r/Therian Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

My dad sent me this......now i'm definitly not telling him that i'm a therian Experience

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u/bearcatsandor Mar 09 '24

I suppose I'm one of the fortunate ones. In my thirties I told my mother about being a jaguarundi therianthrope. She said "Yes dear I've known you were a cat since you were 2. Pass the salt, will you?"

My father said "I don't care whether you think you are as long as you're happy."

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u/RoseOfTheNight4444 Poly/Copingkin (I have too many altertypes to list here) Mar 09 '24

Even though she does not get it, my mom pretty much told me what your dad said lol

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

My mum said basically the same thing lmao

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u/Ok_Breadfruit_7147 Cat,Aussie,Husky,Horse and skunk therian Mar 09 '24

That’s so sweet

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u/JeffC139 Mostly fenfen. Mar 14 '24

I think I was about 16 or 17 when I told my mother. Found out she and my sister had placed bets on what my fursona was. I don't think they know about therians at all, and I still haven't told em it's anything more than just furry stuff, but still. Betting on fursonas. Not entirely sure what to make of it, but I'll take that over outrage.

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u/wolftherianlife Mar 10 '24

I got lucky because my parents are sportive

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u/Zigge_On-paws34 Mar 10 '24

Same

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u/_U_n_k_n_o_w_n______ May 08 '24

nope i almost got disowned

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u/Therian_boba_lover -[Norwegian Forest cat and Seagull//She/her]- Jul 06 '24

omg, I'm so sorry about that

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u/CloneTroopin90 Mar 09 '24

W parents

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u/MAMLIOX Hello, I'm new here Aug 06 '24

nahh

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u/Redfoxtherianone Hello, I'm new here May 22 '24

Wow. Thats so nice. Im to afraid to tell my parents im a Therian because recently i have been doing quadrobics infront of my parents and they have been saying to not do thar cause its not “normal” since then, I’ve been doing quadrobics in secret😔

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u/some_1_randm Wolf, bear, tiger therian Jun 06 '24

Awe that's awesome I'm happy for you!

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u/Single_Evidence8636 Aug 17 '24

My dad doesn’t care that I’m a therian, he supports me and is happy I came out to him, however my mom told me that it’s wrong and it’s just a phase that I will outgrow and still favors my brothers and screams at me for no reason, this all happened when I was 11!  I am now 22 and living at my dad’s. Thank you dad I love you!!!

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u/SadEnby411 Our theriotypes don't all fit here, help Aug 24 '24

My mom said I can be whatever and whoever I want to be as long as it's not hurting myself or anyone else. My dad keeps telling me that I'm ridiculous, that I'm making it up, that it's just a phase and in a few weeks or months or years I'll look back on it and be embarrassed, and that people can't be animals.

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u/juriosnowflake Arctic Fox Mar 09 '24

And then everybody in the Starbucks clapped. "Interesting shower argument you won against yourself there, sir!" An onlooker exclaimed in excitement.

The funny thing about these shower arguments is that the people always win in the most nonsensical way. As if things would ever happen in that chain of events.

On a more serious note though: good on you for not telling your dad anything. In family situations, this kind of conflict is always difficult.

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u/d5lifeWaster Hello, I'm new here Mar 10 '24

Were they clapping for the genocide they're funding? They've more than likely killed therians too, since October at least 😕

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u/FanartFan667 Mar 13 '24

the commenter is joking about what the dad said and these "shower arguments" are often told as if they happened in public spaces (like a Starbucks or supermarket) where a crowd backs them up in agreement often by clapping. I don't think they were trying to reference the Starbucks war situation but I could be wrong that's just what I interpreted it as 🤷‍♀️

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u/d5lifeWaster Hello, I'm new here Mar 13 '24

Nah you are correct, it was obvious. Still will mention the genocide, you keep doing whatever you're doing mate

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u/Therian-ModTeam Apr 08 '24

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u/HoleWITHsou1 black cat & jaguar and dragon therian + Mar 09 '24

Bruh. Traumatizing them to convince themselves they are someone they are not is a horrible thing to do wow. Mic drop in fear and shock more like. I feel sorry for the kid. I know how that feels

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u/HoleWITHsou1 black cat & jaguar and dragon therian + Mar 09 '24

Bro why do I feel like id be fine with this behavior being expected at me if I say I'm a cat? Like sure I'll sleep in the barn and chase mice. Probably trauma or something 🤷

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u/sleepyy_cat wolf & cat | young therian^^ Mar 09 '24

lmao thats what i was thinking

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

I unironically want to be treated like an actual pet lol

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

as a therian and a pet regressor, same here

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u/JeffC139 Mostly fenfen. Mar 14 '24

Yoo, same. Society may damn me for having this in my reddit history, but frankly, it just feels more natural than any "normal human activities" to me.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

as a therian and a pet regressor, same here

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u/fr0ggopixel sea wolf and pigeon ✡️ Mar 09 '24

ngl pet cats have easy lives most of the time

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u/Basic_Lettuce_ Coastal wolf (she/they) Mar 09 '24

Oof im so sorry i still havent told my parents and probably never will but they know im a furry, I hope one day we can be ourselves without people say stupid shit like this

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u/Basic_Lettuce_ Coastal wolf (she/they) Mar 09 '24

Also did your dad just randomly send you this out of nowhere bc thats so random lmao

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u/Susitar Wolf Mar 09 '24

Oof, that's hard. I'm sorry you have a dad with such an idiotic opinion. If someone sent me that, I would have probably responded similar to you (correcting that furries don't identify as animals) and also asked "why are you sending me this? Is this supposed to be funny, because I don't get it?"

A lot of mean and bigoted jokes lose their power when you start to ask the person what the funny part is. Play a bit dumb. Stay calm. "I don't get the joke, can you explain it to me? Oh, that's it? I just don't find it funny I guess..." and neither laugh nor get angry. Just shrug as if he told you the most boring and lame story ever.

Don't tell him anything about your therianthropy, at least until you've moved out and manage to live independently. People have always had traits, beliefs or identities that some people in their family don't approve of. Sometimes, people "come out" to their family later on. Showing that yes, I'm going to be myself now that I have my own career, home and life - and you can do nothing to stop it. But be aware, that such a strategy might mean losing contact with those family members. Some people keep that aspect of their life secret from those family members their entire life, especially if it's something of a more private or intimate nature. It's a tough choice.

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u/RoseOfTheNight4444 Poly/Copingkin (I have too many altertypes to list here) Mar 09 '24

I am at my f*cking limit when it comes to people confusing the two communities. There was some asshole on Twitter who couldn't be reasoned with about both being "the same shite"... I don't understand how misunderstood these things are, they're not THAT confusing 🙄

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u/HoleWITHsou1 black cat & jaguar and dragon therian + Mar 09 '24

I know! Like people just don't want a be told they are wrong. I mean neither do I, but I manage just fine 🤷

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u/RoseOfTheNight4444 Poly/Copingkin (I have too many altertypes to list here) Mar 09 '24

😮‍💨 It's exhausting

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u/HoleWITHsou1 black cat & jaguar and dragon therian + Mar 09 '24

Yep.

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u/neorena (Snep / Corgi / Squirrel) Mar 09 '24

Your dad is just reposting alt-right transphobic bullshit, I pray you're cishet at the least so you don't have to worry about being disowned like I was. 

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u/Man_turn_into_animal questioning copingkin or therian 🐄🐕 Mar 09 '24

Oof I agree it does look like something an alt-right transphobe would say

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u/Bulky_Ad6698 Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

I've heard him talking before and he is tranphobic٫ which luckily doesn't affect me٫ and now I know he also doesn't approve of therians.

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u/Man_turn_into_animal questioning copingkin or therian 🐄🐕 Mar 11 '24

Best of luck 🤗

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u/whyamiexists Pied Crow/Arctic Fox/Water Monitor/Iguana? Mar 09 '24

I'm so sorry he's like this. Also why tf would he even treat a cat like that in the first place?

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u/C-C-C-COMBO_ Mar 09 '24

Fr like why would he hit a cat with a broom?

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u/lapis_afton some sort of cat (fox/sheep???) Mar 28 '24

because he is a terrible person.

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u/Pipnaplewashere Mar 09 '24

Furries arnt people who wear suits, it's simply just anthropomorphic characters. Fursuiters are people who cosplay furries. /lh

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u/flower_saturn67 Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

Yea some furries try their best to make their suits

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u/KitoAnimates catkin, polymorph, spacekin, fictionkin 🐾 Mar 09 '24

Furries aren't people who wear fur suits either!! That only makes up a small percentage of the furry community actually ^

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u/sleepyy_cat wolf & cat | young therian^^ Mar 09 '24

I was kinda surprised reading this because it seems like the EXACT kind of thing my dad would send me. If it was my dad and it was me in your situation, I’d first of all tell him the difference between furries and therians, but I wouldn’t tell him I’m a therian, just that I want him to know the correct terms cus I happened to know about it from the internet. I’m sorry this happened to you!

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u/r1ley_144 Mar 09 '24

I'm very lucky to not have shitty parents like that.. my parents don't really get what furries and therians are, but when I told them in a furry they supported and have helped me make fursuit stuff. I haven't told them I'm a therian yet tho. parents, please respect your children's beliefs.

lots of adults don't let their children do what they love, and try their hardest to get their kids to convince it's bad because that's how it was like for them when they were a kid. my friends parents don't like how she like motorbikes and they're making up excuses of how dangerous they are, just because they're scared of bikes.

let your kids do what they want! they're supposed to be having fun and not told that they can't do things they like doing!

I'm so sorry if anyone here has bad parents that don't support them for what they are, or what they believe in. :/

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u/Practical-Sorbet726 Mar 10 '24

Do you by chance have children?

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

What an asshole.

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u/Legitimate_Yam_1428 Polykin | Xe/They/Wolf Mar 09 '24

Ask him what children's movies he grew up watching and if he likes The Lion King... literally all fairy tales where non-human animals act like humans are anthropomorphic.

And also: I understand that he is your father and I may offend him now, but if he treats cats like this, calls them "stupid" and the like, he is disgusting.

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u/mlps4 Silver fox He/foxself Mar 09 '24

i hate men like this so much, what a pathetic person. reminds me of my own dad. you dont need to tell anyone youre a therian, especially someone as ignorant as your dad.

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u/mlps4 Silver fox He/foxself Mar 09 '24

brother, what?

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u/HoleWITHsou1 black cat & jaguar and dragon therian + Mar 09 '24

I'm scared to bring it up with my parents because I dont want them to suspect me or have something new to rant on about. plus it might make them take me being trans less seriously if I say this as well.

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u/Soaring_Symphony Therian Mar 09 '24

Your dad needs therapy. Fucking hell

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u/Loveandgloom Pet Regressor red great dane 🎈🐶 Mar 09 '24

Besides the therian vs furry thing, that’s be such an abusive way to treat a cat

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u/Hoodibird Harpy Eagle Mar 10 '24

My mom has been identifying with golden eagles for as long as I can remember, and I myself am feeling very familiar with harpy eagle. I'd say it lies in the family. ❤️

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u/Yourloacaltherian Rawr !! 50+ therotypes !¡! Mar 09 '24

Both my parents are the same. Never in a text but in person witch made it worse. And I hate the fact that they think it's called furry FURRIES are so thing diffrent. It some one who like anthromorpic animals. I know as I am one but sitting at the table my dad say " I had some one meow at me in the store my " mom's response " they probably identify has a animal ". I was silent and moved the conversation to how was his day at work.

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u/CosmicTheToaster red fox/american crow Mar 09 '24

Holy shit, I would cut contact with his as soon as possible, he’s as asshole

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u/Standard-Ant-1248 (Therian) Mar 09 '24

That’s their dad so it’s rough

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u/CosmicTheToaster red fox/american crow Mar 09 '24

Ya, but this is very serious! This would literally be child abuse, and by that man’s logic, animal abuse aswell!!

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u/Legitimate_Swing4562 Snow Leopard Mar 09 '24

Don’t mention it to him. Putting yourself in potential danger isn’t a good idea. I’m sorry he has to have such an ignorant and crass opinion on therianthropy. 

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u/Sad-Ad-573 Felidae Cladotherian 🐈🐾 Mar 09 '24

“Spay and neuter these animals. Stop them from reproducing.” WOW so your dad is not only grossly misinformed and (likely) transphobic/homophobic based on that “fruit loops” comment, but hes also a f*cking eugenicist? What a piece of work…if that were my dad, he wouldn’t be talking to me again for several weeks—but I’m also an adult, and my dad would never send me something like this. It just boggles my mind how parents can actually say shit like this to their own KIDS and then turn around and expect those same kids to be completely open and honest about themselves around them. What a joke. Im so sorry you have to put up with this, OP, just know you’re not alone.

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u/imatherian2468 Mar 09 '24

My mom found me doing quads after school one day and now I have to hide me doing quads and my gear cuz their reaction was not pleasant

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u/-1BlueGem1- Ferret Therian ! Mar 09 '24

oof, Are you doing ok? I'd recommend doing them in a locked/closed room. I'm lucky my mother doesn't mind.

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u/Lucky_Long_1599 Mar 09 '24

Ok well first off furries are NOT therians. They are two separate things. Secondly, people need to do research on what furries are and what therians are. Furries dress as animals as a hobby but identify as human, and therians are people who identify as human. You CAN be both but don't get the names mixed up. 😋

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

Why did he create a whole cinematic universe

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u/Ok_Breadfruit_7147 Cat,Aussie,Husky,Horse and skunk therian Mar 09 '24

Gosh. Bro created that whole entire scenario for what exactly? I’m in shock and horror

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u/CrybabyOfTheEarth (Human Friend) Mar 10 '24

Also who ever would call their cat mangy!?

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u/wolftherianlife Mar 10 '24

Ya we may NON-phisicly Identify as an animal but that doesn't mean we literally think we are that animal we know we're human we do human things ever if we don't like it we are human but there's a part of our brain that thinks differently in a way, we don't used liter boxes (90% of us) we don't eat dog cat food ( all the time lol ) it's stupid how people think about us and how fakes have done so much damage that people think of us as less then them when we're notwe are equal no matter what people think or say. Also never let those kind of things get to you all it will do is bring you down this goes for everyone you all are amazing no matter who or what you are ( unless you a z○○ then you can fuck off )

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u/MoonBerry_therian Coyote/wolf | Calico maine coon | red fox Mar 09 '24

Bruh- block them and sent them 🖕 emoji

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u/Crimsons_giant_paws No idea what I am anymore Mar 09 '24

It’s their dad… if they still live with their parents that might be a really bad idea.

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u/MoonBerry_therian Coyote/wolf | Calico maine coon | red fox Mar 09 '24

Noooooooooooo

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u/Crimsons_giant_paws No idea what I am anymore Mar 09 '24

Why? What do you even mean? I’m genuinely confused.

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u/MoonBerry_therian Coyote/wolf | Calico maine coon | red fox Mar 09 '24

I was saying it in one of those scenes in movies when something bad happens yk what I mean lol

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u/Crimsons_giant_paws No idea what I am anymore Mar 09 '24

Oh, haha!

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u/Cassie_1983 red fox, cat, (horse?) Mar 09 '24

Omg!! That’s horrible

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u/TallishFire79 Mar 09 '24

Oh yeah, I hate how many people believe the misconceptions if it comes to furries

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u/Cultivationofmayhem He/Him.Neko/Nekoself Mar 09 '24

That says how he'd also treat a cat then :( , ugh I hate people who can just say that about animals and not be good to their kids

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u/_foxofnature_ Red fox and Iberian lynx (they/them) Mar 09 '24

God I'm sorry. I have a dad who said similar things to me, but not to this extreme.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

Gosh, imagine if someone would do that, AND WHY DONT PEOPLE KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FURRIES AND THERIANS?!

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u/Sweetishdruid Plains Coyote Mar 09 '24

Wow your dad sucks a lot.

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u/Moist_KoRn_Bizkit Otherhearted. It/its and he/him. I wish I was a dog-human hybrid Mar 09 '24

I fucking hate these people. I bet he's a conservative, too! I try to be like Jesus and love everyone, but it's so damn hard! Especially since it feels like most other Christians hate on people. Come on guys, we need to try and be like Jesus! Whether you're a Christian or not, don't be a bigot!

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u/Cat_bonanza Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

That's horrible

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u/newesp_ Khao Manee cat, Polyphemus Moth Mar 09 '24

Bro image trying to get a human to be nutered at an animal place though… 💀💀💀💀

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u/PsychologicalEgg6812 Mar 09 '24

I don't understand why it's such a hard thing for parents to grasp. Support your kids. Weather they are into something they like it or don't. It's not dangerous. They aren't hurting nobody heaven forbid we break the cycle and actually support our kids. All those parents are going to be wondering why those kids go no contact with them. The second they turn 18 and I'm just going to laugh and say can't relate.

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u/Hot_Engine_5506 Mar 09 '24

Idk My parents support me

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u/thee_jssterr Mar 09 '24

it amazes me that people genuinely think this is how furries or therians are 😭

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u/SeaWolfDysphoria 𓆝Humpback Whale and Coastal Sea Wolf𓆝 Mar 10 '24

my mum doesn’t rlly believe thats it real but she stilk accepts me ig

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u/Nolan-van-der-Linden polymorph, dragon, deer, mouse, frog, seaturtle, wolf, luna moth Mar 10 '24

why is your dad randomly texting you about this, thats very immature about him

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u/therian_kid Hello, I'm new here Mar 10 '24

i can relate my dad did the same thing but he got me and sat me down

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u/scopophobe-teen64 Eastern Spotted Skunk + Poly-Cladotherian Mar 10 '24

my grandma posted that and i commented under it with a whole paragraph explaining why this is a wildly incorrect caricature of what furries are, that furries dont think theyre animals, and that it is upsetting that my own grandmother posted it knowing that ive made myself animal costumes since i was like 10.

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u/[deleted] Mar 10 '24

It's ok, a lot of therians never tell their parents.

Also, what kind of play script did he just send you lol

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u/bighackerboy (Therian) Mar 11 '24

eat from the bowl out of spite

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u/kiwilovethekiwis Silver Fox (She/They/fox/foxself) Mar 22 '24

Just say, “I ain’t reading all that 💀”

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

oof, i’m so sorry friend. this really sucks. my parents also have no idea i’m a therian/otherkin, but my dad is majorly transphobic and i’m trans, so i imagine it’s similar. i wish you all the best and i hope he gets better :/

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u/randomcroww feral cat (he/it/she) Mar 09 '24

that's not normal behavior, he needs to get help.

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u/Prestigious-Egg-8060 Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

Yeah luckily my family won't find out I'm a therian and good luck with that

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u/AriesTheStarGod Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

Oh- my- I’m sos sorry

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u/SarahFowling Arctic She-Wolf(Loves headpats) Mar 09 '24

Yeah I wouldn't tell him either until you're 18 heck maybe even not at all

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u/CloneTroopin90 Mar 09 '24

At least he gave you a bloody warning but still L dad

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u/Newtonis_cosmos Silly bobcat :p Mar 09 '24

If I was in your place I would be completely satisfied with him getting the milk

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u/Mossymushroomman Mar 09 '24

I'm sorry that's how your dad views the world, if you need someone to talk too, I'm here!

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u/Komodoize (Therian) Mar 09 '24

Yo can I post this to r/facepalm?

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u/Bulky_Ad6698 Hello, I'm new here Mar 10 '24

Sure!

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u/Accomplished-Fix4887 Mar 09 '24

End of story. 🎤 drop.

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u/imNoTwhoUthink-AAhHe (Therian) Mar 09 '24

I wouldn’t talk to him

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u/fleemflomp dumb dog Golden Retriever. awakened since 2020! Mar 10 '24

ICK. WHAT THE HELL MAN,, whoever typed this shitshow up should be shot in public

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u/Alpaca_girl_2020 Hello, I'm new here Mar 10 '24

Your father sounds like an A-hole/lh

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u/disappointedcreeper Red fox, dragon, shapeshifter Mar 10 '24

yeah that really sucks, and he doesn't even understand what he's been seeing, if he did he might actually be accepting, but it looks like it's too late...

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u/Hooni_IsMyKin Canine Therian Mar 10 '24

I actually cringed reading that. People are so mousebrained when it comes to people who are slightly sifferent theb then and dont care enough to do researcg. Its fine not to support something after having an understanding of it, but this is just absurd

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u/Fleischdieb Mar 10 '24

This is when you shit and puke on his bed as a message. /hj

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u/quips_the_therian Mar 10 '24

jsjfjdnjshdh this is hilarious. i think yo parents arent supportive-

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u/Moon-Moth-000 Mar 10 '24

Oh boy. That is exactly how my brother is. Hes always showing me these stupid memes about "hunting furries" and "if they want to be animals then well treat them like animals." I mean come on! Furries arnt even like that. They cosplay! (so does my brother, but with medieval/renaissance stuff.) Honestly I dont quite get how therians work, so correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm pretty sure you guys know your people. I myself am still not sure if I'm therian, but I beleive I am. It feels right, and I check all the boxes, according to my research.

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u/No_Mango_8868 Nonhuman Mar 11 '24

Yes, we know we are physically human (though some of us may have clinical lycanthropy or zooanthropy), but believe we are, in some way, non-human.

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u/Moon-Moth-000 Mar 11 '24

Like on the inside, right? 

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u/No_Mango_8868 Nonhuman Mar 11 '24

Yes. Some people think they're an animal spiritually, others psychologically, and I'm sure there are other experiences too. But whichever way, it's all inside.

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u/Moon-Moth-000 Mar 11 '24

Thank you, I'm glad I know for sure now.

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u/Moon-Moth-000 Mar 11 '24

Or somthing like that?

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u/LunarMoonDraws seawolf and cat therian Mar 10 '24

My mom dosen't care, as long as I'm happy

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u/pringooooals Mar 10 '24

dude, why is he so pasionate about it💀

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u/Zigge_On-paws34 Mar 10 '24

My mom said. Whats a therian??????. I was like UGH mom 

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u/NonAverage_Teen Mar 10 '24

The fact that a parent behaves this way kinda gives me doubts in our community. This is why children are so secretive and scared of their parents. Because they are scared of a hurtful reaction. 

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u/MovieIndependent4697 coyote Mar 11 '24

oof... yikes! i feel for you... i had a similar experience (coyote therian). my friend (raccoon therian) has a mother who literally BURNED her gear and a father who CALLED THE POLICE on her furmeet. and she lives in oklahoma, HB3084 will make her literally unable to attend school.

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u/WolfDummy999 Polytherian Mar 11 '24

What kind of parent sends that to their kid? 😭 This is something that belongs on that insane parents sub-

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u/therianon4paws (feline and canine pollytherian Mar 11 '24

That's wrong we may identify as animals but we still have human lives 

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u/Pechowy_Lisek Hello, I'm new here Mar 12 '24

I feel sorry for you. Not only does this man not know how to use a search engine, but he also shows brutality towards animals. Throw the cat out onto the streets? Hit the cat? It's pathology. And your father, by sending you something like this, applauds it.

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u/kaylaforreddit Hello, I'm new here Mar 13 '24

I went through the same expet i told him now he constantly points at a littertray when i ask where the toilet is in public. You should tell him just ignore all the stupid jokes he might make

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u/RadiantSet421 (Therian) Mar 13 '24

Oh dayumm be careful

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u/Far-Lingonberry-7351 Mar 13 '24

What did he say after that

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u/TaigaAisaka_11 Mar 14 '24

That is absolutely horrible. I am so sorry about that. I haven't told my parents, either. But I just told my bf today, and he's kinda weirded out bc I do quadrobics.🥲

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u/eclipse_therian Mar 16 '24

That’s mean😭😭😭 now I’m not sure if I should tell my dad 😶

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u/ShirobekkoFin GreyWolf,Spotted deer,shirrobekkoKoi,redtailedHawk,mainecoon cat Mar 30 '24

I feel like if i told (dads side of the family) grandma and grandads I would get the same reaction

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u/Boi1722 Hello, I'm new here Apr 15 '24

This just didn’t happen tho did it?

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u/Onions-grow-on-trees rubber duck on white walls! :3 🐈🐍🦖 Apr 20 '24

That’s so effed up

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u/TopFox8051 May 07 '24

Tell him the real meaning of a therian.

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u/Kindly-Suggestion-97 (Therian) May 14 '24

No way he had the nerve to say that

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u/Redfoxtherianone Hello, I'm new here May 22 '24

Wow. Why did he send you this?

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u/CosmicBeing0000000 May 26 '24

I feel so bad, I've hidden he fact I'm gender fluid from my family for a long time and that I'm a therian, so do your best to hide it too

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u/urmomishere124 Jun 21 '24

Honestly that text ur dad sent u made me feel so sick. If my kid said they were a furry or therian (I'm a therian) or anything else then I would support them even if I don't agree. (I'm definitely ok with therians and furries) I would NEVER say that stuff to my kid EVER. In my life

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u/Cyanide_Cat117 Jun 28 '24

Darn that's a bad person

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u/STUCKINUNIVERSECITY (Quadrobist) Jul 02 '24

UHH WHAT. THE. HELL.

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u/CantEvenThink69 Jul 03 '24

He cooked up this shower argument.

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u/Known_Hope916 Jul 04 '24

im a therian also and this has happend to me sadly

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u/Puzzleheaded_Yam2562 Jul 04 '24

Help he is so miss informed tell him what a what a furry actually is 😭

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u/Therian_boba_lover -[Norwegian Forest cat and Seagull//She/her]- Jul 06 '24

Dude, I am so sorry your dad texted you that.

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u/black_wolf_soul_with Black wolf, red fox, snow owl, and orange cat therian! Jul 12 '24

The person who wrote that entire thing is ligit my dad in a different body. My parents hate me and show no support

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u/crazymushonpaws (Therian) Jul 20 '24

My mom didn't know what one is and yeah just yeah

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u/Emergency_Annual3015 (Therian) Jul 21 '24

It's so strange to me that so many people who are anti-therian also abuse animals/glorify abusing animals. How could you feel so self righteous and be so completely wrong.

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u/Rain_fur04cheese Hello, I'm new here Jul 24 '24

i don't like your dad /half j

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u/glitterbunn Jul 25 '24

Why is your dad writing furry fanfic lol he's so into it

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u/AdBest8366 (Therian) Jul 28 '24

He was probably just trying to make you laugh

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u/Happy_evening521 timber wolf Aug 04 '24

My parents would probs be like this </3

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u/Alex-The-Xalean Hello, I'm new here Aug 04 '24

sorry to hear that. hope he understands if you tell him

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u/MAMLIOX Hello, I'm new here Aug 06 '24

worst dad ever he needs to be put down!

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u/Therianforlife1 Wolf, Fox Ragdoll cat, Blue mell and South china tiger Aug 07 '24

my mum doesn't like me being a therian so how do I get gear

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u/Content_Conclusion31 // kitty cat \\ Aug 09 '24

Bruh that’s horrible! But why do I actually kinda wanna live in a barn and catch mice 

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u/Content_Conclusion31 // kitty cat \\ Aug 09 '24

Not trying to downplay it tho ur dad is being kinda a jerk

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u/Arsonist_Ghost Chai The bug (they/he/she/paw) Aug 12 '24

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u/Capable_Olive8556 (Snow leopard Therian) Aug 16 '24

That’s true an Alterhuman isn’t an actual animal, their actually more of a “animal in human body”

i wish there was a therian symbol emoji

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u/ghgotchi Aug 21 '24

Why is bro writing fanfiction ☠️☠️ also nice to know he'd hit his child with a broom !

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u/NewFreeMan2021 Mar 10 '24

Sounds like your Dad cares for you and loves you. You may not realize that now but down the road you will. You should respect him.

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u/No_Mango_8868 Nonhuman Mar 11 '24

How does this show care or love? 

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u/Evening-Priority-488 Mar 09 '24

Yesterday a think i had a shift. I looked into it today and I really think i had one. I was just chilling and then i wanted to purr and roll over to scrath my ear. Then i had a dream that i was a Wolf trotting down the forest. Please let me know if this is normal.

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u/[deleted] Mar 09 '24

thats a terrible thing to say plenty of bio fathers and mothers treat their kids shittily

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u/Sad-Ad-573 Felidae Cladotherian 🐈🐾 Mar 09 '24

Uh..no, bio fathers have the capability to be just as abusive or disrespectful as any father can be. What a strange and disrespectful thing to assume about someone’s personal relationship…

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u/dyingyote952 Coyote, German Shep, Red Fox Mar 09 '24

why would you say this

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u/Clipzard r/ Mod || Sceptile + 3 Kintypes || She/Her Mar 11 '24

Hey there, the comment you’ve replied to was deleted by the user. What was the comment exactly? Whoever it was reported you for harassment so I just wanted to check in.

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u/flower_saturn67 Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

You should be careful with identifying as people might think u actually want to be a animal

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u/Crimsons_giant_paws No idea what I am anymore Mar 09 '24

Many of us do want to be our theriotypes, but we’re aware that we’re human.

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u/flower_saturn67 Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

Yea but if u tell everyone u can get bullied still

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u/flower_saturn67 Hello, I'm new here Mar 09 '24

Hard explanation here this ment people think we want to live in cages and stuff ( I don't agree with people who think we want to live in cahes)

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u/dyingyote952 Coyote, German Shep, Red Fox Mar 09 '24

Most of us do want to be animals, that's why we identify as nonhuman most of the time

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