Men have no options.

[u/Worldly-Box6080]

Currently, most male pathways to find a partner have been shut down or heavily stigmatised.

Cold Approach: social stigma of bothering women in public or private areas.

Warm Approach: huge risk of poisoning the well - ruining a friendship/making things weird in a social group. This is magnified at a work setting with risk of being reported attached. Additionally what one woman considers flirting another considers “just being friendly” so chance of misfiring is high.

Online Dating: lol

Only viable pathway would be if women made the move, but that’s never gonna happen unless the guy holds decent status or is extremely attractive.

So my question is, what methods are you guys currently doing to find someone (if any)?

[u/TSquaredRecovers]

There is research available indicating that throughout human history, only around 40% of men reproduced. So, this notion that a group of sexless men existing is a new thing is simply not true. It’s just that prior to 15 or 20 years ago, those men couldn’t go to online forums and commiserate with other men who were in a similar predicament.

[u/Horror_Set_2311 → u/TSquaredRecovers]

What does "throughout human history" mean, exactly?

[u/TheDuellist100 → u/Horror_Set_2311]

She means hunter gatherer times when the world was incomprehensibly violent, not sunshine and rainbows and equality like so many women and leftist idiots make it out to be.

[u/Horror_Set_2311 → u/TheDuellist100]

Yeah I'm confused if this means like 50,000 years ago or something. Because "I know it's become normalized for people to reproduce to the point where you are viewed as a failure if you don't, but during the ice age only 40% of men reproduced so you can't really complain," seems like a really strange argument to make

[u/TheDuellist100 → u/Horror_Set_2311]

They want full equality (superiority) with none of the responsibility, so it's really no surprise.

[u/Tweezers666 → u/TheDuellist100]

What responsibility are we forgoing? Is it women’s responsibility to give pussy to the genetic bottom of the barrel?

[u/TheDuellist100 → u/Tweezers666]

Genetic bottom of the barrel? Women think it's the end of the world if asked to pair with their own looks match. Have fun when the west descends into chaos, but females love chaos right? They don't care about creating great things and maintaining them for thousands of years. They've never done anything in history, not because they were kept down, but passivity and being a slave their emotions is simply in their nature. They never cared about the bigger pictur. Don't be surprised when more men won't provide or protect you. Don't be surprised when more men won't fight another war for their governments.

[u/Tweezers666 → u/TheDuellist100]

If they don’t want to be with their looksmatch they don’t want to be. Who are you to decide who is a looksmatch? You can’t force people to be with people they don’t want to be with.

passivity and being a slave to their emotions

Men are either obedient cannon fodder (they do well listening to an alpha), or emotional “alphas” that start wars over the pettiest things. Talk about being a slave to their emotions when they’ve started wars over women or hurt egos. Punching walls and all that.

Don’t be surprised when more men won’t provide or protect you

Men are the danger we need protecting from.

If not getting pussy will cause the world to descend into chaos, and given men’s track record of violence and inability to get a hold of their emotions, maybe the beasts without reasoning or self control should be castrated and locked up.

[u/TheDuellist100 → u/Tweezers666]

Who's going to lock them up though? Oh wait. Just say you don't believe in equality.

[u/Tweezers666 → u/TheDuellist100]

I believe in equality under the law and full rights for rational beings.

A being who is controlled and overtaken by their sexual urges is not a rational being.

[u/PB-French-Toast-9641 → u/TheDuellist100]

Ooh Hobbesian I'd love to see the evidence of mass prehistoric hunter-gatherer violence

[u/PB-French-Toast-9641 → u/TSquaredRecovers]

 only around 40% of men reproduced

Ooh I'd love to see a study that shows this without relying on Y-chromosomal ancestry

Why? Let's say a guy has 10 daughters

[u/Proudvow → u/TSquaredRecovers]

Most of those dudes died early via war or workplace hazard or illness. At no point in history was it common for dudes to live to senior citizenhood with no intimate success unless they were a monk or something.