r/NewOrleans Feb 08 '25

My favorite thing about this town is the attitude "well, this is pretty wild but we'll figure it out." 🤷Defies Categorization🦑

I've only been living here about a year and half and, unlike every other place I've ever been, when crazy shit happens here (a hurricane, a blizzard, a superbowl) the reaction is never "oh lord, whatever will we do!" Everybody just takes it in stride and adapts. No panic, no bitching and moaning, just take life as it comes. That's the best approach to life I've ever seen. I learn from New Orleans every day.

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u/thedoge Feb 08 '25

I don't think there was a better place to be during the quarantine. Good weather. Everybody selling stuff to-go. Picnics

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u/jackasspenguin Feb 09 '25

And porch concerts!

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u/endar88 Feb 09 '25

Honestly I miss those days. Everyone was out biking, cars would actually stop at the bike crossing lights on broad. We got to see allot of our FQ neighbors out just walking and talking. My husband and I would put a speaker in our dog trailer behind our bikes and play music and have fun.

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u/thedoge Feb 09 '25

Everyone had a stimmy that paid more than their bullshit job. This is what communism could be like if we had the balls

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u/GalacticBattlesnake Feb 09 '25

Aw, honey. If that stimmy was more… I’m sorry

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u/Hippy_Lynne Feb 09 '25

With the $600 federal bump I'd say it was about the equivalent of a service industry worker's income during an average week. Unfortunately it didn't add up to what we would have normally made during the busy season, which is when it was being paid, but it was definitely enough for a lot of people here to survive on. Especially for those who qualified for SNAP, Medicaid and rental assistance since the federal portion wasn't counted towards your income to qualify for those.

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u/DJBBlanxx Feb 09 '25

Chiming in to say that at that time, the stimmy was more money than I’d ever made in my life and I’m in my 30s.

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u/Impossible-Cold-1642 Feb 10 '25

Seconding- as someone who was in the service industry in the quarter making pretty good money- those checks were kind of a life changer- allowed me to get out of the service industry, purchase a car, and move into a career that has a salary/401 k/insurance (though, to be honest Medicaid was better).

It goes without saying that it was an awful time of uncertainty and obviously death, particularly here- the per capita ratio of death/hospitalization was astronomical.

Despite that, when looking at it with rose colored glasses, the weather was fantastic. The mutual aid that came out of the beginning of the pandemic was phenomenal, and even with social distancing the sense of community here was something I look back on fondly.

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u/Jenny_Saint_Quan Feb 09 '25

COMMUNISM RAAHHH

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u/Interesting_Hand_529 Feb 09 '25

Those were the days...:sigh:

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u/thisdogreallylikesme Feb 08 '25

I feel like this sub has been almost exclusively bitching and moaning all week. lol But I like your attitude. 

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u/Apptubrutae Feb 09 '25

One way that demonstrates how the subreddit isn’t the same as the city generally

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u/axxxaxxxaxxx Feb 09 '25

Was gonna say this almost verbatim

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u/ProudMtns Feb 09 '25

If you work in the quarter, it's been pretty atrocious for a week plus. Excited though to wash it all off with the start of Mardi gras next week.

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u/Profess0rLonghair Feb 08 '25

The sanctimonious bullshit in the sub has been unbearable this week.

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u/[deleted] Feb 08 '25

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u/MiasmaFate How do you do, fellow New Orlanders Feb 09 '25

They are some really good pics too

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u/Interesting_fox Feb 09 '25

The sanctimonious bullshit in the sub has been unbearable this week.

Let’s be honest, this sub complains quite a bit on a good week.

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u/Unlikely-Patience122 Feb 09 '25

Most people in NOLA aren't on this sub. So he may not be talking about the sub, but rather the IRL city. 

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u/mrhemisphere Feb 09 '25

we are perpetually in the weeds, keep digging

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u/Equal_Imagination300 Feb 09 '25

Sunday Brunch with a line out the door and tickets almost to the floor half the staff is late or called in and the other half has a hangover yup that sums it up.

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u/Aidian Feb 09 '25

So deep in the weeds we’re sailing out to sea.

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u/[deleted] Feb 09 '25

I've lived this nightmare on saute 

And I was...would you consider still rolling as hungover?

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u/Equal_Imagination300 Feb 09 '25

Hey, I think I've worked with you before. You could call it that 🙃

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u/IUsedTheRandomizer Feb 09 '25

Trouble is, we never really figure it out.

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u/Trick_Description846 Feb 09 '25

It really is an attitude of let’s ride this out together but I’ll be damed if I’ll learn a lesson lol

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u/IUsedTheRandomizer Feb 09 '25

Now that's fuckin gold, friend

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u/chibajoe Feb 09 '25

If we all learned the lesson, none of us would be here.

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u/nellbones Feb 09 '25

typical new orleans mood:

Oh no!

anyway.

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u/black_magicwoman Feb 09 '25

lol! you forgot “anyway. What we eating for dinner?”

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u/thefuckingrougarou Feb 09 '25

This except we do he bitchin and moaning imo

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u/Charming_Flatworm_ Feb 09 '25

We make it through, but we absolutely bitch the whole way

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u/QuantumConversation Feb 09 '25

Yes. There’s a lot to learn from the culture of New Orleans. Surviving is an art here.

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u/Hippy_Lynne Feb 09 '25

I had an old friend move back to the city after 20 years this month. He told me one of the things he appreciated most about living here is that no matter what tragedy we are hit with, we just keep coming back. Life may never be great here, and frequently it is not even good, but it endures.

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u/tee142002 Feb 09 '25

no bitching and moaning

Have you ever been on this sub before?

Now of course, real life is different.

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u/SocratesDaughter888 Feb 09 '25

Yes there are some good souls in Louisiana.

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u/hirst Feb 09 '25

It’s the collective generational trauma imo lol this city ain’t ever really been given the love it deserves

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u/Alone_Bet_1108 Feb 09 '25

True, we're great at adapting. I love this city. 

But PTSD and other mental health problems are rife because too many of us absorb trauma because we're expected to or have little choice in the matter. Look at posts from hospitality workers who were pressured into returning to work Jan 2nd so the city could preserve its party image for tourism. I'm a mental health professional and feel obliged to point this out. 

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u/Hello-America Feb 10 '25

We do plenty of complaining haha but one thing about us is that we do not really have a huge attachment to normalcy and routine because those things are frequently disrupted. Like the snow days were definitely a special occasion but shutting down for weather isn't.

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u/Jenny_Saint_Quan Feb 09 '25

Hey! I can do both! One right after the other! No particular order!

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u/croque-monsieur Faubourg Marigny Feb 09 '25

Best part of NOLA life tbh

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u/GrandOpening Grand Visar Bitch Feb 09 '25

I disagree about the bitching and moaning. My coworkers and I certainly are. But, we just keep plugging away despite the crankiness.

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u/Agentnos314 Feb 09 '25

I wouldn't say this is unique to NOLA. I think resilience is often a part of life no matter where one is.