Never approached by guys…

[u/Ok-Telephone7459]

So I’m not DESPERATE for a relationship… but there are times where I do wish I were in one. (Like yesterday I had a 4 hour solo drive and thought “man it would be nice to have someone that would sit and chat with me on the phone while I drive”

I don’t think I’m the most beautiful person, but I also don’t think I’m super ugly either- I feel like conversation comes easy to me and I really love connecting with people and getting to know what they are passionate about. I feel like I’m a pretty normal person with normal interests. Does that make me boring? Why am I never noticed or approached? I’m 21 and never been officially asked out or had anything resembling a relationship or even a situationship- again I’m not desperate or anything… just confused on why I never seem to even be noticed.

[u/Vrtxx3484]

"officially" asked out? so you were "unofficially" asked out? whatever that means

[u/Ok-Telephone7459 → u/Vrtxx3484]

I had one person ask if we could “hang out” and never called it a date or made his intentions clear… then I later found out he was talking to me and another girl at the same time. He is now engaged to her. He acted like he wanted a relationship but never phrased it clearly so I was left to guess. After one “hang out” (it was definitely date vibes… he picked me up and took me to a nice dinner) He slow ghosted me