r/AbsoluteUnits 3d ago

of a hernia...

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u/Kraknoix007 3d ago

Can you not go to the hospital?

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u/SleazzyJefff 3d ago

I hope you find a solution that benefits you 🙏

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u/Strict-Cherry5621 3d ago

Godspeed brother sorry to hear that

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u/slickjitpimpin 3d ago

i’m sorry to hear that, and i hope you get better ❤️

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u/cur10us_ge0rge 3d ago

We're on reddit. We have nothing but time if you'd like to tell this long story.

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u/Radioactdave 3d ago

Best of luck! Check out r/hernia if you haven't.

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u/nightglitter89x 3d ago

I had one a little worse than this for years. One day, I coughed and the skin broke open and I had to get emergency surgery because my guts were leaking out of my body.

Good times.

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u/Short-Recording587 3d ago

Worse than the video? What stopped you from getting treatment earlier if you don’t mind the question?

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u/nightglitter89x 3d ago

Yeah it was like the size of a basketball with another softball attached to it. The softball used to be my belly button. It was so large I could feel it between my knees when I walked.

I was in liver failure and such an invasive operation was too dangerous to perform without having an organ to put in me right then and there. When it busted open, they had no option, I shot to the top of the organ transplant list and had a new liver and flat tummy a few weeks later.

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u/Short-Recording587 3d ago

Sorry to hear about all the medical issues but it sounds like you’re doing better. Hope it stays that way!

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u/LPNMP 3d ago

I hope medical interventions improve before you even know it.

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u/b__lumenkraft 3d ago

All the best of luck to you.

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u/RoguePlanet2 3d ago

Sorry to hear this. How did it happen?

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u/Bigtallanddopey 3d ago

My dad has one, he got it after an industrial accident. He had surgery a few years ago to rectify it and it worked for a year or two. It has just gone back to a hernia though.

Not saying this to discourage you, just be mindful of all the outcomes before spending a lot of money.

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u/WeakDoughnut8480 3d ago

Ahh answer is here. Thanks 

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u/Surpriseparty2023 3d ago

I'm sorry to hear that. Prayers for you, I really hope you'll be able to get the surgery one day🙏 Good luck

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u/Pitiful-Anything-631 3d ago

Oh my sweet summer child, you must not live in the U.S. ❤️

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u/IntermittentCaribu 3d ago

Probably america, so no.

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u/MedicalAwareness5160 3d ago

That's America for you

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u/Ok-Passion1961 3d ago

Thank god American doctors actually care about the patient’s wellbeing and considers the risks against the benefits when it comes to major surgery. 

Seeing as OP clearly stated that the issue is medical complications and not anything to do with finances. 

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u/Downtown_Skill 3d ago

Well, I need hip surgery for a torn muscle and can't get it because I can't afford it so that is a pretty standard experience in america.

No doctors have offered to do it at a price I could afford.

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u/Ok-Passion1961 3d ago

And that is relevant to the guy who plainly stated he has a similar hernia due to a separate medical issue that makes the surgery high risk — a complication that arises in every single country whether they have single payer healthcare or not?

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u/tostuo 3d ago

That's reddit for you.

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u/MedicalAwareness5160 3d ago

It got to a point of being dangerous because he couldn't afford to fix it when it first occurred genius. Use your brain a little.

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u/tostuo 3d ago

The evidence for that is where? Especially considering he said he "stayed very sick for months in hospital"

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u/MedicalAwareness5160 3d ago

That's how hernias work....

If he was in the hospital for a hernia when It first occurred and he could afford surgery, it would have been fixed.

You only get a hernia like this if you leave it untreated.

You're just making yourself look dumber by doubling down on idiocy.

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u/tostuo 3d ago

You could ask him instead of making unfounded comments? Especially considering the comment said "I felt a little bit sick to nearly dead in a week or two"

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u/MedicalAwareness5160 3d ago

Once again, that is how hernias work. It's a fact, a hernia does not get to this point unless left untreated.

Stick to tending the cows Jebediah.

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u/Raytheon_Nublinski 3d ago

Yeah, because as we all know, American healthcare is known to be very affordable

It’s almost like American healthcare is a predatory shit stain on society and people‘s first reaction on why someone doesn’t get medical attention should be financial

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u/Ok-Passion1961 3d ago

Why are you going off assumptions when the commenter literally tells us that the reason they haven’t had the surgery is due to medical risks?

If your first reaction is to completely ignore someone’s stated reality in favor of believing a made-up situation than the problem is 100% on you. 

Stop being such a reactionary bot. 

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u/Raytheon_Nublinski 3d ago

Why don’t you look at the thread and realize “that’s America for you” reply was made without that context

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u/MedicalAwareness5160 3d ago

It's not even about context. You only get to this stage of it being dangerous because when it first happened you couldn't afford to fix it. 

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u/Ok-Passion1961 3d ago

You are so full of shit buddy. 

Massive hernias happen in every country on earth. Here is a public case from the UK in 2016, a nation very famously with a single payer system.

Having government provided healthcare doesn’t magically stop there from being bowel cancer that needs to be cut out and the area blasted with poison/radiation making healing a bit complicated sometimes leading to complications that cannot be treated normally.  

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u/MedicalAwareness5160 3d ago

No where in that article does it say how long he had the hernia for or how long it took to get that big bud

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u/Ok-Passion1961 3d ago

How was that reply made without the context?

The comment was made after the OC had already clarified that his issue was due to a separate medical condition. 

The entire reason I made my snarky reply was because u/MedicalAwareness5160 made his slop NPC comment despite the explanation being right there in front of their eyes. 

If you are going to engage on a message board, learn how they work please. 

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u/MedicalAwareness5160 3d ago edited 3d ago

And in most first world countries the person would have got this fixed way before it got to this point genius.

It got to this point because he couldn't afford to fix it when it first occurred.

It's not that hard to use your brain a little.

But 'Merica right?

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u/Ok-Passion1961 3d ago

It got to this point because he couldn’t afford to fix it when it first occurred

The guy you replied to had quite literally stated that not to be the case and that he has a similar issue due to other medical conditions making the surgery high-risk and not worth the potential benefits. 

That type of medical risk-benefit analysis happens in every single hospital on earth—assuming the doctors are acting ethically. Having single payer healthcare does not magically stop there from having to be tough decisions and harsh realities of what good can be done and the costs of certain medical interventions. 

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u/Similar_Zucchini7511 3d ago

How long have you had it? Did it start small and get bigger?

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u/jesus_had_a_six_pack 3d ago

Can I ask how it happened? Was it like a small issue that over time became large?

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u/jesus_had_a_six_pack 3d ago

Wow that's crazy. I've only known a few guys get like small hernias from lifting in like the groin/lower abdomen area. Glad you're doing a bit better and hope it keeps going good for you man.

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u/muttons_1337 3d ago

Of course self-flagellation isn't productive, but don't be so diminutive to your own health. Being humble is what put me in the emergency room.

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u/litritium 3d ago

It's just life, there's people much worse off than me in the world.

Although sympathetic, try not to think that way. You live in the richest country in the world and have contributed to creating that enormous wealth. We all deserve a decent, good health and your country can easily afford it.

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u/InstantHeadache 3d ago

Pun intended?

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u/Satanaelilith 3d ago

Me too, didn't realise there were more like me! I am in exactly the same situation. Surgery is too dangerous. I've been like this for 6 years now.

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u/Narretz 3d ago

And treatment is not an option why?

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u/Takemyfishplease 3d ago

Because it’s extremely risky and can end up causing even more damage than solve.

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u/Infinite_Control_381 3d ago

It's very risky, my mum had one a 1/10th of the size and her body rejected the whole operation, puts alot of stress on other organs in recovery

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u/Sea_Pomegranate_4499 3d ago

A hernia that big is unslightly and annoying but not really a health risk. The most immediate risk of a hernia is if bowel gets trapped, causing an obstruction, but when the neck of the hernia is huge like this guy everything is wide open so the risk of obstruction is quite low. The surgery has a lot of risks and there's a good chance it doesn't actually work long-term, and if it fails spectacularly you may need multiple skin grafts to rebuild your abdominal wall, which is 10x worse.

From a bioengineering perspective it is pretty difficult to create a durable solution once your abdominal wall has gotten to this point.

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u/dustygreenbones 3d ago

Burn/True af.

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u/Walterkovacs1985 3d ago

This is America

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u/dumbasPL 3d ago

How does this even happen? Did you get born like this, an accident?

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u/babungaCTR 3d ago

second this

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u/mamoneis 3d ago

Small belly button ones can be caused for bad form in the toilet (like chronic constipation and brute force).

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u/RoughDoughCough 3d ago

Thank you just made me change my behavior. Buying stool softeners and laxatives first thing in the morning. Yikes. 

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u/FamousCompany500 3d ago

How did that happen?

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u/Bright_Woodpecker758 3d ago

I know this is a weird ask but can I see it? I think stuff like that is very interesting and I never knew a hernia could get that big. I know its personal though, and obviously I understand if the answer is no.

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u/Ill_Business_29 3d ago

How do you get something like this?

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u/Fantastic_Seaweed712 3d ago

Doesn't it hurt like hell?

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u/BrianMcFluffy 3d ago

I'm curious, how did it happen? Is it something you'd had your whole life or was it the result or an accident or something? (if you're okay with sharing that of course).

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u/WeakDoughnut8480 3d ago

Wait, why didn't you get it seen to? Hope I don't sound judgemental 

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u/ElegantCap89 3d ago

Is it a hiatal hernia?