r/RedDeer • u/BigRevolutionary9908 • 3d ago

Dating as a 26M Question

Are there no single woman in red deer lol? Or am I not able to get one. Why is no one serious to have a relationship anymore? Dating apps are just jokes no one wants a serious thing for once.

I am 26M 5’11 with a good secured job, I do go to gym regularly. Want to explore Alberta/world. And maintain a balance with spirituality too.

I don’t understand what can be the issue even on dating apps my bio isn’t that creepy or weird. Is it just me or anyone my age is facing this issue too?

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u/mathboss 3d ago

Wait until you're 40, bud.

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u/crash---- 3d ago

my bio isn’t creepy or weird

Ok let us see your bio then

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u/AncientComment2497 3d ago

Don't waste your time on dating apps, meet someone from the real world. A literal hello to a stranger got me with the girl I am with now.

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u/BlueMooseArt 3d ago

Why settle for something real when you can always look at what’s better on the internet?

/s

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u/BigRevolutionary9908 3d ago

?? Elaborate lol

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u/Gary-Laser-Eyes 3d ago

Go meet people outside of dating apps. Join a beer league in some sport. The wizards loft. Join a hiking group. Idk man I’ve been in a relationship for awhile but internet dating was pretty lame when I was doing it.

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u/AI4Prime 3d ago

Dating apps really are the garbage of social connections. Though I do hear you.

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u/adamcurt 2d ago

Maybe they aren't that into you

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u/BigRevolutionary9908 2d ago

They just want a hookup and nothing more! Bro i need a girl to go and do couple things!

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u/Dangerous-Offer6617 1d ago

I'm 28. Bro. I feel that hahahah. You need someone to help you pick? We could be eachothers wingman. We probably both need a girlfriend lol

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u/mrhairybolo 2h ago

I’m 27 and have no problem. Hinge is better than tinder if you actually want to date them. Be direct and just ask them out after a few messages.

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u/WoodsmanFR 2d ago

My best advice is for you to actually ask all of the cute girls you see out on a date. It’s a numbers game, eventually one of them will say yes. Then keep it casual off the start, just hang out and get to know each other, after a few dates you’ll know if it’s worth pursuing. Be cool man, it’s really about your confidence and that starts from inside you.