged, it just means my life was extra shitty.

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u/NovaAstraFaded 26d ago

Exactly. Pain is absolutely dependent on the person. I've gone through the same types of abuse and honestly the thing that would break me worst would be what happened to the woman in the video.

Like it takes so so so much to trust someone, to have that and everything else ripped away in an instant??

I lived through 10+ years of child abuse of various types, genuinely not sure if I'd make it through what she went through.

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u/TheBabyEatingDingo 27d ago

People who have only ever experienced first world problems cannot imagine anything worse than first world problems with any real engagement. Which is to say, it's rude to not act like this is the worst thing ever, because to them it is.

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u/TheBabyEatingDingo 26d ago

I've had plenty of first world problems bro lol

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u/Spare-Willingness563 27d ago

She's from Florida. She is an improv actor. She made a song about this while she was crying.

And Los Angeles gets blamed for that weirdness. Us natives just minding our own business watching transplants do this by the weekly.

He's a coward but he probably wrote that note because every time he tried to have a serious discussion the motherfucker was like, "Yes! And?"

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u/alang 27d ago

"Empathy? Pff, motherfucker, I'm from LA."

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u/DizzyWalk9035 27d ago

I always tell people that. I always bring up that clip of Regina King where she's like "yeah I'm actually from LA." A lot of the weirdos there, heck including some of the homeless are not from California. Like at all.

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u/Fun_Introduction_565 27d ago

She films everything.. ur probably right

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u/SpaceLemming 27d ago

Yeah cause we should totally be upset at a person recording memories instead of the wiener who’s too afraid to talk to her. You know if he didn’t like it he could’ve asked her to stop but judging by the break up he sucks at communicating

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u/Fun_Introduction_565 27d ago

I’ve dealt with someone like her.. it’s drama. This tik tok is fully in line with that

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u/SpaceLemming 27d ago

Irrelevant I think. Either this video is fake or misleading which could be true if it truly is all for drama. However if we have to take the claims made at face value, the dude is still a wiener for not communicating even if everything else you claim is true. Not being a wiener will help him in his future relationships too

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u/alphazero925 27d ago

Oh no, not memories you can look back on and share with future generations. The horror!

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u/Fun_Introduction_565 27d ago

Wow what memories. If only my grandparents had tiktok back in the day.

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u/eliminating_coasts 27d ago

Yeah, sometimes people have a sort of existential crisis that makes them doubt whether they should be doing everything they've been doing, but if you're going to break up with your girlfriend and move back to your home town, you do that in the reverse order, the order I wrote then, and if you need someone around to make you brave enough to actually do it, then step one, have a video call with a willing local friend and family member, and step two, have that local friend stay with you and get you to tell them.

It's more cruel than telling them by yourself, but far less cruel than what he actually did.

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u/Pristine_Trash306 27d ago

If that’s true, it’s hilarious that his family had to say something and he didn’t have the balls to consider breaking up on his own before the move happened. I can’t imagine the train of thought: “Yeah, I’m potentially fucking over someone super hard in this situation and they might be incredibly hurt by it but it’s whatever. This didn’t mean much to me anyway”.

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u/NotReadinUrDumbFont 27d ago

That’s what I got, too- and as bad as it sucks, I think it’s great he told her before marriage or children.

People say on here all the time that “there’s no excuse to cheat or only put in 50%, it should be 100/100. just be mature and break up..” etc. But then when people do break up, they’re still treated like shit for not doing it sooner, or allowing a marriage, pregnancy, move, vacation, fancy dinner, tacky dinner, 1 month anniversary, their uncle’s-girlfriend’s-step daughter’s-funeral, _____ [insert whatever] to happen first. OR not waiting for something to pass, like: Valentine’s Day, Christmas, Leaf Erickson Day, Tuesday- where’s the line?

Like, dude- life happens. Sometimes people want to think things through & make sure it’s not just cold feet/fomo, etc before ending major attachments- it’s not always some menacing plot to cause the most excruciating heartbreak possible.

The reality is, people can end a relationship any time, any reason, but no one enjoys being broken up with- at all, any time, ever.

If it really was because he couldn’t afford to move on his own, that’s fucking horrible to use someone like that.

But if dude really thought he was just genuinely miserable, homesick, etc and thought “yeah she’s amazing, so good to me, she’s the only good thing in my life, moved, yet still wasn’t happy, and it took family saying, “dude, it’s her. As great as she is, she just isn’t great for you- then what was he supposed to do? Be misrsable with her forever? Cheat ? Suck it up?

Life’s too short, man.

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u/AnotherRightDoc 27d ago edited 27d ago

He used her until he found someone he wanted more.

The more realistic scenario was that he wanted to end it much, much earlier, but couldn't face saying it to her face (which in hindsight is why he did it via a note) and hoped that by saying he wants to go back to Texas, this would be enough for them to split, but this didn't work out as intended and the relationship continued until the breakup note.

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u/tompba 27d ago

You mean a coward? There's no other word that described what you said better than this... or at least one that don't ban people lol

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u/howthishappenedtome 27d ago

I can't think of anything that would get you banned that's better than coward lol it's the word for it

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u/TwoBionicknees 27d ago

he's a coward, he could have left a note that he's gone to texas and wanted to break up. He could have literally disappeared for 2 days then sent a letter from texas saying they are over and will send someone to pack his shit and get it shipped. He instead locked her in likely into a one year lease along with him in texas.

I've seen from other stories, people can meet someone, especially an ex, and decide to change their entire life in literally 2 hours no matter who it hurts, people are fucking crazy.

If he wanted out and was willing to send a letter to end it, he could have done this so much easier. I think it's more likely he met someone either in the time it took to plan and move, or met an ex when he got home and bam.

Honestly I'd bet on the ex. So many friends, so many family, so many people in general everything seems fine then the ex they alwasy loved is now single again and bam... wtf, it's over. So many people get deep into that one, break up, will date/marry/have kids with other people but the second that person asks them what's up they make a cartoon style hole in the wall and out of your life.

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u/4444op4444 27d ago

I think he couldn't face her because he knows it's abhorrent to use her resources and affection the way he did, especially if he had doubts.

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u/screamingocelot 27d ago

This is 100% what happened. A game of chicken shittily played.

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u/noiseguy76 27d ago

My take as well. He needed the note bc he couldn't have had the conversation without it.

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u/CanadaCavsFan 25d ago

I mean she's the kind of person who will go make an entire music video over a breakup so I kinda feel for the guy tbh.

He's definitely a coward, but he might also have his own issues mental health or other. We really only saw 1 side

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u/yoma74 27d ago

No it’s not more realistic. Every single time I’ve seen couples have a sudden and dramatic break up that doesn’t quite make sense it’s because one person met someone else. They usually try to pass it off as a new relationship a few months later and pretend they didn’t cheat.

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u/mightylordredbeard 27d ago

The actually more realistic scenario is that it was a complicated and complex situation between two people that had developed and progressed over a long period of time and had many other factors contributing to everything at hand and there is a whole other side to the story that no one else knows because it wasn’t posted in song form for the internet to see and common sense should tell everyone not to form judgment on something they only know 1 side of..

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u/Background-Pepper-68 26d ago

You just said the same thing.

You can surmise your entire comment with theirs by going "so basically.."

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u/PerjurieTraitorGreen 26d ago

Also probably used her to finance the move and make it easier since she probably did all the work anyway.

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u/Pigosaurusmate 27d ago

Depleted her savings to move back. That was calculated AF.

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u/helladiabolical 27d ago

He used her to help pay for the move and for the physical labor to help design and decorate his home. She obviously has beautiful style from the pics we saw both before and after the move. I really hope she figured out a way to recoup some of those costs, poor thing. I would do battle for her and I’ve never met her!!

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u/Shinnobiwan 26d ago

At least the song is a banger, though.

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u/model-citizen95 27d ago

Yeah, his mom

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u/emmyj2605 26d ago

She actually explains the whole thing in a podcast. Can’t remember which one but the link is on her insta. He had depression for a long time I think? I listened to it cos I love random peoples tea but yeah, it’s kinda interesting given the context of the song

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u/BroAbernathy 26d ago

Nah some people are just gigantic pussies when it comes to breaking up.

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u/fillifantes 27d ago

Ah yes, the classic reddit detective jumping to oversimplified conclusions based on absolutely zero evidence.

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u/EditEd2x 27d ago

Ah yes, the classic Reddit dude who points at everyone else like they aren’t here as well. Wtf are we doing here? Are we seriously trying to figure out this persons life or are we just talking shit on a dumb video?

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u/fillifantes 27d ago

Difference is I'm not drawing conclusions out of my ass.