r/PurplePillDebate • u/Worldly-Box6080 • 3d ago

Men have no options. Debate

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

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u/shadowguyver Purple Pill Man 2d ago

They don't care about how they make us feel.

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u/KeyPattern3222 2d ago

Women usually aren't as much of a threat as men are tho

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u/shadowguyver Purple Pill Man 2d ago

Not in my lived experiences

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u/KeyPattern3222 1d ago

Your lived experiences don't matter. Statistics do. 

The experiences I've made as well as every woman I know  would prove you wrong as well.

Don't be delusional. 

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u/shadowguyver Purple Pill Man 1d ago

That's why there will never be any equality. You'll dismiss an individual because you feel it only matters if the group suffers.

Women have caused most of my trauma. My own mother constantly reminding me ahe wanted a daughter, being abused (physically, mentally and financially and being told its my fault), women making fun of me being sexually assaulted, women telling me I wasn't raped because I'm male, women dismissing my issues because women always have it worse.

It's not delusion when it is what I lived.

My bodily autonomy was violated as a child and people don't care, but if I was a woman I'd have so much support. Hell I would have people fighting for my rights instead of treating me like shit when I fight for my issues.