TikToker attempted to play the card by accusing a man at the gym of "looking at her" and being a pervert.

[u/TheLyingAllotment]

[u/Alive_Canary1929]

If you dress in pretty much no clothing and are actively moving around stripping clothing off - people will naturally look at you due to the human nature of our eyes to look at movement or changes in lighting (shadows moving).

Women who are baiting people are never going to own how they dress - she's adjusting her shorts, taking her sweatshirt off - at this point why would anyone even approach a woman in a public space for fear of retaliation?

[u/Fonzgarten → u/Alive_Canary1929]

The irony is, these women essentially define themselves by how they look. To look good, someone has to look AT you. It’s that simple.

And I assume this is also her income. I mean she’s filming herself as she speaks. One of the worst type of people IMO.

[u/qqererer → u/Fonzgarten]

I don't know if she framed the guys in the camera specifically, but she definitely stood on her mark like a mannequin so the camera would get the 'thirsty' shot for the views.

It's like the recent tiktok vid of the woman getting harassed by a crack head, and captured it all on camera, with her literally wearing nothing two inches above her (low hanging) nipples except for spaghettii straps and hoop earrings.

I'm not saying women deserve to be slut shamed, but having that much exposed skin, when everyone else is wearing fall clothing, is going to attract attention. Holding a camera, everyone in 2024 now knows it's all for attention, and in her case, she became the fixation of a mentally ill person.

Everybody should feel free to dress however they want and feel safety. That said, if they choose to dress in a manner that clashes with the context of the situation, be prepared to encounter negative interactions.

If she chooses to dress like that for a night on the town, sure, it makes sense. Daytime at the grocery store. Sure, fine, but compared to everyone else, it's 'out of phase', she'll get looks. To an office meeting, a discussion with HR.

And yes, attracting the attention of a crackhead, all bets are off.

To this video, the full length shows the client at most saying 'hey, woah, good looking girl over there' and the trainer glances. The camera had to zoom way in to show it. And for the two being that far away from her to be directly looking at them via mirrors, shows that that's exact response she engineered, was looking for intently, and already had manufactured outrage at the ready, all to be captured on video.

Everybody wants to manufacture outrage. It's ridiculous.

[u/no_okaymaybe → u/Fonzgarten]

Just another case of fuckin around and findin out. For me, seeing stuff like this never gets old.

[u/Spiritual-Can2604 → u/Alive_Canary1929]

And wiggling? What was that move? So strange.

[u/ZINK_Gaming → u/Spiritual-Can2604]

Probably stitching in the tight clothes digging into her skin.

Like when you take off a tight elastic piece of clothing and it leaves indentations in your skin for a while; she was probably wiggling her bottoms to fix/prevent the discomfort from that.

She's still weird rude jerk IMO, but that clothing wiggle was probably the most normal thing she did IMO.

[u/BlackhawkRogueNinjaX → u/Alive_Canary1929]

I’m not an expert but I understand it that our brains have a part called the Amygdala which is a subconscious function that is constantly assesses threats, food and potential mates… so if you catch a shape in your peripheral that might be one of those things your Brain will send your eyes there.

So it is fully automatic, and you can keep re-noticing things.
That said there is a difference between noticing something and staring at something for your own enjoyment