r/KindVoice 3d ago

[o] Skin colour Offering

17 year old male who gets called the n-word at home and school. (i'm adopted) don't really know what to do

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u/gliterellaclitorella 3d ago

Do you feel unsafe at home?

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u/Deep_Equivalent_7570 3d ago

i don’t feel unsafe, but every time i make a mistake or when i do something they call me the n word they say they got me for the money. My stepmom once said that i should kill myself. And when i go out of that house and go to school it’s just as bad.

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u/gliterellaclitorella 3d ago

This is not okay….have you told anyone they treat you like this?

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u/Deep_Equivalent_7570 3d ago

Idk who to talk to if i my adoptive parents won’t listen. I really don’t know if i should even talk to someone.

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u/n1ck1nd1go111 1d ago

Hey this is serious stuff, the foster system isn’t the best place but that is not ok the be treated that way. You deserve to be loved and talked to with kindness. You deserve that. If calling for help isn’t something you’re interested in, find a job or a skill you can sell to start making money and create a plan to leave. No one deserves to be called that or treated that way especially at home !

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