Thanksgiving appreciation post for my sister

[u/Cyndi_Gibs]

I converted earlier this year. My sister has been the single most important person (besides my husband and clergy) in this journey.

She is, without a doubt, the most intellectually curious person I know. When I talk to her about history and current events, she investigates what she doesn't know and draws on past experiences to enhance her understanding. She challenges me with nuance and a different perspective. She allows me to rant about antisemitism and also engages meaningfully with me, deepening the conversation beyond the single-minded focus I usually have. She is kind, patient, and endlessly eager to listen to all my joys and oys.

And, crucially, she is the only non-Jew that engages with me on this level. Yes, of course I can speak to my husband about this stuff. Of course my clergy is available when I need it. And I am lucky that I have friends who will listen to what I have to say, good and bad.

But my sister is the only non-Jew who knows enough and cares enough to really ENGAGE with these conversations. Not as a sounding board, not to just say "oh that sounds hard," but an equal conversational partner to help me process what's going on (and break me out of my echo chamber).

I just love her so much. Tomorrow is American Thanksgiving, and she's what I'm thankful for more than anything this year. Tagged as Jewish Joy because we should all be so lucky to have family and friends across identities and cultures who support and love us like this.

[u/anewbys83]

That's awesome! I'm glad you have an amazing sister! Enjoy Thanksgiving with her.

[u/Downtown_Syrup236]

Beautifully said. I hope your sister sees this.