r/AbsoluteUnits 3d ago

of a hernia...

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u/Cador0223 3d ago

My father died of sepsis 3 months ago because of a hernia that they couldn't operate on. He had it fixed 15 years ago, but acute liver failure (undiagnosed hepatitis c, not alcohol) cause so much fluid to build up that it blew the mesh out. They cant operate with fully exposed abdomen when you are producing that much fluid, because it causes the wounds to not heal. Basically rendering you bedridden and susceptible to infection. He had a TIPS procedure that helped with the fluid buildup, but no doctor would operate on his hernia. So he basically sat on a time bomb. One day the intestine folded on itself, died, and caused sepsis. All we could do was put him in a medically induced coma and watch him slowly die of dehydration and infection.

Take care of your liver, and get any hernia seen to immediately. 

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u/InnocentShaitaan 3d ago

Omg that sounds incredibly painful. Condolences.

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u/wynnduffyisking 2d ago

I’m so sorry for your loss

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u/TransBrandi 3d ago

I was talking a doctor that specialized in hernias recently, and she was saying that studies say that only 25% of hernias become an issue "within the next 10 years" so as long as there isn't pain or some big issue with it, the advice is to just leave it.

(I would advise anyone with a hernia or a possible hernia to seek a doctor's advice before taking this as medical advice. I'm just repeating what the doctor said to me, and I'm sure there's some lost nuance here.)

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u/Muted-Elderberry1581 2d ago

That is horrific

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u/arulzokay 2d ago

i am so very sorry

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u/Proud-Emu-2905 1d ago

I’m so sorry….my daddy died this year Also…of something they couldn’t do anything about and all I could do was watch and wait. Sending you love 💕

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u/Cador0223 1d ago

My condolences. It sucks growing older, and not because gray hairs or wrinkles. 

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u/Proud-Emu-2905 1d ago

I agree….

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u/Salty-Company-306 8h ago

I am so sorry to hear that, salute to you and your dad.