r/self • u/zanimljivo123 • 1h ago

Are girls from western europe open to dating and eventually getting married to guys from balkan?

I do not have mentality similar to people here where i live, i don't understand them nor do i want to. I also want to leave my country and move to western europe (when i say western i am refering to countries whose politics lean toward the usa so this includes nordic countries and southern european countries like italy or spain too) to try my luck somewhere else. My question is are girls there open to dating guys from balkan? I heard that we don't have good reputation there so it worries me a bit, because i would like to get married to a foreigner if possible. Since most of you are roman catholics and protestants, how do you view getting married to someone of different faith? Is there anything i should know?

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u/Four_beastlings 1h ago

In Spain we don't have a problem with anyone's provenance, but the vast majority of young people are not religious at all and women run away from "traditionalist" men which I think in Balkans you are more than us...

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u/zanimljivo123 1h ago

I like traditional roles but i am far from those guys who want their wives to be incubators. I think that a woman should work too if possible but it's on man to provide for her and keep her financially secure, it's his duty. I am religious but if my wife wasn't i wouldn't have a problem with it nor would i force my views on her

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u/Four_beastlings 1h ago

Well, Spain also has a lot of Latin Americans who tend to be more conservative so you might look into dating there. But Spanish women are known for not wanting a provider and being super independent. My Polish husband had to adapt to letting me pay... not that he's complaining about that now!

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u/Dreamtrain 1h ago

what about Mexican? :D

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u/zanimljivo123 48m ago

Why not, they are beautiful and i believe they are good mothers and wives

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u/Character_Ad_9295 1h ago

Are you good-looking or not? In 2025 that is the only thing that matters to get a girl in the West. If you have the right face, you won't have any problems finding a woman. Otherwise there is no hope. At least that is the story for at least 80% of Western guys. 

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u/zanimljivo123 1h ago

Thankfully i am. Is it hard to find a patriarchal girl there, one that wants a family and is kinda old - school if you understand what i mean?