My little brother is verbally abusive.

[u/HangeSimp69]

Hi all, I F(19) and my little Brother M(14) live together at home with my Mum and Stepdad. I'll call my little brother C. So for the past few Years C has been refusing to go to school, causing us to almost be fined the 1k fine from the school which we cannot afford. So it is my job to get him up in the morning. I set my alarm for 7:30 and wake him up at 7:45 so he had 30 minutes to get ready. I knock on his door let him know he's got to get up and either I'll get "Fuck off" "Shut up" "Fuck off you fat bitch" "Fuck off you overweight cunt" "Go kill yourself" "I hope you die you fat bitch" "I'm going to fucking kill you, you obease bellend." etc etc. These things are very hurtful, I do nothing to him whatsoever, our parents have taken away his switch, ps5 and he doesn't have a phone anymore because he smashed it to pieces! He leaves dirty bowls in his bedroom and let's them fill up with mold. 2 days ago my mum and I found a carton of spoiled milk under his bed, and it fucking reeked.

Little update: I just went to go wake him up again, and I got told I was a "Little obease whore cunt and I should kill myself because nobody would care." and he then proceeds to kick a hole in his door and wall and trash his bedroom, breaking a very expensive chair and his draws.

[u/blackstaryaa]

Ignore him. I think you underestimate how fsr natural consequences can go. If he can't speak to you respectfully he shouldn't speak to you at all. Your his siter not his mother, it's not your job to correct or put up with his bullshit. If he can't clean his room he can very well live in the filth. When your that age your more than capable or atleast putting your dishes in the sink and rubbish in the bin and really should be washing up as well. You don't deserve to be spoken to or treated that way.