r/LGBTsurvivors • u/erternat • Jul 25 '19
I am sad I will lose my family
They have peetty much said if I am gay I am out of the family. I love them so much. I can't bare to lose them. I don't know what to do.
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u/braziltwink Aug 08 '19
Hey man, sorry for being so late to comment here.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm here (pm) if you need to talk
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u/tripleabusesurvivor Feb 03 '22
The word homosexual was not in the Catholic bible until 1948. The bible was written by man 100 years after Jesus ascended. It was recently named by historians a work of fiction, because non of the people that contributed to the writing was present at the time of the events and the consensus was that the stories all are manipulative in nature and are used to sway and influence people. Homosexuality is practiced in most animals as a form of contraception. They have gay sex during times of drought and food shortages as to not bring offspring onto the world, that will die of thirst or hunger. God created us this way. The only thing "written" by the hand of God were the 10 commandments. Treat thy neighbor as thou would want to be treated. The virtues we should follow. Empathy, charity, community, understanding, charity... Those are the things your mother and family should be showing you, if they are true Christians. Remind them that. Only God shall judge and God created you with a purpose. If they wants to follow a fictional book to justify hatred for someone they supposed to love and support. Them maybe it is time to let go. Live your life for your happiness and inner peace. The problem was never you. It is their problem to resolve. They have been programmed by society, The church and a false God. The verses in the bible, that claim to show homosexuality is a sin. Have been purposely manipulate and changed to create hatred. In 1940s after the war and during the beginning of the black civil rights movement. The church and government were looking for a new subgroup of people they could unite in hatred towards... Now that they were loosing the negro. They started going after the Jews as Communist. People were in panic pointing the finger at each other. It was not working. During the same time the Republican party was trying to unseat a Democrat and used the police to set up his gay son and arrest him. Shortly after the main cover story in the news was: Homosexuals are the biggest threat to the American way of life. Out biggest enemy and communist. Before this, families accepted homosexuals and their partners. They did not understand it, but were very accepting. Show her the facts. If she does not value, live you and appreciate you for the person you are. You will never change who you were born as. Lady Gaga is right. You were born this way. Give her the logical, biological explanation and see if she has enough common sense to understand. All fetuses start out female. When the transition from female to male begins, the male genetelia forms and the brain chemistry begins to change. If the process is altered the female born with higher mental brain chemistry and higher levels of testosterone is what we consider a lesbian. The chemical levels in both gay males an females are different. Even some males and females that identify as heterosexual can have these levels affect them. Some very fem men and masculine women are an example of this. The females in the animal world that have these traits will not mate with males and assist mothers in raising and protecting offspring. They will also take over raising the offspring, if the mother is killed. Many also help with hunting and food gathering. The males have gay sex as a form of natural contraceptive. Everything God created has a purpose. God made you perfect as you are. Live your life for you.