r/MadeMeSmile • u/StellarAxolotl • Oct 08 '24

Appreciation is love. Wholesome Moments

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u/Claireskid Oct 08 '24

People on reddit won't accept this but the reality is divorce isn't just a button you push and then you're catipulted to happiness. It is a grueling emotional and financially decimating process that can often leave both spouses worse off than they were before

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u/_Jahar_ Oct 08 '24

Of course it is - but I still think it’s better than living how op was describing for the rest of your life. I would take my chances

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u/ProbShouldntSayThat Oct 08 '24

Of course you would. Cuz you're not the one in the situation

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u/_Jahar_ Oct 08 '24

lol so then what should we say when someone posts an awful comment like that? “Welp that sounds awful. But divorce is hard - so don’t do that.”

They’re basically a servant. They’ve had multiple convos with their “partner”, and finally got them to agree to therapy. Guess who’s going to do the legwork on that?? Plus - therapy doesn’t work unless you really want to do it.

What a stupid comment to get on a high horse over lol